Which hurts people more deeply, truth or lies?

Distinguish between the two lies and the truth, and then go back and compare

Before I answered this question, I looked at the top of the list and found that he was very adamant - lies can cause harm. I disagree on this. First of all, objective facts are not subjective to hurt people, but once the facts exceed the ability to bear, the lethality is also very great, so sometimes white lies are not the best plan, but they must be a delaying plan.

Let me point out the mistakes of the big guys, we ** is the truth or the consequences of the lie which is more hurtful, not ** in their essence of what is, yes, the truth is an objective fact, but if everything is not subjectively processed, I am afraid it will only make the time to hurt people come faster. Let's talk about lies again, lies are processed by thinking and are based on objective facts (here it is not based on them), which may be contrary to objective facts, but all his original intentions are based on objective facts, and this strategy of delaying the army is also very important, because if you delay the army and wait until a person is calm, and then you explain the facts, I believe that he will definitely be more receptive and more courageous. The original intention of a lie is not to hurt people, but we all fantasize in our hearts that there will be a suitable time to explain the truth, of course, there will be this time, but once a person knows the truth without waiting for the time after the lie, the lethality will be even greater.

The above are white lies, and the following are common fabricated subjective lies) This kind of lie is more common, whether it is to play tricks on people or to make things up, these lies often do not have a chance to recover, because what they explain does not exist, so there is nothing to accept at all, but this kind of lie is much less lethal than a white lie to know the truth in advance.

After looking at the answers, I found that the vast majority of people thought that the lie was more hurtful. Yes, after all, this is what our upbringing tells us, and we can't go against it. But when you look at the reasons, most of the answers are really not on point, and can even be said to be logically confusing.

Some lies will eventually be exposed, but it was not exposed in front of the parties? How many lies in history have not been exposed? The slogan of "Da Chuxing, King Chen Sheng" is not a lie?

How many people were hurt after being poked afterwards? On the contrary, it aroused a group of people with lofty ideals to oppose Qin.

Some lies must hurt people if they are exposed。But isn't it a lie that those who believe that Marco Polo's "East is full of **" have opened up new routes? A Syrian father, in order to protect his daughter's innocence, told his daughter that guns and shells were just toys for adults, and after such a lie was exposed, the daughter would only feel full of warmth.

Some cite an extreme example to conclude that lies are more hurtfuland that's even more funny.

In fact, history and the Internet have proved that the Chinese nation is the nation that is best at deceiving each other and being most comfortable with lies(That's not what I meant, it's a major shortcoming of our national character, and if you don't admit it, you're a lie.) Otherwise, why did Mr. Lu Xun speak out".Open your eyes and see！Otherwise, why did Mr. Yu Qiuyu feel bitter about the rumors.

So I invite youFace it upGive yourself a lookFace it upIs it true that our entire nation cannot tolerate a little lie as the kings say?

In "Fate Like a String", it is the guise of the prescription that makes the old blind man have dreams and hopes for most of his life, and also saves the little blind man whose hope has been extinguished.

I think it's the truth that hurts more and that's why there are lies; It is the truth that hurts more than that, so it is so difficult not to lie; It is the truth that hurts people more, so it is the wise and brave who bravely face the truth.

Encourage you all.

On the whole, it is still a lie that hurts more. Here's why:

Lies are partly deception, deception is an immoral act, on a moral level, it is spurned by society and despised by people, so it hurts the deceived person very much.

Let's look at the other part of the lie, good deception or white lie. Although a white lie will make the other party gladly accept or stabilize the mood and situation, it is also called white deception. The ability to deceive is derogatory, and the three words of good faith are to describe deception, and the adjective of praise modifies the derogatory noun, and the obtained is still a derogatory term.

Such as the bad guys, the good bad guys. Because a bad person is a bad person, and a good bad person is a bad person, but there is a good side in his heart. Therefore, it can be seen that the original intention of benign deception is still deception, but it is just put on the sheepskin of good intentions.

Paper can't hold the fire", the lie will definitely be exposed, it is only a matter of time. It is impossible for us to pretend to be good people for a lifetime, so there will be a day when we learn the truth when we are deceitful, but it is just a matter of time. After the other party learns the truth in the future, although they understand and agree, they will also have a certain sense of loss and distrust, and this feeling will decrease as the time to learn the truth increases.

For example, parents keep silent about adoption of their adopted children, but the children must know it in their hearts, but they just don't say it, don't express it, and choose to accept the reality. So white lies can also hurt people, but the degree of harm decreases with time.

Square: 1If a person often has lies flowing in his mouth, so as to deceive him and the townspeople, over time, he will lose people's trust.

2.The "lie" itself is dark, and the white lie is itself a lie. Although he took off the cheongsam worn by the beggar, he still could not escape the essence of his lie, and a lie meant deception, so he gained integrity.

The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once this lie is exposed, the other party will be hurt even more. 3.Zi said:

People have no faith, and they don't know what they can do. "I think that if people don't be trustworthy, they will have no place in society and they will not be able to do anything. A "lie" is called a "lie" because it is a false, untrue, and deceitful word.

54.Another point is that if you tell a lie, it may be used many more lies to round that lie, and there is a high probability that lying becomes a habit, lying, it's like a snowball, it will get bigger and bigger.

In addition to thinking, people still have emotions, so why remove the factor of emotional harm. When you say what you think is the "truth", others may just think about "why you can tell it without worrying about my emotions", and what he cares about is not the right or wrong of what you say, but why you don't take into account his emotions.

And a lot of what you think is the "truth", the other party may not actually understand it, or it can be said to be dismissive, but when you actually bring it to the table and tell it, there will be an invisible embarrassment, and most people will choose to change the topic or not to the formal question itself.

Most of us in our lives are hermit crabs who live a difficult life by self-irony, shrinking themselves into the shells of others. Only carry Lu You constantly complains about himself every day to find some self-confidence, and at this time you have to pry open this stupid shell, and then tell others that this is the real you, others are unwilling to even argue and feel your so-called "truth" You are asking, why they don't want to listen to your truth.

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The truth is often more hurtful, sometimes the reason why some white lies are said is to cover up the truth, because after knowing the truth, they are afraid that they will not be able to accept it, so they like to use some lies to cover up this lie, not to deceive others, the real meaning should be worried that others will not be able to bear this truth, so as to use this method to cover up.

Hello. We'll be happy to answer for you. The truth is often more hurtful, sometimes the reason why some white lies are said is to cover up the truth, because they are afraid that they will not accept the truth after knowing the truth, so they like to use some lies to cover up this lie, not to deceive other Honglun people, the real meaning should be worried that others will not be able to bear this truth, so as to use this method to cover up.

But sometimes a lot of real lies always come out in the guise of this white lie. So at this time, he is someone else covering up his mistakes.