How do contemporary people treat love?

I'm a little Aunt Bensan. Treat loveNo matter how old I am, I still pursue my love full of surprises。If you were born in troubled times, you may be pursuing a vigorous love.

When I was a student, I may have seen too much romance**, I expect that I can fall in love with a school-level character, he can be in the limelight, but he is the only one who loves me. He can be as cold as ice, but he is as passionate as fire for me. He sticks to his principles, but he can break them for me.

This is my view of love when I was a teenager, and I also pursued my love frantically when I was a student. Only now do I understand that the above mentioned does not exist in reality at all, yes, unless it is an alien.

Tell me about myself。When I was in high school, I fell in love with a boy in my class, and it was love at first sight. Since then, I've been binge-courting him, and I should have done all the stupid things you've ever done.

In the self-study class, he sat in the first two rows of me, and he wrote the exercises carefully, and I wished he would turn around and look at me. So, I started pretending to cough quietly, and he didn't move. I coughed louder and louder, and the other students turned to look at me, but he remained motionless.

So, I kept making noises, slapping the table, kicking the stool, but he still didn't hear what was going on outside the window. Until I accidentally fell to the ground with a table and stool, making a loud noise, and I couldn't do it in pain. He finally looked back at me, and before I could get up, he began to write the exercises calmly again.

After many years, I finally understood the absurdity of my youth, and I poured everything into it, and he glimpsed it.

In addition, I will talk about the various views of love of the young people around me that I have come into contact with, and there are generally these types:

1. Treat feelings directly and honestly, make it clear to each other that they love each other, and they can feel relaxed and happy with the people they love. This person can be the one you love more, or you can love yourself very much. All in all, the most important thing is to be happy and relaxed together and not get tired of getting along.

2. It is better to choose a mate than to be indiscriminate, and if you can't find a suitable one, it doesn't matter if you are single all the time. I think that a high-quality single is better than a low-quality marriage.

I think contemporary people are still very casual when it comes to love, basically following their own temperament, and not thinking too much about each other's feelings.

From my personal point of view, I think of love as a spice in life, a source of motivation for each other, not the whole of life.

Today's young people are all about efficiency, and the same is true for love. So instant love was born. Couples will quickly form romantic relationships with each other. I also lost patience and persistence in dealing with feelings. If you meet, you will come, and if you don't, you will disperse.

It's young people now, their attitudes towards love are also different, so some people may be very strict about love, and then they are very loyal to love, but some people may just have a playful attitude towards love.

Personally, I think it's just to feel it with your heart. Love is a kind of responsibility, and we should let those good things stay between us forever, that is true love.

When contemporary people treat love, they have a more casual attitude, and they feel that they will cherish it when it comes, and if it does not come, they will not deliberately look for it.

Contemporary people feel that love is only a part of life, not the whole thing, so they don't put all their energy into love.

No matter what time it is, everyone's approach to love will be different, but everyone wants a true love. Everyone wants to be with the person they love and never be separated.

I think people nowadays take love more seriously, although sometimes it is very realistic, but everyone has the right to pursue love.

This can't be said to be good or bad! I feel that this is a bad emotional view, what if the person who loves you has a wrong outlook?

In today's fast-paced society, young people will still slow down and seek love. When we're together, my eyes are all about you, even if I don't do anything, the corners of my mouth go up, and I'm still myself when I'm alone. It is difficult to choose one who loves you and loves yourself, but you will persevere.

To love, please love deeply, do not be ambiguous, hurt others and hurt yourself.

And some people's feelings are not because you have to be, it's not that we love each other, but you happen to be there, and I happen to be lonely, so we can walk together for a while, so that we don't seem so lonely. As for who you are, it doesn't really matter.

No matter what your view of love is, the most important thing is that the three views should be harmonious, and it is difficult to be happy if the three views are different, the idea of radish is very simple, as long as we love each other, nothing else matters.

What is love? It's not the cheap love that can be seen everywhere like "I love you".

Love needs a house, a scooter, and a stable and high income.

Love is a responsibility, love very much, and you can't be full of love.

The water is really not enough.

The person who draws the house and the car must not really love you, why can't you change it?

Would it be any different to change the other?

The result is the same.

Therefore, modern people's love is life, responsibility, and irreplaceable money.

So I love you equal to a house + a car + a bride price.

I love you It's expensive.

Life is not a romance drama, there is no Prince Charming of Cinderella, and there is no Snow White.

Although we don't pay attention to the right door now, we also pay the most attention to the right person.

It is the living habit of ordinary people to measure emotional love with money and material.

I'm still cautiously optimistic about marriage and love:

1.Believe in true love. Sincere feelings and love still exist, but they are difficult to find and maintain in modern society. People now have more choices and a greater sense of self than ever before, but true love is still one of life's most precious experiences to discover and cherish.

This makes the marriage more stable and also leaves room for extramarital affairs, and the two need to be balanced in reality.

3.Greater sense of freedom. Modern people are more self-conscious, no longer automatically accept the restrictions of traditional marriage concepts, and pay more attention to personal freedom and development.

4.Life is becoming more stressful. The pressure of life in modern society is increasing, and the pressure of busy work and survival is easy to disintegrate feelings and affect the quality of marriage. But the more the relationship and marriage are maintained in the face of adversity, the more prominent its value will be, which requires the joint efforts of both parties.

5.The mindset needs to be calm. In the modern environment, marriage and relationships need to be faced with a calm mind.

Neither too dx, nor too desperate, maintain positive confidence and open-mindedness. Life has its ups and downs, and relationships also need to go through hardships and then mature, which needs to be experienced and dealt with with with calmly.

So, in general, despite the complexity of the modern social environment, sincere feelings and a stable marriage are still worth pursuing. It requires a more pragmatic attitude, a stronger sense of tolerance, and a more relaxed attitude to explore and face. Under the right conditions, marriage and love remain important ways to achieve happiness and meaning in life, and this will not change.

The key is to have a correct understanding and reasonable expectations of relationships and marriages.