Someone is pursuing my object, what should I do?

There are other suitors in love, and I think it is necessary to tell your other half, because for both parties who love each other, there should be no hiding in this regard, and they should be honest with each other.

When you are in love, there will inevitably be people who love you to pursue you. But I am not single, and when there are other suitors, some people will choose to hide the object, and some people will choose to tell their partner honestly about the fact that someone is pursuing them.

1. Concealment will lay mines for feelings.

In a relationship, one of the most taboo things is to conceal it. Although two people love each other and start a relationship, and the lives of two people are integrated together, they still need a certain amount of space for each other. Because everyone has their own privacy and their own little secrets, not everything has to be said with their own object.

However, in matters of principle, I believe that it is necessary to be responsible for the object of one's own affairs. For example, in a relationship, there is a person who loves him who is pursuing himself, then at this time he is faced with the choice of confession and concealment, many people's choice is to reject the other party and then do not tell the object as if the matter does not exist, most people who make this choice are generally worried that the object will think more if they know. However, you must know that "if you don't know about it, you can't do it unless you do it", and if something happens, then it will be discovered one day.

This is equivalent to planting a mine and a time bomb in this relationship, and when the subject finds out about it, the subject will only feel more insecure.

If someone pursues your object, you can communicate with your object, let him tell the pursuer that he has a partner who refuses, if he doesn't make it clear to give you a sense of security, I feel that he doesn't value you so much in this relationship

It depends on whether the relationship between you and your girlfriend is stable.,The relationship between the two of you is good, even if someone else chases, it won't be affected in any way.,Unless you are distracted.,Talking to you and thinking about whether others will be better... Otherwise, someone who wants to chase a direct sentence refuses and does not give others any chance to have any illusions. After all, flies don't bite seamless eggs.

Warn the person who is pursuing your partner, send him a message directly, and tell the person who is pursuing your partner that your partner already has you, please don't be a third party.

You have to work hard to make yourself good, let the object worship you, fall in love with you, and don't let others take advantage of the loopholes.

Give up for the time being to see what happens.

1.Strengthen mutual trust: It is well known that if a person genuinely wants to pursue another person, then he is bound to do something tangible, whether it is a gift, or a verbal concern.

Either way, after a long time, the person you get along with day and night will definitely be aware of, compared to the suspicion after the awareness, it is better to tell the other half directly about the things that are pursued by others, and show your attitude by the way. Strengthen mutual trust.

Therefore, even if it has become a romantic relationship, you must pay attention to respecting yourself and loving yourself. Of course, don't use a tough tone to tell the other person that you have a way back or something like that, but show that you are firm in your feelings and not half-hearted.

3.Handle interpersonal relationships: In fact, telling your partner that you are being pursued by others is also an invisible reminder to deal with the relationship between yourself and your suitor. Don't break the thread, cherish your existing feelings.

Of course, each pair of lovers has a different way of getting along or having a different love experience, and when we encounter such a situation, we must deal with it accurately and decisively.

If someone is pursuing you, try to tell each other if you are in a good relationship, so that you can increase mutual trust.

In a relationship, if someone else pursues you, you must tell that person, explain your own attitude, you can tell others that you are now famous, so there is no way to be with you.

Although we should be single-minded in our relationship, if the person who pursues you is on better condition and you have feelings for him, then you can choose to break up with your current boyfriend and accept your suitor, but you can't step on two boats, which is disrespectful to the other two people.

Refuse, resolutely refuse, from the beginning to the end, guarding yourself like a jade is a kind person.

I should tell my suitor that I already have a lover, thank you for your love for me.

If you want to step on two boats, then you must have super abilities and conditions.

It is only right that you are happy to have someone who pursues you, proves that you are attractive.

Summary. If you don't want to accept other people's pursuits, the best way to do this is to be clear and keep your distance. You can politely tell the other person that you already have a partner and don't want any further relationship.

When interacting with each other, you need to keep your distance and try to avoid too much intimate contact and proximity.

If you don't want to accept other people's pursuits, the best way is to be clear about the number of tables and keep your distance. You can politely tell the other person that you already have a partner and don't want any further relationship. When interacting with the potato recipe, you need to pay attention to keeping a distance and try to avoid too much close contact and proximity.

If you also have feelings about your suitor but don't want to betray your partner, you may want to consider being honest with your suitor. You need to be clear about Sensun's feelings and bottom line, while also respecting the feelings of the suitor. If you decide not to build a relationship with your suitor, you need to firmly declare your decision and keep your distance.

What can be told is to recognize him, and it is also to keep your object at a certain distance from the person who likes him!

Why not tell?

The other party is excellent.

You're a little bit unconfident...

In this case....Communicate well with your partner.

Don't lose your best qualities....

You object chose you....You are the best.

You're slow to shoot emotionally.

Then don't tell the hidden hole....

Let's be honest....It's okay, don't mention your partner.

The sluggish, the better....It's okay to find yourself a rival.

Good luck in the new year!

I think you can talk to the other party about anything, communicate with each other, and there are others who pursue their own objects, and your object should be the one who regrets touching Chu, and he should know it.

This should be up to him to bring Wu Shi to tell you, it's her orange limb herself who is pursuing, will he know about it? You already know what is stupid, don't you think the order is messed up?

Is there such a necessity? Won't you quarrel?

It must be said that trust is the most important thing.

Hello friend, you have someone else in the second pursuit, whether to tell the other half, there is no right answer, this is different from person to person. Be sure to master it according to your actual situation. It's different.

If you don't tell the other person, this matter will plant a seed in your heart, and in your life, any quarrel you have in the future, this seed will sprout and grow. will involuntarily force you to keep asking yourself, there was a person who was so good to me back then, why did I follow you blindly? So he put himself in the predicament of low self-esteem and self-denial.

Therefore, we need to have something to say about feelings, after all, the relationship we see is not for a while, but for a lifetime.

Some people also say don't tell the other half, because if you tell him, it will make the other party think that you are demonstrating and testing him, after all, love is not a test, it is just a place for two people to be comfortable and support each other, and when we are together, we can be less perfect. So don't turn your life into a questionnaire, let your partner do the questions all your life, and live a good ruler life into a stupid scenery to make your partner linger and forget to return.

If there is a target, there are other people chasing Yela and begging him, what should he do? I think this is a matter of your own personal definition, if you are more loyal to your original object or more optimistic about him, you must stick to your position!

I feel like it's either rejecting that suitor. Either break up with your current one.

Someone is chasing his own object, should I tell him, I think this must not be able to tell him, this kind of personal privacy, if this privacy is not told to him, it will definitely make the other party uncomfortable, and the old fan is not conducive to the relationship between you!

Don't build a bridge for someone else to fall in love with your object, you tell him that it is tantamount to helping him against your interests, and you and your partner will go on normally.

Isn't this something that should be told to the other party, should I be sincere on my side? There are some things on your side, and I think you should tell him that you should show your trust in him and her trust in you.

There's no need to let it be, just pay a little attention to yourself

Yes, so as not to have any misunderstandings in the future.