What if there are other suitors in the process of being in love?

If you are pursued by someone else in the process of love, you can confess to your partner and discuss it with two people. Many difficulties in love or marriage need to be overcome by two people together, and the challenges of marriage and love are definitely one of the difficulties, and this kind of difficulties are also opportunities to some extent, and if handled properly, it can make the partner feel more secure and reduce their stress a lot.

After all, the person being pursued has not done anything wrong, and although two people cannot be absolutely frank in love, it is still very necessary to inform the partner as soon as possible on such principled issues.

Don't be friends with the person you're pursuing anymore. If two people forcibly become friends, there are no more than two results, the first result is that the two people will get along very awkward in the future, and the result is that they will no longer be friends, and the second result is that this behavior of being friends will rise to ambiguity, and the result may make their relationship light red, and they will also have a deep sense of guilt.

So if you are confessed that you are very confident in your current relationship and reject the other party, you must cut off the possibility of continuing to be friends with the other party.

You only need to do a good job in the handling of intimate relationships, keep a certain distance from each other, a resolute attitude can be perceived by the other party, if every time is ambiguous, then this is a reason for the other party to continue to pursue, so to deal with this relationship rationally, a resolute attitude is essential, since it is completely unrealistic, you must resolutely deal with the distance between two people from your own point of view, and you can't escape.

After all, you have an object, you should refuse it sternly, and don't hesitate or be soft-hearted.

There are other suitors in love, and I think it is important to tell your other half, because for both parties who are in love, there should be no hiding on this issue, and they should be honest with each other.

When falling in love, it is inevitable that there will be people who love themselves to pursue themselves, but they are not single, and when there are other suitors, some people will choose to hide the object, and some people will choose to tell their object honestly about what someone is pursuing.

1. Concealment will lay mines for feelings.

In a relationship, one of the most taboo things is to conceal it, although two people want to love together and start a relationship, and two people's lives are integrated together, they still need a certain amount of space. Because everyone has their own privacy, they have their own little secrets, not everything has to be said with their own object, however, in terms of principle, I think it is responsible for their own object, for example, in a relationship, there is a person who loves him is pursuing himself, then at this time he is faced with the choice of confession and concealment, many people's choice is to reject both parties and then treat this matter as if it does not exist and do not tell the object, Most people who make this choice are afraid that the subject will think more after they know, but there is a saying that "if you want people not to know, unless you don't do it", something happens, then one day it will be discovered, which is equivalent to burying a mine for your feelings and planting a time bomb, when the subject finds out about it, the subject feels more insecure and feels that it has been concealed.

Second, be honest with each other and show sincerity.

In the face of other suitors appearing in a relationship with you, choosing to refuse or conceal that this thing does not exist, this is obviously impossible, what happens is what happens, things will pass, but things will never go away, so in the face of this situation, the best choice is to calmly explain to the object that someone is pursuing themselves, and treat yourself to such a thing and your attitude towards this matter.

And explain the treatment method to your own object, so that your object will also feel at ease and have a sense of security.

Refuse directly, lest the existing heart is small, jump off the building or be disabled.

If there are other suitors in a relationship, it is best to tell your other half, and if the situation is not very serious, there is no need to say it.

First of all, you should be honest in your relationship, face each other, and explain some of your emotional life and emotional experience to the other party. If you encounter some problems in your relationship, you should also explain it clearly to the other party, so that the other party can help yourself where they can help.

Second, if there is a suitor, you must decisively reject the other party. Because you already have a partner, a boyfriend or a girlfriend, you can't have other emotional disputes, otherwise it will cause a lot of people to be disgusted or other people to react excessively.

Third, if you don't reject the other party and hide your boyfriend at the same time, then the relationship is likely to come to an end. Because the party who changed the sentence will think that you are not honest enough with him, and just treat him as a spare tire.

Treat it all. Finally, you can also think about it empathically, if your partner has a suitor, and he hides such a fact, and has a good chat with the other person. Then you will definitely be very angry, so at this time, you still have to compare your heart to your heart.

For example, I will be very sincere to each other in my relationship, and I will discuss any problems with the other party. If there is a new suitor, he will definitely reject the other party, because he already has a partner, and even if he wants to talk, he will talk about it after breaking up.

Explicitly refuse, tell the suitor that I already have a partner and enjoy it.

In the process of falling in love, if there are other suitors in Xunwangzhou, I think you should still think clearly about what you want, instead of saying what to do, you should think clearly about who you are with Linghe.

Being a better version of yourself is the key, which means that in this case, you must bring out the best in yourself.

There are other suitors in love, and I think it is necessary to tell your other half, because for both parties who love each other, there should be no hiding in this regard, and they should be honest with each other.

When you are in love, there will inevitably be people who love you to pursue you. But I am not single, and when there are other suitors, some people will choose to hide the object, and some people will choose to tell their partner honestly about the fact that someone is pursuing them.

1. Concealment will lay mines for feelings.

In a relationship, one of the most taboo things is to conceal it. Although two people love each other and start a relationship, and the lives of two people are integrated together, they still need a certain amount of space for each other. Because everyone has their own privacy and their own little secrets, not everything has to be said with their own object.

However, in matters of principle, I believe that it is necessary to be responsible for the object of one's own affairs. For example, in a relationship, there is a person who loves him who is pursuing himself, then at this time he is faced with the choice of confession and concealment, many people's choice is to reject the other party and then do not tell the object as if the matter does not exist, most people who make this choice are generally worried that the object will think more if they know. However, you must know that "if you don't know about it, you can't do it unless you do it", and if something happens, then it will be discovered one day.

This is equivalent to planting a mine and a time bomb for this relationship of oneself, and when the subject finds out about it, the subject will only feel more insecure and feel that it has been concealed.

Second, be honest with each other and show sincerity.

When faced with other suitors in a relationship, it is obviously impossible to refuse and hide that it does not exist, what happens is what happens, things will pass, but things will never go away. Therefore, when faced with this situation, the best choice is to be honest with your object about someone pursuing yourself, and explain to your object how you treat such a thing and how you deal with it. In this way, it will make the subject feel more secure and feel at ease, their subject does not need to be silently protected, they do not want to be hidden, and they want to be honest with each other.

If you don't do anything to be sorry for your relationship, then you won't worry about confessing your situation to your partner. Only those who do things that are invisible to people, stealing chickens and dogs, will be afraid to confess.

It's okay to sit on your own, especially in the process of falling in love, if there are other suitors, you don't have to be deliberately disturbed by the other party, and you can show your best side.

When you have other suitors, of course, you must be honest and trust each other in this kind of love, and you must tell the other party who you are pursuing now, and how to refuse, so that it will not cause misunderstanding in the future.

Reject it directly, and rot it in your heart, you don't say that no one knows, and everyone thinks you are an upright person.

The world is so big, and the meeting between the two is a gift from the old moon. Why not save the best attitude for the people you love the most?

There are two most important things in this life.

One is to do a good job, and the other is to find the right lover.

When the sun rises, go to the cause, and when the sun sets, embrace your lover.

If you can control your temper with each other, the future of the relationship will be full of certainty.

Control the temper and produce harmony.

When there is a conflict, the higher the anger value of each other, the lower the temperature between each other, at this time, you can temporarily calm down, through reading, self-reflection, and calm.

Wait for the weekend leisure time, two people sit together and communicate calmly, and use time to get rid of each other's bad habits and achieve better each other.

You must know that out-of-control emotions are like killers, which consume all sense of security little by little, and finally become moody, and can only watch the feelings fade away. A partner who understands each other will not be tired; However, mutual understanding requires careful insight and empathy.

Why are there so many misunderstandings between people? Is it because I'm used to seeing your sharpness, but I ignore your gentleness? Is it because you are used to seeing your stubbornness, but ignoring your vulnerability?

The taste of not being understood is painful and full of contradictions. I can't talk about the tone of "respect", which makes people tired.

We care so much about each other in our hearts, so we take a moment to understand and really understand you and her.

What I hope and believe will eventually reach is that we will strengthen our relationship on the basis of mutual respect, you know that my words are insincere, and I understand your joys and sorrows. You can sit face to face with someone, don't talk or feel embarrassed, and be able to share the silence together.

Refuse, resolutely refuse, the principle is that someone pursues, don't think too much, or keep your bottom line.

Life is short and happy in time, as long as you are happy in life, it is the same when you fall in love, if you want to be serious, you can end up in the beginning, if you don't want to be so serious, it will be a game, in the flowers, and the leaves will not stick to you.

First: we must adhere to one principle: be responsible for the current feelings.

In a relationship, there may be other suitors around you. Such a situation is very common. As the saying goes, "My Fair Lady, Gentleman." "Perhaps, he didn't know you had a love interest. That's why this situation has arisen.

And your own emotional state, you know it in your own heart. Faced with such a situation, do not compare your current partner with this suitor.

Some people will make a comparison with this situation. But in fact, such comparisons are meaningless. And it will affect your current relationship.

Therefore, we only need to remember one principle, to be responsible for the feelings we have now. In the relationship, it is necessary to grasp this principle.

If you're attracted to a new relationship, it may only mean that something is wrong with your current relationship. But no matter what, don't accept other people's pursuits before the relationship ends. It's not just about being responsible for yourself, it's about others, and it's about your feelings.

Second: Tell the suitor that it is impossible between you and let him retreat.

In this way, the man's thoughts were cut off. Generally, once the suitor knows about the situation, he will not bother you again. But some may say, "I'll wait for you." ”

But don't believe it yourself. In fact, he said this only to ease the awkward atmosphere. Emotional things are like this, some fate is destined.

Perhaps we can only say that this is the wrong time. Besides, having suitors means that we are still good.

So there's no need to be embarrassed. Some people, faced with such a situation, are just embarrassed to refuse. As a result, the person thought he had a chance. As a result, it will bring you new troubles.

Emotional things are like this, love is love, and not love is not love. There can be no ambiguity.

You are in a situation where you are in a relationship, and this must be known to the suitor. This is the most basic principle in love.