The merits of the knot of the heart, about a little knot.

Sister, I believe that you must love your husband very much, otherwise in such a realistic society, you will not give up bread for love I don't know if you are a child who grew up in the city In my opinion, the contradiction between you and your mother-in-law is not big Mother-in-law may have lived in the countryside since she was a child After all, she has seen few things and thinks about problems from different angles And they all say that there is a generation gap in three years Roughly speaking, there are six or seven generation gaps between you and your mother-in-law You can't ask an old man to make the same progress as you So don't worry too much about these If you go on like this, it will only be bad for you, your mother-in-law, and your husband, and you try to accept that your mother-in-law is such a person, don't care too much, just hope you can be happy and have a happy family.

Hey, I don't know how to comfort you, but think about it from what you said, you are more sad than I have experienced, I have joined a QQ mother-in-law group before, and as the days go by, you will see all kinds of situations with your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I haven't seen that most of the current TV is also around life! You should be patient with each other.

After all, a mother-in-law is just a mother-in-law, and she can't be her own mother; Besides, when I get along with my friends, I will do unto you as you would do unto me. You can't just give it unilaterally and the other party just take it!!

Let's start with a bad word, marry a chicken and a dog and a dog. Falling in love is a matter of two people, and when you get married, it is a matter of two families. Who told you not to inquire before you get married.

Let's run in slowly! I really can't grind, so let's hide. Find a reason to rent a house and go out to live.

Take a scene during the New Year's holiday.

Take a leisurely stroll and let the flowers bloom and fall.

Great joy and great sorrow, just maintain a normal state of mind.

It's been so long, don't pay too much attention to it.

-、Go again, just get used to it.。

= It doesn't matter, listen to me, that's right

Dude, okay! I haven't been to the women's bathroom.

Hehe, it's you who take it too seriously.

Maybe it's about the same, but since you've been living together for so long, why haven't you seen both parents? Girls are always insecure, and seeing their parents can also be a kind of insurance in a sense.

That's right, making excuses is the biggest excuse, and it reflects that you don't care about her.

But this knot has to be untied. You can't stop traveling. That's a loss, it's okay, you can try it.

According to the description, it feels like your psychological changes are earth-shaking, if your description is true;

No matter what your mood is right now, I am happy for you;

For I see between the lines of your words that you are truly growing;

From your words, I saw you vividly;

No matter how rebellious you were before, no matter how alternative you were before, in the end you were persuaded by yourself;

Rare! It is rare for people to have such a spiritual touch;

To be happy!

Huh, how old is it? 17？18？Or smaller?

Things like gambling contracts don't have legal significance, so as long as you don't give it, it's yours. It's just that many people will feel dishonest. It's up to you to deal with it. Not a big deal. If you don't give it, you won't give it, even if you sue the court, it's yours.

It seems that that thing is very important, and if you don't want to give it, then negotiate with him, whether you can replace it with something else, and if you can't replace it, you say that you regret it, and face your regret correctly.

Don't make meaningless bets, impulsively, to regret what you want back. In the eyes of others, you are a non-promise, a loser. If you want to, you can forget about these things.

Before saying the following, let me express my personal opinion, your mother-in-law's family can agree to buy a house in your house, it is indeed very good, this is their concession, if something happens in the future, logically speaking, it is time for your family to give in, what do you think?

In fact, the best way is to communicate with your parents, but you will worry that if you let your parents know that your in-laws will not let them live, it may affect the relationship between the two families. But if you let your parents live, it will also affect the relationship between the two families, and even the relationship between your husband and wife, because my personal opinion is that it is better for newcomers not to live with their parents, and it is easy to have conflicts.

It's a very tangled question. If I were you, I would start with this from my own home. First of all, find a time to talk to your parents and ask them what they mean, the main thing is to determine whether they want to live permanently or just for a certain period of time, if they live for a while, then it must be understandable, it must be possible.

Then I told my in-laws about the situation through my husband, just live for a while, and move out after a while, so that my in-laws will not have any opinions. If it is another situation, the parents plan to live permanently, then tell them the meaning of the in-law's side, the parents must understand the truth here, the other side has made such concessions, and it is acceptable for us to give in a little way, so that the problem will be explained clearly, and the problem will be much easier to solve.

In fact, sometimes the reason why we are entangled is because we just think about it unilaterally, rather than really starting to solve it, I believe in the power of communication, and some things are much better than this, hehe I wish you to get rid of this tangled knot as soon as possible.

Do your parents own a house? If you do, it's best not to go there. His parents had their own worries.

You also have to be considerate. Your parents should only be there to help you look after the house. I think it's better for your parents not to live.

Talk to your parents. Let's see how this matter is resolved. They have experienced a lot of things, they have experience, and they are the people who love you the most.

It should help you find the best of both worlds. It's best to talk to your parents first, and once you have a plan, discuss it with your boyfriend first, and then tell your in-laws when he thinks it's okay.

You're saying you may not be at home when you get married, but the house you buy can't be empty, right? The house has to be inhabited, and since your house is close to the house, in fact, it is nothing for your parents to live there, and they are not permanent residents. You ask your boyfriend to convince his family that if they want to go too, then it's good to move in.

Besides, this is a matter of the future, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge, if it really reaches the point where it can't be negotiated, it will be rented out. Talk to your parents and don't be too extreme.

Marriage is really different from love, love is a matter of two people, marriage is a matter of two families, everyone will experience this, the so-called family has a scripture, don't worry about it alone, discuss it with your prospective husband, and see his opinion. Resolving these contradictions in life will make you and your relationship more mature.

Tell them about this, let your parents live for a while, after all, it is not easy for parents to support themselves for a lifetime, and they have paid for it. If his parents who don't have money also pay, they can also come and live for a while. In any case, filial piety to one's parents is as it should be.

It's really hard to deal with. I suggest oh just suggest. Do your parents' work first. I'll come back and live after I get married. After all, now that the marriage has not yet been concluded, he said that he would come to live, and the man's family may have some ideas.

Convince your parents not to move over for the time being, you have your two-person world; Talk about who will be convenient to help take care of the child in the future, and it will be relieved when the time comes.

This is actually very simple, convey the meaning of your parents-in-law to your parents, you are the daughter of your parents, there should be nothing to be embarrassed to say. If your mom and dad want you to be happy, they'll think about it in many ways!

It's better to discuss it with your husband-to-be, at this time he should help you solve your worries, and then let your parents and his parents come to live after marriage, everyone is fair.

It's simple, let the four old people live in a new house together, and you buy a new house, and if you live again, you can buy a ...... againI don't like to live with my family, it's a bit of a hassle, of course, the premise is that I can cook, do laundry and other household chores.

Parents on both sides take turns to live for a period of time, and no one can be offended.