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Clause. 1. Control the anger in your heart!
People are irritable in the face of adversity! Once you get angry, you will lose your mind. Once you lose your mind, you will do something out of the ordinary.
Once you do something out of the ordinary, you basically make the situation worse, or even a complete failure! Where there is life, there is hope! Don't bury yourself completely!
Just like in a basketball game, often when you are behind, the players start to be irritable, the defensive action starts to get bigger, and it is easy to make irrational moves to cause your own malicious fouls, and thus get sent off, which will make the situation worse and directly lead to losing the game. So we should control the anger in our hearts!
Clause. 2. Analyze the current situation!
In the face of adversity, we should calm down and analyze the current situation. How bad is the situation? Just like the CBA finals, Sichuan lost to Liaoning in the first game, or Liaoning has completely lost the finals in the fifth game.
If we lose the first game, we can catch up. If it is already a complete failure. Then let's start all over again.
Clause. 3. Take appropriate measures!
Just like Gou Jian, the protagonist of the story of lying on the salary and tasting courage, when he knew that he had failed, he took decisive measures to bribe King Wu's subordinates and protect himself, so that he had the three thousand Yuejia behind him to swallow Wu. If Gou Jian didn't take any measures at that time, then he would have been completely defeated!
Clause. Fourth, analyze the causes of the problem.
failed, we have to analyze the reasons for the failure. What caused us to fail? Is our plan not done well, or the market work is not in place, or our products are really not competitive.
Knowing the cause of the problem, we will prescribe the right medicine to our own disease.
Clause. 5. Correct your own problems and move on!
Don't fall, just lie on your stomach. If it fails, we have to start all over again. It can be said that success is built on countless failures.
We need to pack our bags and move on. The very famous Chu-Han dispute in history. Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty Liu Bang was defeated by Xiang Yu several times, but it was because of Liu Bang's insistence that he finally defeated Xiang Yu and became emperor.
Clause. 6. Firm your beliefs!
Firm in our beliefs will bring us out of adversity. At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Cao Cao led troops to attack Zhang Xiu. The march was surrounded by barren mountains and bald mountains, no people, and no water source within a radius of dozens of miles.
The soldiers tried their best, but they couldn't get a drop of water to drink. The situation is very bad. At this time, Cao Cao had an idea and said that there was a plum forest in front of him, and everyone could quench their thirst by eating plums.
So everyone had the belief to continue the march, and with the support of this belief, they finally found a place with water and got out of the predicament. This is also the story of Wangmei's thirst. This story teaches us that faith can bring me out of adversity.
Precautions. You need to combine the actual situation and continue to train yourself!
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If you can't change the environment, you can change yourself. If you can't change yourself, then change your job.
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How do we self-regulate ourselves in the face of adversity?
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It is inevitable to encounter difficulties, so no matter how difficult it is, don't give up, since you want to overcome difficulties, you must persevere in doing it, and perseverance is victory. Do things don't give up halfway, three days of fishing and two days of drying nets that can't be done, persist, the predicament will become a good situation in life, the secret of success lies in persistence, people who can face the predicament, in order to turn the danger into a safe. Take the predicament as an intangible wealth of life, the predicament is not terrible, the terrible thing is that you dare not face it, in fact, the direction of the headwind, is more suitable for flying, just like an eagle, if you dare not fly in the sky, how does it know that it is an eagle fighting in the sky.
If you don't give it a try, you'll never know what the ending will be.
We must bravely face the predicament, challenge all the difficulties and obstacles, and only with the difficulties and dangers can we make ourselves stronger, and choosing to escape will only make us retreat. When the predicament comes, be strong to face it, make up your mind, and overcome all difficulties in order to enjoy the fruits of success, and the predicament is not terrible. When faced with a dilemma beyond my ability, I will choose to face it bravely, not to run away from the dilemma, there is always a time to solve the dilemma, but when I can't do anything, companionship is the most important thing at the moment.
Do everything with your heart, as long as you are worthy of your heart and leave no regrets. There will always be someone who will understand that you have worked so hard.
In times of difficulty, you must remain positive and self-motivated, but also take action, have a direction of efforts, you have to believe in yourself, the difficulties in life will not always be maintained, the difficulties will always pass. What we should do is to compromise or give up temporarily, not blindly pursuing the ideal result, but more squarely facing the problems that exist in reality. In the face of difficulties, we must not only learn to face difficulties, but also know how to face trade-offs; Temporary compromise does not mean giving up forever, only by working harder will you become stronger; When you are full-fledged, it is the time for you to show your abilities and talents, and it is more meaningful to turn all your regrets into dreams and realize them one by one.
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When faced with a dilemma, we should be brave, find out where the problem is, and then come up with corresponding countermeasures and solve it, so that we can do it.
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We should work hard to overcome some difficulties, adjust our mentality, and find opportunities to solve these difficulties, which will allow us to face some things better.
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First of all, we should communicate, and the two people should make the problem clear, not let the contradiction stay overnight, and do not have a cold war, and solve it in time.
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We should face such problems rationally, then analyze the problems that arise, and finally solve them rationally.
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First of all, good times and bad times are opposed to each other, people in this life can not be smooth sailing, there will always be this or that problem, good times are of course what everyone wants, but when we encounter good times, we should thank God, but also thank ourselves, if there is no hard work and the care and support of the people around us, how can we get it? And you should never be proud in good times, because after good times, adversity will come soon, and when adversity comes, you must not lose your fighting spirit, you should go against the current, to overcome it, and not to give in to it. Secondly, in the face of good times, you must not be complacent, if you are complacent, you will be complacent, stagnate, and your grades will decline all the way, in addition to not being proud, but also try to encourage yourself; In the face of adversity, of course, we must not be discouraged, we must face it with a normal heart, sum up experience and lessons from it, find out the location and cause of mistakes, so that we can make corrections on a basis, and we must also motivate ourselves, so that we must work harder, and we must give full play to our own strength not to admit defeat.
In this way, you can make a big leap forward in your performance. In the face of good times, we should also look at it correctly with a balanced attitude, not only to see its advantages, but also to see its shortcomings, but also to see the happiness it brings to people, and in the face of adversity, we should move forward bravely, face difficulties, hone ourselves in pain and adversity, and make ourselves a person who can stand the test and have the courage to face adversity.
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Don't be arrogant in good times, but be humble and cautious. Don't be discouraged in the face of adversity, and try to make a comeback!
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Don't be conceited when you encounter good times, and don't be discouraged when you encounter adversity.
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1. Accept your own shortcomings, accept the fact that your ability is limited, and choose what you really want to do in your life and the person you really want to love.
2. To release the pressure in our hearts, we should learn to relax our mood, that is, to let our mood sink and not be impetuous. Especially when you encounter difficulties, you should not put too much pressure on yourself, in fact, when you have a lot of ideas, you are often mediocre and self-disturbing.
3. Talk to friends in a timely manner, we all have good friends or relatives, so when we encounter difficulties, we must know how to self-regulate, don't hold it in our hearts, but should be with friends, talk to them more, and let them give ideas.
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