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If you can't avoid it, then listen more and talk less, deal with things, especially don't talk about the substance, of course, don't deliberately refute his face, try not to offend such a person.
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Don't easily believe what people say with a lot of lies, keep your distance appropriately, control your mouth, and don't let him know half a word.
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No one can only tell the truth, since they know that there are many lies, they will not be fooled, and those who are fooled are not deceived by lies or deceived by interests.
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That's an interesting question. A truth-teller is a good person, and although this will inevitably offend people, as long as he has a clear conscience. The person who tells lies is too fake, so deceitful, we should listen to what is right, and not listen to what is wrong, because he made it up nonsense, no one believes him, and he has no credibility at all.
Truth-tellers should be cautious when communicating with people who are full of falsehoods, and ask a few more whys in their hearts for each sentence he says, whether it is right or wrong, you might as well ask a few more people, and you will naturally be able to analyze it clearly.
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Less answering. People who are not on the same channel will be buried if they talk too much.
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Listen more and talk less, and politeness comes first.
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The best and most realistic way is not to make friends with people who are full of lies, if you make friends with that kind of person, no matter how you communicate, you will lose in the end.
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According to my perception of human nature, there is no such thing as a person who can only tell the truth. Everyone is defensive. As for whether you are fooled or not, it depends on your IQ and experience......
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See people and talk about people, and see hell and talk nonsense. Do unto him as he would have done unto him.
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Because the truth is often hurtful. In addition to thinking, people still have emotions, so why remove the factor of emotional harm. When you say what you think is the "truth", others may only think about Shenzhou as "why can you say it without worrying about my emotions", at this time, he cares about filial piety is not the right or wrong of what you say, but why you don't take care of his emotions.
And a lot of what you think is the "truth", the other party may not actually understand it, or it can be said to be dismissive, but when you actually bring it to the table and tell it, there will be an invisible embarrassment, and most people will choose to change the topic or not to the formal question itself.
Most of us in our lives are hermit crabs who live a difficult life by self-irony, shrinking themselves into the shells of others. Only by constantly complaining about yourself every day to find some self-confidence, and at this time you have to pry open this shell, and then tell others that this is the real you, others are unwilling or even disgusted with your so-called "truth" You are asking, why they are not willing to listen to your truth.
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Emotionally speaking, we are in the workplace, and we all want to be able to speak up and express our true thoughts to our leaders and colleagues. But the complexity of the workplace lies in this, sometimes telling the truth and telling the truth may not be recognized by others, and it may offend people because of this, and Iwazao will affect his career development. But it's not wrong to tell the truth, it's just that we need to pay attention to the Kaiku-style method of telling the truth, otherwise this society is full of falsehoods and we will be suspected in the end.
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What a person likes to hear is not necessarily a lie, but what is good for him, even if he knows that it is a lie, he still likes to listen to it.
All humans and animals are creatures that seek advantage and avoid harm, and when they encounter danger, they will choose to escape.
When you hear someone bluntly talk about your shortcomings, it will make you feel uncomfortable, and you subconsciously don't like it.
It's like girls always ask boys, "Do you want to mess with me today?"
I'm sure a lot of boys who want to survive will, I miss you.
The boy will think, I'm so busy at work today, I don't have time to think about you.
Girls often Sun Suina will ask, then do you still love me?
In fact, I can feel the boy's perfunctory, but I will still believe what the boy said, I love you.
I once heard a story that when a friend worked in a company, in addition to the normal meeting to report on his work, he would not praise his boss for how capable he was like other colleagues, and he would not say those words of praise that were extremely numb.
In the end, my friend found that those who did things sincerely left the company, but those who were less powerful stayed in the company.
My friend later left the company, but I heard a colleague mention that the boss of that company was plotted by that villain and ended miserably.
There are many kinds of lies, white lies, flattering lies, and true lies.
A white lie, knowing that some words will hurt her, then don't say it. Choosing to tell her cruel things with white lies is a protection for her.
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It is because the lies are good-sounding, which makes people feel comfortable when they hear them, and the lies are pleasing to the ears, and they will not offend people when they say it. The truth is always too straightforward, making people feel like a thorn, directly exposing the shortcomings and deficiencies of the human heart, and making people lose face.
Only by daring to listen to the truth can you achieve a better version of yourself.
People are not perfect, they have one or another deficiency, we must dare to listen to the truth, constantly discover and understand our own shortcomings from the truth, and then continue to improve.
Those who often praise and praise you are often not your friends, but people who want to please you; The person who risks offending you and tells you that you are inadequate is a true friend. The weakness of human nature is to resist talking about one's own shortcomings, and only want to show one's bright side. However, to develop, it is necessary to improve one's own shortcomings.
The truth makes people sad, sad, and unhappy, but it is often closer to the truth, which can cause the other party to feel uncomfortable, because people have narcissism, and they all hope that others will see their own advantages, appreciate their own advantages, and recognize their own advantages, and at the same time meet their own psychological expectations.
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Because some people don't want to listen to the truth, they like to be patted on the back, if you tell the truth to this kind of person, he will be unhappy, and then you will have no popularity, if you tell lies to this kind of person, he will be very happy, and then you will also be promoted and rich.
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