What do you think is the difference between a white lie and a nasty piece of counsel?

Some people will feel that it is not a big deal to have disagreements at the beginning, but after a long time, the run-in is good, and the relationship will naturally go smoothly. But in fact, there are many, many relationship situations that will not go well no matter how they run in, because they are not right from the beginning, and the person is not right.

Feelings naturally have a run-in stage, but it shouldn't be the more you go back, the more you go back, what's more, why should we spend a large part of our time to bear the unhappiness in the run-in, and then wait for the kind of ethereal reconciliation that may not wait?

Those who show their true colors after a long time of dating, and you can't stand it, can only prove that he is not the right person for you in the first place. The tears shed after being together were all the water that entered my brain when I was choosing someone at the beginning.

Maybe you're not ashamed to lie, maybe you're more insistent on justice and integrity, but many times, you also have to admit that white lies can make the world a better place.

For example, when a dying patient refuses to accept it for fear of burdening his family, we think the best way is to put him at ease and tell him that his health is fine and that the medical bills are not as high as he thinks. He then discussed the details of the medical plan and the cost of the medical treatment with his relatives in private.

Do you still think that such a lie is a disgrace to integrity and justice? So, get rid of your biases. You know, the world sometimes needs white lies.

A lot of times, people confuse interfaces with white lies. This is because they fail to properly define a white lie. They often mistakenly believe that a harmless lie is a white lie.

But that's not the case. A white lie should refer to a deceptive act made out of good faith in the other person's shoes.

When a person is accustomed to making excuses for his mistakes, his credibility in the hearts of others will also be greatly reduced. So, don't use excuses as white lies, otherwise, your credit in the minds of others will be constantly overdrawn.

This also shows that most white lies are a kind of self-interest. How do you understand this? Because our so-called "white lies" are sometimes spread voluntarily to protect close people, and sometimes they are voluntarily spread in order to pander, curry, and protect people who are more powerful than us, and these are all self-interested behaviors in the final analysis.

For example, when we see our children being punished, our hearts will be more uncomfortable than our own punishment, so we will choose to lie and cover up for our children to alleviate this psychological pain; We are afraid that our boss will be belittled and retaliate against ourselves, so we choose to lie and hide the truth to protect ourselves.

The biggest difference is your own acceptance, white lies are easier for everyone to accept, and bad advice is not acceptable.

The biggest difference between the two is that a white lie will sound very good and will make you very happy, but bad advice will make you feel very uncomfortable and feel bad about the other person.

No matter how good a lie is, it is always a lie, and he is always deceiving you; No matter how bad the advice is, it is for your own good, and it is all for you to have a better development.

The biggest difference is that one deceives you, and although one is loyal, it hurts people's hearts a lot.

White lies are meant to make you very happy to hear such words, and there will be no burden, and bad advice, although hurtful, is very useful for our future development.

Square: 1If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust.

2.The "lie" itself is dark, and the white lie itself is falsehood. Although he took off the cheongsam worn by the beggar, he still could not escape the essence of his lie, and a lie meant deception, and thus hindered integrity.

The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once this lie is exposed, the damage to the other party will be deeper. 3.In my opinion, distrusting others is not only irresponsible to oneself, but also disrespectful to others, and even to others, causing losses to the interests of the collective.

The most important thing is to lose the trust of others. 4.Zi said:

People have no faith, and they don't know what they can do. "I think that if people don't talk about the trust, they will have no place in society, and they can't do anything. A "lie" is called a "lie" because it is a false, untrue, and deceitful word.

If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust. 5.Another point is that if you tell a lie, it may be used many more lies to round that lie, and there is a high probability that lying becomes a habit, lying, it's like a snowball, it will get bigger and bigger.

Opposite: 1White lies are beautiful, and when we tell small lies in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect, and tolerance.

Who doesn't want to be understood, respected, and tolerated? So, I think it's still necessary to tell a few white lies in our lives. 2.

White lies, all kinds of white lies from the starting point and result, are all to protect the other party's emotions, maintain the other party's mental health and pleasure, and are a kind of humanistic spirit. Because of the existence of white lies, the world will become a better place, the sedan car will be warmer and more harmonious, and the world will be full of sunshine. 3.

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved" or "At most, how long can I live in this world?" They all use white lies to encourage patients and let him cooperate with doctors**, and the opposing party can't blame these people for being dishonest, right?

Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, telling the truth to his relatives who are already sick? Is this an undermine to integrity?

There is a difference between a lie and a white lie, a lie is a deceptive means that you take to maximize your own interests without considering the interests and feelings of the other person, and a white lie is a necessary means to maximize the interests of the other party. My neighbor has such a situation, the old man is 75 years old this year, and he went to the hospital to be diagnosed with cancer, but the four children of his younger brother, brother, sister, and sister are all deceiving him, and no one told him that he has cancer and is still living happily. I guess that's a typical lie.

Another example, which I read in the newspapers, was that his children did not deceive him, but told him the truth, and in fact his cancer was not as bad as my neighbor's, and in reality, the old man died very young. Is there any benefit to such truths.

So, there's a big difference between a lie and a white lie.

Of course, lies are deception and ill-intentioned. And although the essence of a white lie is deception, it is good.

Speaking of lies, I dare say that none of us grew up who didn't tell a lie. Yes, everybody has lied, but some lies are well-intentioned and some are malicious! A white lie, which has a good starting point, is a lie that has to be made up when lying and reaching good deception at the same time.

Malicious lies are the act of seeking benefits for the liar, using others as only means with a strong desire for profit and weak reason, and not hesitating to harm others. The lies that a person who is good in itself is "forced" to tell in a certain state are benevolent, and this lie is a kind of kindness, a kind of concern for the subject. And people with bad intentions, no matter how disguised, how flattering, and how they rack their brains to put a white hat on their malicious lies, the lies they tell are all malicious and purposeful.

About the promise.

A lie is something that is said in order to achieve a certain goal, conceal the truth, and obtain a certain benefit.

What is the difference between a white lie and a malicious lie.

The difference is:

1. The interpretation is different.

White lies are often for the benefit of others, with the aim of achieving a good result; For example, a loved one is suffering from an incurable disease and fabricates lies in order to relieve his mental stress.

True lies are generally for their own interests, deliberately concealing the truth in order to achieve the purpose of confusing the public and fishing in muddy waters. For example, some students skip school and make up lies to deceive their family members or teachers.

2. The psychology is different.

White lies are passively fabricated in a last resort psychological condition, without mental pressure, and without worrying about the consequences of being exposed.

The true lie is done on its own initiative in a psychological state of weakness, with strong mental pressure and a great fear of the consequences of being exposed.

3. The performance is different.

A white lie is told with a calm and calm demeanor;

True lies pale and flustered when fabricated.

4. The consequences are different.

White lies can also be understood and even increased by favor after being exposed;

When the true lie is exposed, not only will it not be understood, but it will increase the hatred and disgust of the fabricator.