The marriage is not registered, and now the man doesn t want me, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-07-31
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Don't have a marriage license? A de facto marriage is a marriage certificate. Don't want you?

    Explain that you have not yet reached the point of breaking up, think about whether you are not doing something inadequately, and communicate more with him. In case of divorce, you can also divide the property. As long as you are in good health, you can support yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    First of all, he must have self-esteem to live, and if there is a child who sues the court for child support, it is his responsibility and obligation. If you don't have children, start a new life! Hopefully, you can learn some lessons from this relationship.

    Be confident, be better in your future life than you are now, be self-reliant, be self-reliant, and so on.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If you don't register your marriage, you don't get married, he doesn't want you, and you can't do anything. Because you are not protected by the law.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Then do you have children, you tell him to sue him, and it is already a fact that you have children and live together, and the law also considers them to be husband and wife, and no children are considered to be cohabitation.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Then it depends on whether you still like him, and if you do, then find the reason why he doesn't want you. in targeted solutions.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Do you have a wedding banquet? Did friends and family from both sides participate? If there is, it should be considered a de facto marriage and compensation can be claimed.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There is no way, there is no legal protection and can only rely on that person's conscience, so women must learn to protect themselves...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After 92 years, it is not protected by the law, it is illegal cohabitation, even if you have children, the law will not recognize you as husband and wife, and then determine how you raise your children and the living expenses of the children.

    Is it interesting to live together like this, can you be happy, and let go when it's time to let go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Leaving him for a better life is a bit of a lesson.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Lack of registration is not protected by law.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, show understanding of your feelings. Marriage is a big deal, and as a woman, you must not find someone casually and marry yourself in a hurry. Be sure he's the right person, at least your own feelings, be sure to be exact.

    Secondly, he wants to marry because he thinks that you are an acceptable candidate to marry him. But you don't agree to get married. It shows that there are still differences between the two of you on the issue of whether to get married.

    This requires the two of you to sit down, talk seriously, communicate frankly, and carefully analyze and analyze what problems and causes.

    Marriage is a sacred thing! We have a certain emotional foundation and have the conditions for marriage, so we walk into the palace of marriage hand in hand! That's a beautiful thing, and it's a place that boys and girls yearn for!

    Marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families! Now that you interact with each other, there will be conflicts, and in half a year, there is a one-month quarantine period, so what about the days after that? How do you cross it?

    Plain as watery love is the harmony of people with similar personalities, but it lacks taste! Vigorous love is a conflict between people with complementary personalities, attracted because of differences, and troubled because of differences! Attraction and annoyance also gradually strengthen each other's feelings, ups and downs!

    Crossing the past is eternal, and if you can't cross it, you are loving and killing each other!

    So don't make impulsive decisions because of your age! If you are married because of your age and you are not happy, then what is the point of getting married? Marriage is not about living by the three-minute heat of love!

    Days like this, no matter how you live, are all shows! Be responsible for your whole life!

    If you have been in a relationship with your boyfriend for a long time, know the roots, and have the approval of both parents, then you can consider getting married. Maybe you feel like you're still young, or maybe you're not ready to get married. I'm not married yet, and I think I must find someone who is naturally comfortable to get along with in the future.

    If you get married reluctantly, it is easy to have conflicts in the future, and such a marriage is easy to be unhappy. You must think clearly about why you don't want to get married. Think clearly, explain it to your boyfriend, learn to communicate, and express your emotions and needs.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you just want to fall in love with someone and don't want to get married, you don't like someone at all, you just like the benefits he brings to you in the process of pursuing you, I suggest you be resolute and break up with someone quickly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In this case, you must communicate with your boyfriend why you don't want to get married, tell him the specific reasons why you don't want to get married, so as to reassure him, not because you don't love him, you just want to stabilize your work and life first, and then consider the result, but don't deceive him, because this will make him feel that you don't love him so he doesn't want to get married.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If your boyfriend wants to get married, but you don't want to, then you should make it clear to your boyfriend what you really think. Instead of blindly pandering to your boyfriend and getting married.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then you have a good talk with him, why don't you want to get married? But in fact, if two people have really been integrated for a long time and have been in love for a long time, it is time to get married or get married, because marriage is not necessarily unhappy. Sometimes getting married is also a happy thing.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can explain to your boyfriend that the reason you don't want to get married is that you don't want to get married for the time being, or if you never want to get married, then don't delay someone else.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If this happens, you have to give your boyfriend an explanation and tell him why he doesn't want to get married.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then don't get married, but if you want to understand why you don't get married, if it's because of your boyfriend, I don't want to get married, I think you can communicate with him about the reason, or because of your own reasons, you are afraid of marriage, or you are afraid of losing yourself after marriage, or even have other worries, then you still have to communicate with your boyfriend or yourself**.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Think about why you don't want to get married, and then communicate your thoughts to your boyfriend, if everything is reasonable, I believe that your boyfriend loves you, cares about your thoughts, and will understand your thoughts.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Boyfriend wants to get married, if you don't want to. You can explain to him one of your future plans. Let him understand you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can tell him about your concerns, and if you feel that the time you have been together is too short to prove that you are suitable for marriage. Marriage needs to be done carefully.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My boyfriend wants to get married, but you don't want to get married, in fact, I don't think it matters, if you don't want to get married, you refuse, and say I don't want to get married.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I suggest you talk to your boyfriend and see if he can wait for you and think about getting married later.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I can only have a good talk with my boyfriend and tell him that he is in a hurry to get married and that he still wants to be free for a while.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you want to get married, but you should be reasonable, or it's time to get married, and it's more appropriate to get married.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Talk to him first and tell him why you don't want to get married

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No, I really want to get married now, but at the moment you don't particularly want to, it depends on your relationship with him, if you are still thinking about it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The boyfriend wants to get married and prove that he is true love. If you don't want to, it means that he is not important in your heart, and he is still watching the scenery from afar, not sincerely.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    A man is reluctant to marry you, you have to figure out the reason, whether he feels that he is not capable of giving you happiness now and wants to have greater achievements in his career and then marry you, or does he just want to play with you and is not responsible, if it is the former, you have to express clearly that you need him to give you a name and work together; If it's the latter, you just break up, don't hesitate.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you meet such a man, leave him as soon as possible, after all, he is not for the purpose of marriage. This not only delays my own time, but also wastes my feelings. It's better to break up with him as soon as possible and find your own happiness. Long pain is better than short pain, so that you will get true happiness.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you are not willing to marry you, then you should take the initiative to separate and find your true love. It just proves that this man is not your true love.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all, it is necessary to take communication as the principle. Confide in each other what you think, you say that you are sincere to him, and now you want to marry him, and you want to meet his parents, and then discuss marriage. As for him, tell me why he doesn't want to take you to meet your parents.

    Express ideas and communicate with each other, so that each other can know their attitudes and opinions about meeting their parents and getting married.

    Second, get the communication results at the end. There are several results of communication, one is that he is willing to take you to meet your parents, that is a good thing, and you will follow the trend. The other is that he is not willing to take you to see your parents now, but he is willing to marry you and love you, but he feels that the current relationship is not yet the time to meet his parents to talk about marriage, at this time, you can give him a time limit, such as half a year, one year, etc., after this time to meet his parents to talk about marriage, if he agrees, a year later to meet his parents to talk about marriage, if he does not agree, you will calm down for a while, see if you still need to go on, do not need to go down, just break up, after all, we have been talking for four years, It's been a long time, and you girl can't afford to drag it out.

    Third, I have been talking about it for three years, what kind of love is almost mature, and marriage is also a natural thing, those who are married are under great pressure, the family burden is heavy, and they still need children and other issues, most of these are excuses, they have been talking for four years, they understand, know, trust, identify, and run-in, before and after marriage, there is pressure and burden, and they are responsible, if they are afraid of responsibility and pressure, then this person is worth considering for life.

    Therefore, you need to be clear about your boyfriend's attitude, when to marry you, breaking up is painful, but it is not good for anyone to drag it out, the long pain is better than the short pain, you are still young, you can find a good family to marry. If your boyfriend still wants to play, you can't afford to accompany him, you are older than him, and women will age very quickly when they reach the age of thirty, and men are just mature and stable at thirty, and there is no guarantee that he will not like other girls at that time.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It can be tricky if parents can't accept the idea that you don't want to get married, but here are a few things you can try to deal with:

    1.Open communication: Express your parents why and why they don't want to get married, and inspire them to have a deeper understanding and awareness of your life choices and their background.

    Perhaps your choices are based on your personal values, hobbies, and life goals, and you can share these aspects with your parents to help them get to know you better.

    2.Be respectful: Even if you don't agree with your parents, be respectful and polite when communicating, and show that you are an adult with the ability and right to think for yourself, and they can't embarrass you or force you to make bad choices.

    3.Find a middle ground: Find out what you and your parents have in common, such as family relationships, life goals, responsibilities and responsibilities, so that you can find compromises and compromises that you can understand and buy.

    4.Create a meaningful life: Even if you don't want to get married, you can find a meaningful way to live, such as pursuing professional success, participating in public welfare activities, immersing yourself in personal hobbies, traveling, etc., so that parents can feel more confident and understand your lifestyle and respect your choices.

    Eventually, parents may need to take some time to accept your choices, and you need to respect their views and ideas, but in any case, any choice you make should be based on your own values, personal goals, and choices, rather than other people's expectations and demands.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The boyfriend doesn't want to get married, it may be caused by a variety of factors, don't be in a hurry to ask the other party what caused this idea to appear, if he feels that his economic situation is relatively low, so he feels unworthy of you, then I think you don't want to make a blind decision, first think about how to solve this problem.

    The second is that when you and your boyfriend have decided to get married, and he suddenly doesn't want to get married, it means that he has a fear of marriage or really has a certain resistance to marriage, then you can still try to change the other party, don't rush to break up. If you have given your boyfriend the opportunity to marry you and he refuses, then you can explain your position to him, and of course you don't have to wait for him. If the reason why he doesn't want to get married is because of his own financial ability or immaturity enough, then at this time you are relatively young and the relationship is indeed better, then you can wait for him.

    It depends on the result of the discussion between the two of you, in fact, if two people really love each other, you can wait a little longer, your boyfriend believes that he will love you very much, and he can't wait to marry you, but there are some conditions that are very immature, so he may think more. You have to make sure that he doesn't want to get married, or doesn't want to marry you, if you really don't want to get married at the moment, but you still have plans to get married in the future, then you can judge whether you want to wait or not according to the current relationship status of the two of you, whether he wants to continue to maintain with him, if you are sure that the final result is that he doesn't want to marry you, then I think there is no need for this relationship to continue, it can end here, that is to say, the two of you can choose to break up at this time, Because after a long time, it is always you who gets hurt after the draft.

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