5 signs that your child is mentally unhealthy

Chongqing Children's Education Consulting: The Disadvantages of Early Admission.

Parents have their children enrolled early on the grounds that they think their children are smart. When they saw that their children already knew some Chinese characters, could do a few arithmetic problems, and even memorized a few Tang poems, they thought that their children had the conditions to receive compulsory education. In fact, the knowledge and ability that children learn is the result of their parents' early and intensive training.

Chongqing Psychological Counseling Excellent Brand Cun Caoxin reminds that the "advantage" is not a real advantage, but a "bubble advantage", which does not exist soon after going to school. Because children's language comprehension ability, accumulation of common sense in daily life, self-reliance in life, reaction speed, etc., have a considerable relationship with age. For children, there is no need to say how many years apart, even a few months, there will be a big difference in ability.

Early enrollment can indeed promote intellectual development for a small number of gifted and intelligent children; But for most preschoolers, it is not only unnecessary, but even harmful. This is mainly because:

The school's teaching activities are formulated according to the age characteristics of students in each grade, and there is always a certain distance between the psychology of young children and other students, and children will not adapt to school life;

The difficulty of the knowledge exposed to in learning is beyond the scope of children's ability, and Chongqing Cuncaoxin psychiatrist explained that forcibly memorizing in an incomprehensible situation will lead to mental tension, neurasthenia and other diseases;

Because it is difficult to accept the knowledge learned, children will inevitably have an aversion to learning, and even regard learning as a punishment, which will eventually lead to the evil consequences of learning boredom;

Early enrollment may lead to a backward position in the child's grades, which will bring great pressure to the child's psychology and produce a strong sense of inferiority, which will inevitably affect the development of the child's personality.

Most of the psychological problems of children are related to the family environment, such as parents have too high requirements for their children, which makes children nervous; or parents spoil their children excessively and focus on their children, causing them to show psychological problems; It is also possible that parents have been working in other places for a long time, and basically have no opportunity to get close to and contact their children, causing their children to show psychological problems. It is recommended that parents should pay attention to the education of their children and create a good family atmosphere for their children.

There are some symptoms of mental unhealth in children, which can manifest as the following:

1. Emotions become more extreme, like to play alone, do not like to communicate with others, sometimes there will be aggressive behavior, to hit people, destroy objects, destroy things at home or destroy public property in the class.

2. Poor attention and not quiet listening in class.

3. Obvious lack of self-confidence, low self-esteem, and dare not face reality.

4. Excessive fear will often cause insomnia.

I have nightmares, sometimes I pretend to be sick, and I don't like to go to school.

5. Feeling nervous, some children will bite their fingers and nails to relieve tension, and some children will be depressed.

Don't like to talk. When the child has this symptom, parents should not scold the child, but should enlighten, communicate more with the child, communicate more with the teacher, and take the child to see a psychologist when necessary to solve the child's psychological problems.

When a child has psychological problems, it can be alleviated by improving the family atmosphere, helping the child build self-confidence, psychological **, etc.

1. Improve the family atmosphere: parents should provide their children with a warm, relaxed and comfortable family atmosphere, try not to reprimand or physically scold their children too much at home, and take more persuasion and education; In addition, parents should avoid arguing in front of their children and let their children feel the warmth of the family as much as possible;

2. Help children build self-confidence: Parents can try to communicate more with their children, analyze the reasons with their children when facing problems, and actively seek ways to solve problems, do not let children have an inferiority complex, and when the problem is properly solved, parents should give air to Shengqing words or material encouragement, when the child's self-confidence is improved, psychological problems may also be alleviated to a certain extent;

3. Psychology**: If the child's psychological problems are caused by diseases, parents need to take the child to seek medical treatment in time, and if necessary, with the help of professional doctors, they need to carry out psychological treatment for the child.

Introduction: If your child is crying all the time or is unwilling to accept it, there may be something wrong with your child.

Some people like to stay alone with the lead, and when parents take their children out to play, the children are reluctant to contact others, which may also be the phenomenon of the children. Parents must observe their children's behavioral ability, and if their children close themselves off from their own knowledge, then parents must pay attention to it. A person may encounter different treatment when doing things, but parents must help their children find out in time when they see it.

Don't let the child be confused, you must talk to the child well, the child's heart and eyes are not healthy, parents must pay attention, must learn to help the child well, no matter what the child encounters, parents must have a good talk with the child. Maybe the child will feel that what they are doing is right, but if the parents let the child develop like this, then the child not only has no friends, but the child does not know how to develop.

Parents can cook more delicious food for their children, which will not only make the child have an impact, but also make the child feel very happy. There must be good communication between the mother and the child, and the child's mental health must be considered. The child always locks himself in the room, and the parents should also knock on the child's door appropriately, tell the child what to do, and make sure the child is not left alone, which will be very boring.

If you don't care about your child, then there may be some big situations at this time and parents must not let their children be destroyed. Every child may encounter a lot of problems when they are young, parents must take into account the child's emotions, must let the child develop appropriately, and there will be a lot of pictures in the child's mind. Children will face a lot of problems when they are young, and parents must learn to actively help their children solve them, so that their children can grow up slowly.

Lu Zicha Lali is very timid in his heart, very timid, he doesn't like to contact other children, he can get along with other children in harmony, and he especially likes to fight.

He likes to be alone, he is very timid, he especially likes to fight, belittle others, abuse others, and is often depressed.

Children will be very rebellious during adolescence, and they will not be close to their parents at all, and they will also have a lot of bad thoughts.

Low self-esteem, sentimentality, rebellion, reluctance to communicate with others, rejection of parents, scolding parents, etc.

When children have psychological problems, they may not express them directly, but will have some special behaviors.

For example, I like to sulk with my parents!

After being criticized by their parents, some children will behave very quietly, often sitting alone in the corner in a daze, and he will ignore his parents when they talk to him. If the child often likes to sulk, parents should pay more attention to his psychological problems, otherwise it is likely to make the child have an autistic personality, and in serious cases, it may affect the normal life in the future. It is recommended that parents communicate more with their children and channel this negative emotion in time, so that they can become more sunny and cheerful.

There are also acts of self-harm!

If the child has self-harming behavior, it means that he has psychological problems, and parents must guide them in time to avoid causing greater harm. Usually such children do things more extremely, and their personalities are more inferior, and the reasons for this phenomenon are inseparable from the parent's education style. Usually, parents should not force their children to do something beyond his ability, which will only hit his self-confidence and make him more inferior, usually parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's self-confidence.

And then there's the poor interpersonal relationship!

Relationships are a direct response to mental health, and children who are not mentally healthy tend to have poor relationships or few friends. Children with mental health are more likely to play with others and are good at cooperating and sharing with their peers. Children who are mentally unhealthy will be more withdrawn in personality and incompatible with others.

In response to this situation, parents should guide him patiently, tell him that his friends are very friendly, and encourage him to communicate more with others and participate in the group.

Therefore, parents must pay more attention to their children in their daily life, give them more love, communicate more, understand their true thoughts, and find ways to solve psychological problems as soon as possible.