With three children in the family, will the eldest child be more aggrieved?

Updated on parenting 2024-07-22
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Not every family will be like this, but it is true that most families with three children will be wronged a little more. We often say that the eldest brother is like a father, the eldest sister is like a mother, in a family, the eldest is carrying an important position between the previous and the next, he must be a little earlier than the younger siblings who are sensible, and will also worry about some things in the family, the younger siblings are still young and need more care, so there are many parents who naturally ignore the eldest.

    In fact, if there are three children in the family, and then such a situation occurs, it has little to do with the children, but has something to do with the attitude and education of the parents. If parents can grasp a degree and balance, then the boss will not be ignored. In fact, when you are ready to have more children, you must consider the feelings of your first child, you have to discuss with him, and think about the problem from his point of view, rather than directly letting him accept it.

    There are a lot of people who are having a second child.

    When he had a third child, he didn't think about the feelings of the first child at all, he would think that I wanted to have a child, what did it matter to them? Have you ever thought that as a member of the family, he is also a part of the family, so why not discuss it with a new family member? Before his younger siblings were born, he was the most favored one in the family, and his parents, grandparents, grandparents, and grandparents were loved for a lifetime.

    As a result, as soon as his younger siblings were born, he should immediately become an adult, and he had to do everything by himself, and the previous things were done by his family for him, and he was also all pampered, but suddenly half of his love was gone, and then he was forced to become a big child, in fact, this is really unfair. Therefore, parents with multiple children in the family must consider your own education style and learn to reflect on yourself, so that your children can grow up in a fair and just environment.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Because as the boss, he will be more or less ignored by the adults, and he will be asked to give way to the small ones, so he will be more aggrieved.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes. Because in the case of three children, parents will think that older children should take on more responsibilities and obligations, and they will also favor their care and love towards younger children, and as the eldest child, they will be a little aggrieved.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think it will, because I have to share my things with my younger siblings, otherwise I will be reprimanded for being ignorant.

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