Do you want to wait, do I want to wait any longer

You can be together for so long It already shows that you have a certain tacit understanding, for such a long time, the two people have long been entangled and no one can be separated, maybe you think it's boring now, maybe it will change when you live together. Marriage is a lifelong event, although there are many people who take marriage seriously, but women must always learn to love themselves, I suggest that you don't marry him first, try to live together for a while, if you really find that two people have a gap and a distance, then there is no regret about separation.

Seven years, an enviable number. You yourself said that love has become a habit, and sometimes long-term feelings will evolve into other feelings, for example, the love of two people can become family affection because they are too familiar with each other. I think your love is evolving, but what will happen depends on your future development, your question is really not someone else can give you the right answer, but also depends on what you really think in your heart!

Long-distance love is unrealistic. Let go early and don't hurt each other.

If he loves you, you can go, there aren't many good men now.

Make your own decisions, it's better not to trust others in this kind of thing.

Seven years of relationships is not easy, let's weigh it yourself.

No matter how splendid the process of love is, the end will be dull.

The mutual support in old age is very touching.

All I know is that you lost the time.

You will regret it.

There are a lot of people who think that distance is not an issue.

And it's often these people who are most likely to go wrong.

You've wasted 7 years

I don't need to say more.

I don't understand what you said about your husband's work and life not going well. But if there is no contradiction between you, a normal man will not be angry with his wife because of a moment of memorization, he will choose this way of running away, if he is not responsible, or he himself feels that the marriage has hit the rocks.

If so, I think you yourself can't have no idea about this marriage, during the time he left, you should also think about it, what went wrong, the root of the problem is **, if you figure it out, there is no need to wait, whether you don't want to live with him, or feel that you are at fault or he is at fault or you have found a solution to the problem, you can contact him directly.

In fact, he has already done this, and if you don't do anything at all, the marriage is basically over, either he simply comes back and tells you about the divorce, or he has to be with you for some objective reason - such a reluctant life is boring. The key is to find out the source of his depression and irritability, and solve the problem. If you don't find a solution, continuing to contact him will only make him more irritable, and it is best to deal with this problem rationally, objectively and calmly, and never become emotional.

If there is no principled issue between the two of them, communicate well. Marriage is a lifelong event, and you can't divorce lightly.

Go with the flow, and emotional matters should be considered from the perspective of both parties.

Dear, I said don't be sad about this, since he is such a man, there is nothing to be nostalgic for, and it is not worth your life at all. You can't keep him dragging it out like this, find a chance to talk to him well, things have to be resolved. Because you still have love for this man, it will definitely be painful to divide it, but the long pain is better than the short pain, because the happiness you want can't be given by a man.

Falling in love always has to go through ups and downs, but when you say this about him, you feel that he doesn't mean to go on with you, and you don't feel the need to wait any longer.

Your husband should be like this if he doesn't love, I don't think there is any need to maintain such a loveless marriage, it's only yourself who will be hurt like this.

Use your tenderness to influence him, even if you may not be able to be together in the future, at least you will not regret your efforts in the future, a month is not a long time, you should care about him moderately during this period of his distraction, men are actually very fragile, wait for everything to return to go smoothly and then look at his performance, and then consider whether to divide it, you must insist.

Give him a chance and let him think about it. It's good to come back, don't wait if you don't come back, it's actually a kind of luck to give up someone who doesn't love you, because you can still find happiness again.

The Chinese New Year is coming soon, and even if it's not for you, you'll be back for his parents, so you have to communicate with your husband during this period before deciding to stay!

If the two are only quarrelsome with some minor problems, then give him a chance to have a good talk, after all, divorce cannot solve all problems.

In fact, letting your husband go out for a walk may be better for your future life, and it is recommended that you both deal with it calmly at this time.

Wait for him to come back and talk face-to-face, figure things out, and if you really can't make a decision, I think we should cherish being together!

In any case, please see clearly, this man no longer loves you, and maybe he never loved you!

How long do you have to wait like this, I feel like a waste of my time, and a woman's youth is limited.

If your husband's heart is no longer in you, it's better to let go and find your own happiness as soon as possible.

Keep waiting, be patient, communicate more, and have time for you to go out on a trip together.

He's all like this, and he's gone, and you've got to be strong, and you've got to let him know that you're better off than him.

Sit down and have a good chat, see what goes wrong between them, and say what is in your heart.

Now it's true except for your own mom and dad, I don't think you should wait.

If you really love him, give him a chance to spread out all the words face to face.

Such a cruel husband, divorce or not, we have to live with dignity and straighten our backs.

You need to communicate sincerely once to understand what she thinks, and you can't just walk away.

You can only blame yourself for not going well at work, such a man is too irresponsible! It's not worth the wait.

When he comes back, it's not easy to form a family.

Even if you don't want to live with him, talk to him face to face.

I don't think there's any point in waiting like this!

I don't think your husband has something on his mind, let's talk about it and make a decision.

You can't just wait like this, talk to him and see what he thinks.

Actually, he doesn't like you, have a good chat and make a break.

So fast, this life and this life consume time to echo the echo.

Give him a little time, and maybe he'll figure it out, as long as you still love him.