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You can't talk about this problem one-sidedly, it depends on whose fault it is for the divorce? Or rather, by whom. Is the person you're talking about the initiator or victim of the divorce?
This is crucial, you can go to her or his surroundings and ask, don't be biased. Make your choice objectively from the point of view.
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Love with your heart and you will be happy.
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If you love each other, you will be happy.
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No matter who you are with, only if both parties are sincere, you will be happy, it should be said.
Living with divorced people, they know how to cherish more, if you love him, use your heart.
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First of all, you should ask yourself how much do you know about him? Your loved ones, especially your parents. Are they optimistic about the relationship?
Do the people around you give you blessings? And in your past interactions, has he given you any promises for the future? With all the reasons being clear, what are your concerns?
These are all things you should think about before you choose to accept this period of happiness.
Secondly, I think character is the most important thing. Especially for those who have been married for a while. Because marriage is not child's play, it represents a responsibility, a commitment to the future happiness of both parties.
In the same way, those who choose to end their marriage must have an incentive behind them to end the responsibility. So, first of all, you should figure out why he chose to end the marriage. Although I don't like him, in today's society, it's not just a simple reason for feelings to fade.
Maybe he doesn't want to say, you can give him a while. But for the sake of your own future happiness, you must not be hasty. Affection is important, but it also requires reason.
And do you care about material life? If you don't care, or you're satisfied. In addition, you already understand the reasons for his divorce, and you yourself find it acceptable and of good character.
In life, I can care about you and care about you. You may want to consider continuing your relationship with him. In fact, it takes time for both men and women to test.
Finally, I wish you eternal happiness and joy! Sometimes believing in yourself is also the most important thing. The above only represents my personal opinion, if there is any inappropriate, forget your understanding. Hope it helps!
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Divorce is due to various reasons, and they are not happy in life.
Life after divorce may be better, and the chances of happiness are greater.
Here's why:
First, after the divorce, the economy is independent, and there will be no more conflicts over economic issues. There are many reasons for divorce, and some of them may be due to financial problems. When the economy is independent, the financial power will be theirs.
You can use your money however you want, and you can buy whatever you want.
Second, after the divorce, his personality can be brought into full play, and his habits of life are free. I will no longer be angry because of the difference in my three views. You can do whatever you want with your lifestyle and habits, and you don't have to look at other people's eyes.
Eat as much as you want, drink as much as you want, and take a journey that you can take as soon as you go, and you can achieve it immediately.
The third is that after the divorce, if you want to love, you will love, and your feelings may have a good home. Because I once loved, because I once hated, after all, it has passed, and there is no good ending. Now is your chance, take advantage of it!
When you meet someone who is destined, love boldly! Enjoy life!
In short, after the divorce, there are many opportunities, and happiness may come to you!
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is divorced, then the most I feel on the emotional road in the future is lost, the emotions I have paid are in vain, and almost all the enthusiasm and hope for the relationship are exhausted. The failure of the marriage manuscript is still quite a blow to the woman, and in this case, the divorced woman is the key beam, and there are almost few who can be happy. Because a woman's trust in emotion and marriage is already very low, she doesn't know what kind of attachment she can have to happiness, and she feels that she can't get what she is pursuing, so she feels very lost and has no happiness at all.
2. Economic conditions.
Women are very happy after divorce, and economic conditions occupy an important factor, because their economic conditions are not good, their monthly income is rarely unable to meet the material conditions they are pursuing, and they cannot reach the level of wealth they want in life, so they will not feel happy. In fact, many women have a better mentality after divorce, and they are not forced to be with their feelings and marriage, and their lives always have to go on, and they can't live because of divorce, so women are also strong in front of them, and they work to earn money to support themselves. Some women have high requirements for the quality of life, but their own economic conditions are not good, and they have not found a lover with excellent economic skills, in this case, she feels unhappy.
3. Partner. If a woman can't find a suitable partner after divorce, then she will feel unhappy when she lives alone, this kind of single life is very hard and tiring, and she has no lover to care for her and take care of herself. I lack a real support, I feel that this kind of life is very tiring, and my heart is tired, and a woman in this situation is not happy.
Fourth, work to earn money.
Divorced women have to work their own to earn money, then this kind of life is unhappy, because the work is very hard, and the life is not rich or even embarrassed, in this case, the woman needs to work hard and bear a lot of pressure, all in order to earn money to fill the needs of life, and work hard for life. So much so that she gave up the happiness in the ideal she was pursuing, and the divorced woman in this case is very happy, and she has a bitter stomach to swallow.
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Not necessarily. Hehehe.
There is no such thing as a definite thing.
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It is difficult to be happy, women are kind, men are generous, and they can be happy.
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If you can live a good life after the divorce and get rid of the bright shadow of the mausoleum in the past, then you should be able to get happiness.
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Live a good married life, and husband and wife tolerate each other, understand each other, respect each other, and be considerate. You will never be divorced to be truly happy. Anyway, none of the people around me who divorced jujube marriage were happy. He Chongyan.
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Ask yourself how happy your life is after marriage, what career do you want to do after marriage, or are you ambitious, do you have children, are you happy in divorce, this is not a problem, what are you doing in the face of stupidity now.
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They live happily after divorce because they are miserable and tired in their original marriage.
Some people are unhappy after divorce, and that's because the result of their unhappiness is not caused by the original marital relationship, but by their own reasons.
When fish live in the water, they always want to see the outside world and experience the outside life, but they don't know that it is difficult for them to survive without the water.
This is like some couples, although there will be some minor conflicts and disputes occasionally, but it does not affect their entire married life, and even in this seemingly discordant situation, in fact, they have become accustomed to each other's existence and companionship, in this case, divorce will only bring them a sense of lack psychologically, and will not be happy.
Some wheat seedlings always like to grow in piles, and like to be close to their own kind, but they don't know that this is actually consuming each other and competing for each other's nutrients, which will only lead to their own and their companions not being able to grow healthily.
This is like some couples, in daily life contradictions continue to occur, two people together is either noisy or noisy, and even domestic violence will occur, although this kind of marriage is ostensibly a family, but in fact, it is consuming each other, is alienating from each other, then, in this case, divorce is also a choice to save Lao Fuliang's own dust.
The above two situations tell us that the probability of being happy after divorce lies in the reason for the divorce and the reason for the unhappiness in our original marital relationship.
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