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Domestic violence against children, beating and scolding children, ignoring children's feelings, blaming children every day, regardless of everything in the family, not responsible, only knowing pornography, gambling and drugs, playing mahjong and losing money, not motivated, only caring about eating, drinking and having fun.
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Violent interactions, indifference, etc. When a father is violent, it will never be as good as a single-parent family, and when a father is indifferent, it will always be a child without a father who is more perfect.
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For example, a father who never accompanies his children growing up. The father who will always only beat and scold the child and has no praise.
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Qiao Sheng's absent father is generally said that if the family is a boy, it will make the boy more well-behaved, and generally speaking, it is a mother's boy. In fact, many families are like this, because of the lack of father's love, so for some boys, some things that have been taught by their mothers since they were young are also obedient to their mothers, so many times it is very likely to cultivate a mother's boy. <>
This is also a phenomenon that we don't want to see in the society where we are returning to celebrate the feast, but it is because there are many such mothers, and many such families will make some people lack their own opinions and what they really want in the process of growing up. Because I have a strong mother, I don't need to think about anything, and all my decisions will be decided by my strong mother. Therefore, in such a situation, many people are actually unable to make their own decisions about some of their own actions, and even lack the ability to think independently after a long habit.
Many strong mothers want their children to be able to listen to some of their own ideas and some of their own things, and in such a situation, they often ignore the main wishes of the children themselves. Many of our children actually have a lot of their own ideas in the process of growing up, but because their mothers are too strong and they are not accompanied by their fathers at this time, they are very helpless for these children, and they have no own opinions or ideas. Habitually, over time, children don't care about some of their own subjective desires.
So what my mother says is what she wants, because my mother is too strong, so many times I can't do what I want to do and like what I imagine and like. <>
Generally speaking, such a family, the child's resistance is completely useless, because the mother is too strong, so she can still think of various ways to resist the child. Therefore, if the mother is very strong, and the father lacks the auspicious words of the whole child's growth, then the child is extremely likely to become a mother's boy. Because the child is indifferent to some things and does not need to care, there will be a lack of a lot of observation and details in the process of growing up.
Therefore, for education, we parents must pay special attention to it, even if they are particularly strong, they must consider their children's education carefully before they can make a decision. For a child's development, it can affect a lifetime.
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Strong mother, absent father! Such a family will raise children with low self-esteem, withdrawnness, mental development, or poor parenting. The healthy growth of children needs the company of their parents, and the strong mother will cause the child to be unassertive and dare not express his true feelings and inner feelings.
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I think that the absence of fatherly love from a strong mother will raise a child with a cowardly personality, lack of self-confidence, and timidity in doing things.
Having these four characteristics is typically high IQ.
Make a photo album of children's growth, make a birthday cake by yourself, buy a toy that your child dreams of, parents give these kinds of gifts to prove that they have carefully observed their children's lives, and children can feel the love of their parents from the gifts.
If parents always compare their children to other people's children, then the child's self-esteem and self-confidence will suffer.
In the first case, the child has been able to do his own things independently, can eat and dress himself, and the second child has already entered primary school, so the child is very good to take at this time.
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