A very confused love! Do you want to go on any further. Everybody come in and help me 20

I don't think it's love, you two just like each other in your imagination, and you haven't gotten along with each other. How can there be such a thing when you fall in love, if you don't get to know each other more in reality, how can you know if the other party is suitable for you?

Think it out for yourself, ask your family more, and if you think they will object, ask your friends first, and listen to other people's opinions more often You won't suffer.

But it's not always the best way to separate the two places, try it after you meet, and then talk about the rest, and let it be

Don't regret your decision

Girls are generally very sensitive, in fact, it's not like what is said now, girls only love vanity, don't love and want money, you can try to talk about it well Listen to what she thinks in her heart As for the article published on her QQ, it is estimated that it is just written for you to show you Let you do something that can make her warm and happy, don't give up easily If you really love Love and family affection should not be opposites If your mother loves you and your girlfriend loves you too, will they be willing to embarrass you? ?

The Internet is very virtual, you haven't even seen her face, I advise you to meet with her for a while and then talk about love or not, saying love or not love on the Internet is fake, the key is to look at real life, it depends on whether you choose to believe in the thin network cable, or choose to face reality.?

In fact, your words touched me deeply, you said "his mother still looks down on me", it is not that his mother looks down on you, but that your family conditions are different in all aspects, parents will always think more about their children, his mother may think that your conditions are better, and feel that there is a gap between your children and you, so she will worry that if you are together, your parents will agree, and you can accept a family like his? Will his son be hurt because he is so deep that he can't end up together?

I guess you should also ask if you love him? Is it because you really love him and want to be with him or do you just think he's a good person to marry? You should also analyze what is the real reason why he refuses to spend money for you, is his current financial situation really not allowing it or does he feel that your relationship is not enough for him to pay too much for you?

Or is he frugal by nature? You said that you think that love can not be considered this, yes, if you really love him and can't extricate yourself, you can't pay enough for him wholeheartedly, let alone expect him to pay much for you. Looking at your words, in fact, I can really feel that you are still a child, children are like this, they will want to be loved by others, cared for by others, and held in the palm of their hands by others, in fact, I am the same, although I am much older than you...

Let's give you a suggestion, think about whether you just want a relationship or want to get married now, although some people say that love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan, but how many people fall in love just to get married? Marriage is to pay attention to positive collocation and negative collocation, positive collocation means that your family conditions, outlook on life, etc. should be similar, which is what we often say, in fact, this is not discriminating against anything, but people under the same family conditions are prone to have similar concepts, so that in the future life it is easier for two people to communicate, and there will be no disputes because of many issues. Negative collocation means that two people should preferably have different personalities, and you can imagine what it would be like for two equally sensitive people to be together?

Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu have similar personalities, the same sensitivity and willfulness, it seems that the love and romance between them are desirable, but if they really live together every day, it will be very hard...

After speaking, some words are not listened to, please forgive me!

Your choice is very good, and he doesn't deserve any more mention.

After all, I used to have it, since I don't think it's suitable now, divide it, this man won't give you happiness After marrying into his family, even if your mother-in-law gives you anger, she won't help you.

I don't think you should think so.

First, you said that he would not spend money for you, and I didn't expect you to care about this in a relationship. You have been hurt by your parents since you were a child, you don't know how bitter people are in the mountains, and you spend money like this, when you are angry at him for not spending money for you, think about it first, how did you treat him.

Second, his mother didn't look down on you when she said that, she felt that her son was not good enough and unworthy of you, maybe his mother felt that because you were from the city, if you were really together in the future, you would look down on him. will bully him. So it's normal for people in the mountains to have this kind of thought.

Third, as for the microphone thing, everyone's personality is different, if you really don't want this, then you can make it clear to him. Let him change it.

No matter what the outcome of the relationship is, you shouldn't regret it.

Now in your heart, you shouldn't have any feelings for him, so let's divide it, after all, entanglement is not interesting.

Eh, I hope you're happy. ~·

If you continue to spend time with him, you will regret it even more.

What is four months?

Early break and early relief.

Strawberry...

I'm done. Seriously. If that's the case, you should break up.

First, he's older than you. People who are older than you don't necessarily spoil you. Instead, it will be more childish than you. And I personally hate people who are more than two years older than me. There's not much to talk about this way.

Second, he is reluctant to spend money for you. In fact, girls shouldn't blindly let boys spend money on girls, but if he is not willing to spend a penny for you, then he will not be sincere in paying a penny for you in the future. I just said that girls shouldn't let boys spend money, but first of all, boys should be aware of spending money for girls.

Girls are for petting. Not for rejection. So, it should be broken up.

Third. Because of the identity gap, there may be a lot of friction in the future. Although I don't think there is any difference between people in the city and people in the mountains, but the environment in which they were born is different, and their thoughts will not be the same, if they are together.

Possibly. That's what. I can't tell.

Fourth: see people's hearts over time. If you don't feel his love for you, then break up. Use those four months on your younger siblings. You think it's worth it better than being with him, so divide it.

Fifth.. Haven't figured it out yet.

I support your approach. Break up when it's time to break up. Charge him three seven twenty-one