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Now that you've made your decision
Why do you want to ask us?
All I can say is that you don't love her enough.
It's inevitable to be uncomfortable, because you have to pay emotionally.
It was right to break up.
You can't ignore what her family thinks of her.
We won't be happy together.
Give it up, it's good for her and yours not to be together.
Pain is only temporary, much better than regretting it for a lifetime.
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Since you really like her, why care about a person's life experience?
Are you afraid that others will say that she is from the countryside in the future, or are you afraid that others will say that you married a girl from the countryside? What is different about the lives of rural people? It shows that your family doesn't just dislike her as a rural girl!
If you like a person, you have to like all of her, you don't care what kind of person she is, and you don't care if she is rural, you must know that rural people are also people, how many people who live in the metropolis are not from the countryside?
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As long as two people truly love each other, nothing can stop the pace of love, and they are afraid that one party will not be able to persist and give up. In the face of a breakup, don't say that fate and fate are over, it's just an excuse for people to not be able to explain something. You are too disgusted with the poor and love the rich, right, you can't marry the city in the countryside?
Despise you!
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If you mind so much, just change your girlfriend in the city!
Look at you
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You are divided because your house told you to divide it.
Or do you not like her being rural?
If you like her, do you need to mind if she's rural?
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Is love really poor, you don't actually love her, love and be loved will also be hurt, you will both suffer if you do this, this thing is also out of me, but on the contrary, it is my parents who oppose it, I can't afford it, he loves me, I love him, I said to my parents, I will love him, in fact, my parents are also for my good, afraid that I will suffer, do you think that only your family will object, in fact, maybe her parents will also object, don't overestimate yourself.
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What you say is not the main reason, should you think about it, whether you really like her, if you really like her, those are not reasons ...
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If you are still depressed, it proves that you don't love her enough, and if you love her, you won't care what other people think.
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If you deal with it like this and understand the problem, you will not be happy for the rest of your life. Happiness will not come to you. Small citizens.
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Stupid, selfish, unconfident, not scolding you, objective evaluation.
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I don't think you're human! Isn't it just a question of right or wrong? There is no right or wrong, it's better to be like this, you drag on for a month before deciding to do this right or wrong question!
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Whether you take your wife or your family takes your wife, what age is it, and you have to pay attention to these, as long as both parties have no opinions, but if you have this kind of thought, it will be difficult!
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You're just a selfish man. I don't know what feelings are at all.,It must be a small citizen mentality.。
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Rural people, who are not rural, *** are all from rural areas, men like you, don't do it.
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It's just a spineless Shanghainese, right?
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After breaking up, they are still in contact, that is a possible relationship, but after the breakup, they don't contact each other for a long time, and they still love each other, this situation is still relatively rare, even if they are friends, in terms of money, they should still have to be clearer.
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After breaking up, they still like each other, and they want to block each other, and then they have to give money, this logic is really a little messy, either stay together, or don't bother.
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Understandably, the relationship between the two of you is now equivalent to a good friend. Now that we have chosen to separate, I think it would be best not to have financial dealings.
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After the breakup, the two still love each other, but your ** is still on the blacklist. For this situation, I don't think your girlfriend has the idea of reconciliation. Therefore, it is recommended that you do not pay anymore, and if you give money, it may end up in vain.
Then it doesn't matter if you don't care.
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I think after the breakup, the two of you are still connected to each other and love each other, but under this premise, it is better not to give him money, because once you give him money, your relationship will become unrelated in the future.
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The feeling of breaking the thread, in fact, this is not good, so that both of you can't let go of each other, and the result can't be broken, and you can't start a new relationship, so you will drag each other down.
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Although the two people are separated, the reason for the separation is not that the two of them are separated by an external influence, they still love each other in their hearts.
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You have broken up, you don't need to give him money, although you still love each other after breaking up, then you can get back together, but this has nothing to do with giving money or not giving money.
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In fact, although you have broken up, but the people are separated, the feelings are not separated, you still have a chance to be together, don't live so painfully. In life, if there is a real opportunity, the two of you will be connected with each other at once. It's better to be together, you two are a very good couple.
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I think if you break up, if you still love each other, you should consider being together, after all, if you may love each other, I think there may be no way to separate, but it's better not to give each other money.
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In this case, it is useless for you to give him money, love cannot be moved by money, if you really love each other, then care for each other and love each other, and slowly you can return to the previous situation.
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It depends on the reason for the breakup, if the people who break up on the spur of the moment, most of them still love each other, if they feel tired together for a long time, they will only have a little memory occasionally after the breakup.
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Based on what you said, if you want to win him back, then you have to work hard. Since the two of you still love each other, you can work hard to redeem it.
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Since they still have each other in their hearts, why break up? In this case, you can sit down and talk about it, and you can start again.
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Two people who love each other, if they still love each other after breaking up, then in life, there will be some obvious behaviors, and neither of them excludes and connects with each other.
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If you still contact each other after a breakup, then I think you can redeem it, he should still have some good feelings for you, or he will not contact you often. If you really don't love each other, then I don't think you should break the tie, which is not fair to future lovers.
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If you break up and still love each other, it means that you haven't let go of each other yet, and in that case, you should get back together, whether it's a man or a woman? Which side? First, request a compound. That's all right.
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Well, it's normal to break up and get along with each other, after all, there are a lot of things that are not suitable after the breakup, but the feelings must still be like this, so it's normal to say that you like each other.
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For such things, you can't measure it in terms of money, if two people still love each other, then consider giving each other and yourself a chance. You can't talk about money, because that will make the other person think that you are using money to reunite the relationship.
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In this case, it's actually not necessary, no matter what kind of state it was before, but the current relationship between two people is considered to be an end of a state, so there is no need to do these things.
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broke up, and still love each other very much, so I think the two of you are still together, and you can get back together, alas, if the two of you break up for other reasons, the two of you should find together again, and the people who love each other should be together forever, happy.
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There must be a criterion for judging money, that is, depending on how much money you give, two, three, four or five hundred, it is excusable, and there is no need for tens of thousands.
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Now that you have broken up, you still love each other, how can it be reflected in this step? If you still love each other after a breakup, then why break up? So this is also a contradiction, if this does happen, I believe that you still have hope, or can go to the other side of happiness.
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It shows that the two people have not let go of each other, although he has blocked you, but he can still contact you and care more about you, which means that he is also entangled in whether to be with you, you have feelings, and you are also very concerned about each other and pay attention to each other, but there are some contradictions that cannot be reconciled, and he is very entangled.
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I think if there is a misunderstanding between the two of you and then you break up, and you still like each other, then you will be together again, if you haven't thought about getting back together, you should just let go.
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If it's just that the living habits are not suitable, the family disagrees, etc., then they are not separated because of emotional reasons, then they will still love each other!
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When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.
A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.
There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.
There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.
But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?
The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?
The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?
Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.
Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?
Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.
Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.
But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.
We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.
To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.
If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.
When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.
Just the most familiar strangers.
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If you hurt so much that you can't hurt it, you will let it go with all your heart, but you won't forget it, and that memory is just sealed in the deepest part of your heart.
If we can't forget, why force ourselves to forget.
Let everything go with the flow of excess under the day.
Slowly the heart will not hurt so much.
Missing will also be reduced.
Even if you think about it, it's a story with a bitter smile!
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I'm going through the same thing as you, of course, my thoughts are.
I think that feelings are a matter of two people, it is the two of you who get married and live, and the opinions of the elders have to be listened to, because without them, there would be no us.
Filial piety is a matter of course, but remember, we are now.
It's not like they used to be, the times are different, the ideas are different.
You can talk to him about your grievances, talk about them well, as long as you are firm in your beliefs, I think, anything can be.
As long as you stand on the united front to win, if he only listens to his family's words and has no own opinions, I think, he will not be for you for a long time, and one day he will break up with you because of his family's opinion So, look at his opinion, he really.
I want to be with you.
He knows what to do.
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Hold on! My boyfriend and I have been together for more than a year, and I rarely give him ** information, basically he takes the initiative, and I don't know how to care about a person, and my temper is not good, but we still insist on good communication! Wishing you happiness.
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