I feel like I have something wrong with myself, why do I always feel like I have something wrong wit

In fact, everyone has such thoughts.,I've always thought that I don't have a real friend.,I think everyone rejects me.,In fact, these are what you think about yourself.,The more you think about it, the more sensitive the month.。。。

Try to look at the problem differently ...

I think it's because they envy you that they reject you.

You didn't do anything wrong and you didn't offend them.

You don't care, you are not on the same level as them, just do your own thing, don't be distracted by learning, you are better than them and they are unbalanced.

It's basically with you, don't be depressed.

The so-called friend means that two people can complement each other together, not that you are better than others in all aspects, nor that others are much better than you. Try to associate with such people, and your heart will be balanced.

You don't have any mental illness, you're just a very delicate person, and you're sensitive. There is an old saying that "the height is not cold", maybe everyone is envious of your perfection, or maybe they did not maliciously hurt you, but you are too careful. I myself am an overly sensitive person, but there are some things that force me to forget, and I live a much happier life than before.

Take some subjective assumptions out of your mind. It is not difficult to make friends, and taking the initiative to talk to classmates, or playing ball, playing football and other group activities will also shorten the distance between classmates. But if someone still speaks ill of each other, then it seems that such a person is not worth making friends with.

It can be seen that you are a very strong person, which is a good character, how can you say that you have mental illness? But there is one thing that you should stick to in the process of socializing with your classmates, that is, maintain your own character, don't easily change yourself for others, and believe that you will make your own bosom friends

Your future will definitely be a brilliant person, as the old saying goes: the heavens will descend on the people, and they will ....... Your so-called classmates are vulgar people, not like you have lofty goals in life, they think you are ridiculous, in fact, they are ignorant people, they will never reach your ideological realm, and you don't need superficial friends, so don't pay attention to them, stick to your beliefs, so as not to fall into the vulgar stream.

Put all your energy into studying, and when you go to college, you will definitely have many good friends who are like-minded. Remember, the day you get ahead is the time when these ignorant classmates of yours are ashamed.

In fact, you think too much, I personally think that people are the same as others, they will have vanity, they will have a sense of loneliness, especially as they grow older, this sense of loneliness will be more intense. I wasn't very good in junior high school, my grades were okay, I was fighting, and I fell in love. Probably that's the case for most people).

Actually, I'm now. How to say it, I should have fallen (I feel) that I can't study anymore, and I am always reprimanded by the teacher, but I think I am living a wonderful life now because I have a group of friends. You say that you have few friends and no close ones, but in fact, it's all your own problem.

You ask yourself, do you really want to associate with them, I will now take two sons to my friends "righteousness", if friends are in trouble, I will not say a word, do my best to help, (I'm talking about bosom friends, not **!) There are other things that are not illegal). I think you have to treat everything equally, don't think that you study well, what is great if you have money in your family, it doesn't matter to others, the real good brother doesn't care about you, friend, what you want is to stand up and help yourself when you need help.

You have to help others so that they can care about you!

First of all, congratulations on starting to think about the topic of "who am I?" This topic has important guiding significance for a person's life, and it can be said that it determines the direction of future life. There are a few things from your words that require further reflection from you:

1."My family conditions are much better than theirs, eating, drinking, wearing, and playing are much better than theirs, but I don't feel the envy of others when I interact with them", and you have mentioned your family conditions many times, are you pursuing the envy of others for your family conditions? Is this really what you value?

A person who wants to be envied by others will unknowingly feel that showing others "I'm better than you" when getting along with others will definitely make people feel uncomfortable, so people will naturally stay away from those who make them uncomfortable. The secret of interpersonal communication is not to "convince others", but to sincerely appreciate the strengths of the other person. Masters have always been "humble and open-minded", emptying themselves and lowering themselves, not thinking that they are worthy of everyone's envy and admiration, and expecting others to express their envy and admiration.

2."My personality is more two-sided, my behavior is more loose, but my heart is very positive, I have my own clear goals for learning, for life, for the future, and work hard for them", this is not a two-sided personality, but a question of how to turn ideas into actions. None of us can see what other people are thinking, we just see what other people are doing and then deduce.

So others also infer our thoughts based on our actions. It may not be that you get along with a lazy person, but that your behavior is more attractive to such a person to you.

In short, it is normal and common for you to think about such questions at the age of seventeen or eighteen in your life, just don't go to the point of being biased and denying yourself - "others look down on me" or denying others - "not on the same level as my classmates". I wish you all the best in your life.

Unsociable, all of us in my class are from the village, but when I interact with them, I don't feel the envy of others (I can feel that they envy other people with better conditions), but they are very repulsive to me, and I study very well.

I behave in a casual manner, but I am very positive in my heart, I can't accept the strange look that people look at me, and I feel really bad not having a friend." I also agree with the words of the fortune teller.

Because you have a strong mental thinking ability.

The key is your self-reflection, which is a process of growth, and the only drawback is that you can't improve yourself, so you can understand that. If you have a plan that works for you to dissolve your unpleasantness, there will be no problems.

I appreciate your self-analysis, which is thorough, objective and truthful. Through your analysis, I can see a cautious but thoughtful you. But you can't control your mind and let it work for you, it can only make you feel happy but it can't make you happy. Less experience.

I think what you need is to learn, to understand the inner mind one step deeper, and you will be very promising. Don't know if you're interested in politics? Marx's theory has not been studied.

If you can, buy a copy of Marx's Basic Theory from the University. It allows you to recognize the laws of the objective world and the subjective world, that is, the activity of the human mind.

For one of them, let me help you analyze the current situation. What you lack is the purposefulness of your thinking. Use your mind to solve problems, not just analyze them.

That's the key. You're analyzing, but you can't fix it, so you won't improve. If you take the unhappiness in your current situation and can make a reasonable progress, you will not be in this situation.

You want to improve your relationships, and that requires action, and it's not enough to just think. But where the action comes from, the mind dominates, but your mind doesn't realize it, so you don't take action to solve it, resulting in today's current situation. My advice is to feel the minds of people who don't want to be friends with you, and figure out their psychology, and I think you can do it.

Personally, I think that most people's attitude towards you is to stay away rather than disgusted, and most of them see you as arrogant. Talented and rich but too individual, always on top. Although you don't think so, but in the eyes of others.

If I were you, I would take the initiative to say hello, I would be bold enough to reach out to others when they need help, I would intervene in their conversation to tease them, and I would smile at everyone. I'm sure my judgment will make a difference to you. You can do it.

You are a person who is very nostalgic and strives for perfection, always dwelling on the people of the past, psychologically speaking, he is an escape from reality, which may be a thing, a person, or an object; Depression is genetically not hereditary, but people who are in a depressed environment for a long time are not conducive to their own development; People who love to drill the horns of the bull, generally self-esteem is very strong, strong self-esteem is a good thing, but too strong, not only will hurt the people around you, but also hurt yourself, another angle shows that you have an inferiority complex, afraid of being hurt, so self-protection will always be very strong, generally when you feel the danger, whether the danger is really coming, you will immediately wrap yourself tightly, so, really can enter your heart of people are very few; Things in the past are generally forgotten with the passage of time, but if you often think about it, and it will make you feel the same as the original words, I recommend you to do hypnosis**, which will be of great help and change your current state! In fact, no one can completely help you with that, remember that people can only rely on themselves! Lots of truth.

I believe you know how to adjust yourself, so you must believe in yourself first! Wish.

It's a sign of not being confident in yourself, and you're paying too much attention to other people's rules. It's normal to mistakenly think that everyone else's is normal, but in fact, in today's society, everyone has their own rules of conduct, and differences are inevitable. We must face up to our differences, discover our strengths, encourage ourselves more, and let ourselves be the standard for others!

I think the first thing is that you think of the problem from a different perspective, plus you have a strong self-esteem, so there is a feeling of imposing your thoughts on others, in fact, you are not a bad person, and you don't take anything to heart, so others say that you are good, but sometimes you feel too lonely, too unintelligible, so sometimes it is inevitable to be sad (in fact, it is fragile in your heart, just be strong). It's still young, and everything will be fine after a long time. Now there are some things that don't blame yourself.

Well, if you always feel that you have a psychological problem, I think it's because you think too much, because life is in the world between people or people and society, we will inevitably have people behind our backs, so as long as we do our best, we don't care about what others say, and we can completely let go of our minds.

Therefore, if you want to feel that you have psychological problems, it is recommended that you can only completely relax your mind, go out for a walk, climb mountains, do fitness, and drive your body through exercise, so that your body, well, is healthier, and then turn the whole spirit and spirit to be better.

This is just a psychological suggestion, probably caused by your long period of loneliness. As a normal person, I have more or less my own things to do, and I don't have time to think about so many things that I can't understand.

I think I should try to get rid of myself, don't do this to myself like this, let go of my good life, and make more friends to enrich my life. That might change something.

I didn't press it, but it was normal to feel that I was psychologically fine.

It's the real problem, you know.

If you have a problem, there is still salvation, everyone has sad and happy memories, that is in the past, live well now, you should live a fulfilling life every day, go out and play with friends more, walk around, travel.