I can t marry someone I like, I choose to run away, okay?

Escaping is a good way to do it.

Because it's clear to avoid the brain.

Time will dilute everything.

When you're calm and sensible enough, think back to the questions you're running away from.

There may be a solution.

More likely, none of these problems need to be solved.

Forcing yourself to bear and face it, that's called self-abuse, that's called looking for death.

Your friend really doesn't have a backache when he stands and talks.

If you escape for a while, you can't escape for a lifetime, and one day you still have to face it, I have such experience, so no matter what kind of things I encounter, I choose to face it, rather than run away.

Then go far and start your life again.

Forget about the past. Don't forget it, because time is the best medicine and the cruelest blade.

You can do it all over again if you want.

Wrong! Explain your reason, in fact, you can be together without getting married.

But you can take the opportunity to calm down (whether you and he are about to get married, according to my observation, this kind of problem will occur in the United States and lovers who are about to get married!). ）

Escape is not the way to go.

Find a realistic person to marry.

There is no such thing as innocent love.

There is only the harsh reality.

Your question is unclear because liking is not the same as loving. In addition, I have to tell you: it is difficult to find someone who loves you, and it is even harder to find someone you love. And you have to be clear about what life is like in your loving life. Are you a rational person or an emotional person? Find out for yourself, right?

I would choose to marry someone I don't like, and marrying someone I don't like has the following characteristics.

First, the division of labor is clear, and there are not many contradictions.

In fact, many conflicts in marriage come from the wife's expectations and requirements for her husband, and women will have a lot of strange requirements if they blindly ask to be loved.

So when marrying someone you don't like For the wife, the husband is more of a partner, and he will not expect anything from the husband, so that the marital conflicts between the two people will be greatly reduced, and many times both parties will be grateful to the partners for occasionally helping each other.

Second, the self-satisfaction of emotional value.

Women often think about whether their other half loves them or not, and she feels happy when she feels loved, and feels sad on the contrary.

In fact, emotional value is the most useless thing, the sun will not rise because you are depressed, and the night will not come later because you are happy today.

So what's the difference between being happy and unhappy?

Perhaps the most important thing is to achieve a marriage relationship where 1 plus 1 is greater than 2, when you pin your happiness on yourself, you will get it.

For example, for the wife, the husband's flowers on Valentine's Day are nothing to look forward to, she thinks that the flowers she bought cost 100 yuan, and the husband bought them is also worth 100 yuan, so there is no difference between what she buys and what her husband buys, and at this time her happiness can be self-satisfied, and she will become a stronger person.

Third, men are more likely to succeed.

A man's character should be neither humble nor arrogant. I'm good to you, you're good to me, and I treat it like a treasure. I'm good to you, you're not good to me, I'm abandoning it and looking for the next one.

There will always be women who will appreciate you. Then, you get married, have children, work hard, and make the family better.

You were born to your parents, and you have been poor for decades, but you can't be soft-boned. Soft bones never end well.

When you marry someone you don't like, you don't need to meet his bizarre demands, you can concentrate more on your work, you don't need to have all kinds of messy holidays, you don't have to face your wife's changing emotions.

Love is short-lived, hormone secretion is also temporary, it is human nature to like the new and hate the old, so choosing to marry a person you don't like, and choosing a more suitable person to marry can reflect the value of marriage greatly.

So I will choose to marry someone I don't like, the best result is that the person you like is also the right person for you, if not, Yu Rift may choose a suitable marriage partner to be happier.

How to force? It's also funny, marriage is based on the will of both parties, and others don't want you to force it? By criminal means?

Think too much. Marriage conditions refer to the requirements that must be met for marriage to be established. According to the provisions of China's Marriage Law, the conditions for marriage include positive conditions and negative conditions.

According to the provisions of the Marriage Law of our country, the positive conditions for marriage include:

1. Marriage must be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and neither party is allowed to coerce the other party or any third party to interfere with it.

2. The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women.

Marriage is prohibited under any of the following circumstances:

1) A person who has a spouse;

2) Immediate blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations;

3) Suffering from a medical illness that is medically considered unfit for marriage.

The Marriage Law only stipulates the principles of diseases that are medically considered unsuitable for marriage, and does not specifically list them. The Maternal and Infant Health Care Law stipulates that a man and a woman shall have a premarital medical examination certificate or a medical appraisal certificate at the time of marriage registration. Premarital medical examinations include examinations for three types of diseases: severe hereditary diseases, designated infectious diseases, and related mental illnesses.

After premarital medical examination, the physician shall explain the situation to both the man and the woman and give a medical opinion if the designated infectious disease is within the period of infection or the relevant mental illness is within the period of onset; Marriage may be obtained if a man or a woman consents to long-acting contraceptive measures or who do not have children after sterilization.

If the above conditions are met, both the man and the woman who are required to marry must register their marriage in person at the marriage registration office. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. Obtaining a marriage certificate establishes the relationship between husband and wife. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

I think you have to be clear, no

If you are in such a hurry, the more anxious you are, the easier it is to make mistakes, and the more you make mistakes, the easier it is to mess things up.

When encountering things, the first rational analysis is, why is he unwilling to marry you? Make this clear first, and then think about countermeasures, the current situation is not hopeless, there is no complete hopeless thing in the world, there are two basic ideas of the I Ching is "change" and "things must be opposed", the biggest disadvantage may be transformed into the biggest advantage. The key is that you get to the point!

If he is because of his heart, how can he not be careless? The answer to this question is actually only known to you, because we don't know him, and we don't know the other women around him, how to let him know that you are his only one (even if you are not the best, but if you can make him believe that you are the best, then you have become the best!). That's what you're going to do.

Another point, people should be sensible, especially women, especially women who are eager to marry themselves, you may not like to hear this, but it is true. Do you really think that he will not marry in this life? If he is still paying attention now, I don't understand why you think of him so much, I suggest you still think clearly, there are two more sentences I have to say:

Life is still long, and there is nothing that cannot be earned. Or maybe you have lost something and rush to fix it, but in fact the more you rush to make it up, the more likely it is to make mistakes. If you think about it, since it's not everything that you lose, you can actually start over!

Marriage is consensual and must not be done if coercion is against the law. If one party is unwilling to marry you, it proves that the other party does not like you, and there is no point in getting married.

Absolutely not. Marriage is autonomous, and only a man and a woman can obtain a marriage certificate to marry if they are completely voluntary, and forcing one party to marry is a crime and is punishable by law.

The word forced doesn't seem to be bai, okay! It's better to change it to do your best, what zhi dao will not be a smooth version, twists and turns, if you insist on the right, there may be results, the key is to find the reason why she doesn't like you, don't fantasize, don't go to extremes, deal with it calmly, love needs wisdom, not wishful thinking, no one can teach you this, look at your ability!

I won't force him, the twisted melon is not sweet, but I will try to change him to make him like me.

Twisted melons are not sweet, this kind of thing can't be forced. It is best to impress him with true affection, and only when two people love each other can they get married.

Marriage, in this society, you and I are willing, can you still force the other party to marry you and pull the certificate?

What are you forced to do?

Figure what?

It's telling that you like each other, but they don't want to marry you.

It's best not to force this kind of relationship, even if two people can finally enter the palace of marriage, it is not what the other party wants, and it is difficult to be happy in such a life.

How to force it? What kind of society can you still rob now, and if you don't want to marry you, you like each other and the other party doesn't like you, it's as simple as that, and the twisted melon is not sweet, or find someone you like and the other party likes you to marry is a happy aqui te amo.

No, marriage is a matter of two people.

If you live with someone who doesn't love you.

I love him very much, it's so tired.

As a person who has been married, my answer is that I will not force you to see it early and let it go early, really he doesn't want to, that means he doesn't like you or the answerer likes it a little but not as much as you like half of him, marriage can meet people who like each other and have the same three views, of course, it's best, if you don't meet us, don't worry, marriage is doomed, since others have been euphemistically refused, we still have to have a little dignity and a little backbone, let go early, and always meet the right person at the right time, You like him, and he just likes you.

No, loving her should respect her. She doesn't want to marry you, but you're still friends. Friends will also see each other often.

If you like it, you want both parties to like it, if you force it, it's counterproductive, I won't!

No, because the melon of the twisted bai is not sweet, and the edge of the forced du is not round. It's better to find a person who likes you more and is willing to marry you. Although the result is, of course, to be with the person you like, but the person you like is unwilling to marry you, you are barely unhappy, and your married life will be unhappy.

Marriage is a major event in life, and it is best to be willing and not forced.

If the person you like is not willing to marry you, how can you force the other person?

Is it really funny that you forced him to marry you, and you put a knife against him? Or is it to cook life into a ripe meal?

I'm telling you how that's possible? If he doesn't want to marry you, you'll never get him.

Can such a thing be forced?

That's impossible.

You can't keep people and keep your heart!

The other party should not be forced, the twisted melon is not sweet.

If I don't want to marry you, I still have a 6, and it's not a business to catch up. After all, DAO, marriage is just a formality, get a marriage certificate, take a wedding license, hold a wedding, relatives and friends on behalf of congratulations, and then what? On the night of the wedding, he may have run away from home or started a cold war on the first day, and his face and heart are not in harmony, and the days to come are so long, how can he survive?

Don't believe too much in love over time, you will only get tired of it for a long time, how much vigorous love will be dull, not to mention you who are twisted together?

So, let it go. Give each other a way out.

Since he is the person you like, are you willing to lower his eyebrows and lower his eyes every day, and he doesn't bother to talk to you or live with you with a smile or a word? Or does they not like you, you are not doing well, and you don't want them to be good? Love and kill each other?

No, I'll just give up.

Falling in love between men and women is a process of respecting each other's voluntariness, understanding each other, and cultivating emotions. If one party is unwilling to talk or is unwilling to continue talking, the courting partner should respect his or her wishes and should not force him or her to fall in love. But in real life, it happens that one party proposes to terminate the relationship, and the other party entangles and forces the other party to talk.

In particular, there have been criminal incidents in Shanghai, Hangzhou, Hubei and other places where the marriage is not successful, that is, the woman's appearance is destroyed by extremely cruel means. What should be done about such people? One of the most basic elements of the freedom to marry is that marriage must be fully voluntary between the man and the woman, and that neither party may coerce the other or interfere with any third party.

Falling in love is not marriage, it is just a process of understanding and cultivating feelings for each other, and one party cannot be allowed to force the other to accept or maintain a romantic relationship. Forcing others to fall in love is a violation of citizens' right to personal liberty and is an illegal act. In the absence of an arrangement by others, it is not a marriage for sale.

Therefore, after the husband files for divorce, he should find out the reasons for the change in feelings after marriage and the status of the relationship between the husband and wife, do a good job of ideological work, and mediate and reconcile. If mediation fails, a judgment may be made for divorce or divorce may not be granted in accordance with law.

For those who are forced to fall in love regardless of the other party's wishes, and who are pestered and messed around when they are refused, the other party may report to their unit or organization and ask for help to be properly handled. For those who are forced to fall in love by threatening to harm their reputation, their bodies and their lives, they may report it to the public security organs on the basis of the facts, and request that education and punishment be carried out in accordance with law. Where an act of harm has already been committed, causing bodily harm to the other party, the victim and his family may immediately report the case to the public security organs, and the judicial organs will pursue their legal responsibility in accordance with law.

During the marriage, the woman asked the man for money rings, bicycles, cosmetics and other property, and after the marriage, the man's thinking changed and he filed for divorce on the grounds of buying and selling marriage. Is this a marriage for sale? Is a divorce granted?

A marriage for sale refers to a marriage in which another person is arranged for the purpose of extorting property. Some of its manifestations are explicitly asking for value; Some people take a lot of money and property in the name of dowry. Buying and selling marriages is prohibited by law and is illegal.

If one of the parties to a marriage requests a divorce, the divorce shall be granted after it is ascertained that the parties have not established a relationship between husband and wife after the marriage. Is it a marriage in which a woman asks for property from a man during a marriage? It is necessary to make a specific analysis.

The judicial interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on this type of issue holds that "if one party claims property from the other party, but the marriage is basically voluntary, it is not a marriage of sale". Judging from the fact that the above-mentioned woman asked the man for gold rings, bicycles and toiletries, and the marriage was not arranged by others, it is not a marriage of sale. Therefore, after the husband files for divorce, he should find out the reasons for the change in feelings after marriage and the status of the relationship between the husband and wife, do a good job of ideological work, and mediate and reconcile.

If mediation fails, a judgment may be made for divorce or divorce may not be granted in accordance with law.