There is something very pessimistic in my heart!

。。Tending to an avoidant personality.

Because you want to socialize, you have passive avoidant personality disorder.

The active type itself is accustomed to solitude and does not crave sociality).

The formation of the passive type is: because the communication signal is always not responded to or does not get a good response from the communication object, resulting in psychological contusion, this psychological contusion gradually accumulates, affecting the overall personality, which is reflected in the lack of confidence in communication, wanting to communicate but afraid of being hurt, contradiction and depression.

Because of such a state of mind, it leads to a lack of affinity in your image, and even gives people a sense of alienation, which in turn makes it more difficult to get a response from the communication partner, which in turn causes psychological contusion, and then acts on the overall personality.

This creates a vicious circle.

But don't worry, it is estimated that you are in your teens, and people's psychological maturity will not reach their twenties, and there is still psychological plasticity. And your inclination should not be very extreme, as long as you take the initiative to socialize with people more, observe how others interact (to learn good skills), talk to friends, relatives and elders, and gradually build up the confidence and experience of communication, I believe you will soon be able to get out of the predicament.

If the problem is really, really serious, see a psychologist.

Don't take yourself too seriously! Without you, the earth would still be spinning! Others won't care too much about you, so get yourself done first!

Try to take the first step towards someone else.

Say "Yes, you can do it" to yourself in the mirror every day

Find like-minded people.

Also, life is a process of searching.

Let it be.

Chance, or probability, is that the longer you spend soaking in it, the better your chances.

The online world is no match for the real world, and the online world doesn't have what we want. (Here's my opinion).

are all thinking about how to live better.

Everybody thinks differently! Even the most powerful psychologist can't tell!

Lack of spiritual support, people who don't have concerns in their hearts, so they always feel that there are shortcomings.

First of all, you need to know what you need, then set yourself a goal and give yourself time to complete it. Before that, you can find something to do, such as reading some books, listening to **, and outdoor sports. Because by doing so, you can reduce your emotions.

If you continue to accomplish your goals, you will unconsciously engage in them and become positive. If you want to go on for a long time, you have to keep your mindset. You can communicate with people more and show your happy side.

Do more things that you find meaningful or interesting.

Go outdoors with your friends, do some competitions and other activities to boost your emotions.

Get out and about more activities and set lofty ideals.

Socialize with cheerful people.

Don't deliberately run away, you're not too young, and you know it's useless to keep running away. Only by facing him bravely will you find that it is nothing more than that. Although you have been unhappy, worried, scared, fearful, etc., you have been doing a lot lately, but can you solve it?

Yes, you can't, so what are you worried about, scared of, afraid of? If you can, then what are you worried about, scared of, afraid of? This is a demon.,Get over it.,The road will be smoother in the future.。。

Don't give yourself too many mental hints, don't think too much, just do what comes to mind now, don't think about the consequences. Just don't break the law. Finally, (judging that LZ is a man.)

Remember, we're men!! The man who stands up to the sky!!

What are you afraid of, don't think about them. Isn't love just death? What can you do, you haven't died, look at the good places, and the road is getting wider and wider.

See a psychiatrist. It's mental illness.

Go see a counselor.

Kant's epitaph:

There are two things that the more I think about them, the more amazing I feel, and the more awe I feel: the starry sky above our heads and the high moral code of our hearts, which prove to me that God is above us and in our hearts!

Observe carefully, listen attentively, speak carefully, echo appropriately, smile relentlessly, and, when it's time to get out... Hehe, I agree with this, I understand your question, do you want to be a psychiatrist? I have a kind of experience, that is, when you sincerely think about others, treat others with sincerity, and solve problems for others, so that people feel that you are a good person, and you are a trustworthy person, people will tell you the beginning and end of things and even the depths of your heart?