The painful choice of whether to separate and ask for help

Updated on society 2024-07-16
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You call men too?!

    This is a question that needs to be asked!

    You are here to ask for help has already shown what you think in your heart, you want to get out, get rid of it!

    You just hope that someone will support you to leave and find psychological comfort here!

    Escaping is not the work of the masters!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The best way to solve the problem is not to get a divorce.

    The best way is that you have a way to make a lot of money.

    Medicine is well developed, but this city can't do it, and Beijing can't do it.

    China can't do it, the United States can always do it.

    It's not easy to make money, otherwise the problem wouldn't be too big.

    The priority is to make money to cure her if you are not exhausted.

    If you really can't do it, you can try to find charities, news**, and the Internet** for help.

    Good luck, I admire you, because I don't know if I'll be able to handle it if it's me.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The above people, you are standing and talking without back pain, have you read the landlord's statement, he has been with the daughter-in-law who has not entered the door for two years, and he will definitely not care about accompanying him to the end, people want to divide it is also for the parents, for this family, it is not that it is all done after the division, and he tries his best to manage her. What would you do if it were you? I guess I'm worried there.

    Personally, I think that you should not give her your ideas during this period, you should wait for her to get better, and it is better to be able to be discharged from the hospital, and then you will talk slowly.

    The most ideal ending is that she can really realize that her illness is not suitable for marriage, and she is willing to take the initiative to separate from you, as long as she has a position for each other in her heart, she will love each other, sometimes feelings, love cannot solve the problem, no matter how good it sounds, no matter how noble it is, when you are about to starve to death, everything is vulnerable, this is human nature.

    I hope the landlord can cheer up, face this matter correctly, do what you can do, and do what you can, you are not a god.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If it were me, I would never give up, but she is your wife, and it should be up to you to decide, as long as you have a clear conscience and you won't regret it later.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, you have already made a choice about many things, such as whether the two of you will not be together again in the future, such as if you want to have children, etc. I just want to say that if she doesn't have a long time, accompany her on the last journey, if she is long, go out to earn money to treat her, and the marriage issue will be raised over time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's really hard to choose, truth and human nature are sometimes contradictory, but they are also opposites, depending on which one you prefer......

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That year, my father was hospitalized, and due to the shortage of beds, we temporarily stayed in the outpatient ward, waiting for a bed.

    In the middle of the night, a group of people came noisyly, pushed a patient in, went directly to the emergency room, the doctor on duty went to treat him, and a group of family members stayed in the corridor at the door of the outpatient ward to wait for news.

    Through the discussion of these people, we learned the general situation: the patient is a man, he was transferred from another hospital in a car accident, and he suffered a serious brain injury.

    After a while, I heard their voices speak louder, the door of the outpatient ward was wide open, and seven or eight of them gathered at the door, surrounding a young man in his twenties and a woman in her forties, gossiping and discussing.

    Hurry up and decide, to save or not to save? ”

    The woman was supposed to be the wife of the wounded, and she said, "Ask your son and let him decide." ”

    The young man stood there crying vigorously, and the seven aunts and eight aunts next to him kept urging, "Hurry up and get an idea!" The doctor is still waiting. ”

    Yes, hurry up, cure or not? ”

    Didn't the doctor say that the best result after the craniotomy is a vegetative person, and it can't be opened? ”

    Intracranial hemorrhage, deep coma, craniotomy, how much does it cost! ”

    Don't just cry, you kid, speak quickly! ”

    It can be seen that this is an ordinary family, the economic conditions are average, and these people who have come over are not rich and rich, and everyone is not in favor of craniotomy rescue, but no one wants to say the word "give up" from their mouths and push such a big problem in front of the child.

    Poor young man, it may be the first time he has faced such an important and difficult choice. Rescue, it must be a huge ** expense, and the best result is a vegetative state; If you don't rescue it, it's your father, who is only in his forties, and no one can let go.

    The young man cried suppressedly, and a relative was beside him while supporting him, while whispering something, as if he was persuading him to make him decide to give up. As he spoke, the young man nodded in pain, and then a group of people went straight to the house where the wounded man had stayed.

    They were gone, and my heart couldn't be at peace for a long time. Hey, people, sometimes it's really helpless, in the face of their own powerlessness, they have to make a dilemma, this time should be the most painful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When I made this decision, my heart hurt. Actually, I really want to work out there, but I ......Alas! Why am I so stupid?

    I persevered for so long, and finally gave up, how did I become like this! I am also so confused about the hardships of life, why, what I think of is only learning and making money? Why can't I put everything behind and get a good workout?

    Can I? ......People go to high places, water flows to low places, why do I always walk on the slope road? Can anyone tell me what I should do?

    During my days in the student union, my life was really fulfilling, and it was the seniors who taught me a lot of things that I had never been exposed to, and also let me see a lot. All of this, words cannot be put into words to thank them! There are some things that you can't turn back when you miss them, but I still miss them, and I regret that none of them can be changed again.

    If life allows me, I certainly don't want to give up!

    Now that this stop is over, the next stop, fight hard, and develop your interests! Don't just talk about it, you have to walk the talk! The future is in your own hands, no one is optimistic about you, you have to cherish yourself, don't ask how to live when you're sad, don't ask what you need when you're sad, don't say that God doesn't give you a chance, don't envy other people's achievements, in fact, the harsh winter has passed, and you are also the best summer!

    If my life is about to be limited, how do I spend it? This is a question worth pondering. If that's the case, I'll divide my life into three phases and follow the steps to get started! When it expires, if life can be extended, it will be ...... in stages

    That painful choice, I cruelly left it behind! My heart hurts and I feel sad! If I could, I'd sing it again and start all over again! Life, can you allow me? Can you? Tags:

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