How to face this cruel and sudden reality test? Why is my love so much tribulation??

Updated on society 2024-07-16
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The choice is yours. Of course, you are responsible for the results.

    Who dares to vouch for you, what will happen if he will come out in two years.

    Do you still love him? Does he love you so much?

    Who knows?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It is not easy to meet and fall in love with the person you love, and I hope we will not give up easily.

    I wish you all happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's hard to say, if I were him in two years, I would love you even more, but you have to carry a burden of worldly vision, good and bad, just like a renminbi looking at both sides. Life is a choice.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you really love him, then you wait for him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I figured it out, if he loves each other as much as you do, you just wait for him.

    Don't mind what others think. The premise is that the pressure in the future can be overcome by the eyes of others!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Decisions made in anger are not necessarily in his nature, so ......If you love him, support him! I wish you all happiness. ~~

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're willing to wait for him, but you have to understand if he loves you as much as he does in two years? If he can, then it's worth the wait.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You have to think about it, is his nature bad? What was the reason for his crime? Or is it the inferiority of his nature, so think about it.

    What about you, do you have the courage to wait, or is it just a spur of the moment, everything is thought about and decided.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not only for the immediate impulse, but also for the future life!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I understand your hesitation, I have also had, everyone's family background is different, the starting point is different, but the starting point is not high, the achievement is high, I am really speechless about the college entrance examination can now use money to cheat, but what awaits them is a more cruel reality, and now enterprises, especially private enterprises, are no longer blindly respected! No matter how high the education is, it must go through layers of tests, including dealing with people, work ability, moral character, personal quality, etc., which cannot be cheated. Only people with high moral character, who can bear hardships and stand hard work, and can improve themselves in their work can achieve success and gain the respect of others!

    So don't be discouraged, even if we can't change this society, can't we change ourselves? As long as you have the determination! You can rely on your own efforts to get the life you want!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I took the college entrance examination 198 that year... Stress, scolding, dazed, helpless... The college entrance examination is a hurdle, not a wall...

    It's just a fork in the road, there's no need to be so persistent in going to college... I'm now paid more than 90% of my school. But I was second to last in the class...

    A negative person will find a reason when he encounters a problem... A positive person who will find a solution when he encounters a problem...

    The college entrance examination, in my opinion, doesn't mean anything.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then I'll tell you a girl's story, 0a just went out about 10 months ago, her parents divorced, her parents remarried, her stepmother almost killed her, her stepfather sexually harassed her, her father didn't even pay for the journey, and her mother either beat or scolded. The primary school meal cost 1 yuan, and there is no pocket money. She came down to work at the age of 15, because her father asked him when he would come down for his younger brother, she went back and forth to change schools, her studies deteriorated, and her parents made up for classes, and no one took money, so she entered the society 0a This is a true story, she laughs every day, she says it's just to hone her, it's just a test for her.

    She will provide for herself to learn the trade, and she will make herself like everyone else. She's a friend with pistachios. 0a take this as a hone, there is still a long way to go, you are still young, work hard now.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You must be in a chaotic mood right now, right? When everyone is frustrated, the key depends on how to adjust their mentality. I understand your feelings....But I want to tell you that we are all young and inexperienced, and all we can do is do what we have to do and do it well.

    Don't think so much about the rest (I find that you are also a person who is prone to thinking too much) There is still a long way to go, and we may not know a lot of things...Only by doing what is at hand well and living every day to the fullest is true. Whether a person is good or not cannot be judged by a hero alone, but a successful person must be a capable person! I think you understand the truth, cheer up, don't think too much, do what you need to do first.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Sometimes it's normal to complain about life, to complain about everything, friend, don't look down on yourself, even you look down on yourself, who will look down on you, you need information and courage, you have these awareness, it shows that you are maturing. A person's life cannot be rain or shine, nor can it be flawless, so there is nothing wrong with junior college, maybe it is the face of the parents' family, in fact, those who have the ability to ** are all pieces of gold. So, go for it!

    Don't doubt your abilities and live in the moment!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are a lot of unfairness in life, the key depends on how you face it, reading is not the only way out for a person, now the society lacks technical talents, as long as you have specialties and skills, there will always be a place for you!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Optimistic in the face of all the troubles in life, many things can only be deeply experienced when you have experienced them, and you can't understand how good others say; Life is inherently full of difficulties and setbacks, how can a life be perfect without setbacks? You can complain appropriately, but don't keep complaining, having ideas is the most important, and if you have ideas, you will unswervingly practice, even if you fail, you will not bow your head; Not jealous or envious, with a sincere, firm and optimistic heart, to create their own brilliance...

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There are many ways out, you always remember that society is the best teacher, and if you can't study hard and socialize well, you don't have to go to university. I really want to go to college to try the Southern University of Science and Technology, the one where Zhu Qingshi is the president.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Brother, upload an avatar, brother will help you see a hologram.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Live your life and let others say go....You have to have the courage to face everything...Because man's destiny depends on his own efforts.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Life is like this, there are too many unfair things! So, no matter what you choose in the end, do it with your heart! After all, you have chosen, then do it!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Ask me to take the college entrance examination next year like you, nothing, there are many things to hide, we should face it calmly, no matter what the result is, as long as we work hard, it is good, don't envy others out of thin air, I am me, even if we lose, nothing is nothing, at least we have worked hard for him! Come on! Success and self-confidence are the first one!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, it doesn't matter if you go to college or not! As a junior, I'll tell you the truth, it's not the same as looking for a job when you go to college, and it's very difficult to find a job! When looking for a job, the most important thing is to have an opportunity!

    Academic qualifications are not very important! You can still learn at work!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hehe, don't be sad. Think about how I was like you at the beginning, but don't you see if I survived, think about your future life, after all, there are still things you look forward to, don't be so pessimistic.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I also took the exam this year, and I am still a cram school. Understand you and face it calmly!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Let's repeat it, kid, I'm from here, and I'm admitted to college.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Relax nature, go with the flow, and there will be other ways for the exam

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You should communicate with her well, how can your family show that you look down on her? It's understandable that she cares about her family's feelings, but if you can't find a reason for things and avoid them later, such reasons can be the trigger for any future fights.

    Let's talk about it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Now that they're all married, you have to think about things carefully. Marriage is a major event in life, you can't divorce at every turn, you have to treat your wife well, talk to your wife well, and ask her if she can't let go of her parents. Her parents are definitely not good parents, model parents!

    Because it can be seen from what they have done, let their daughter ** for no reason, knowing that this is not good for physical and mental health, and will leave a shadow in life, since it happened, don't mention it again, and every time you want to talk about it, you should quickly shut up, so as not to always worry about it.

    Marriage is fundamentally different from matchmaking, and it is legal for lovers to agree to each other without coercion. Don't look at the problem from a secular perspective, I believe that if the two of you really love each other, you will grow old together, may you grow old together!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The atmosphere is the atmosphere, but think that if you get divorced, then her life will be over. But you should have a good talk about her family, tell them that they are too irresponsible, because you want to be responsible for her, so you still stick to your husband's due responsibility, and hope that they will be responsible for you and even your family in the future.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think the whole thing is very vague. First of all, the reason for the opposition of the other party's parents is that they are looked down upon, and I think it is necessary for you to have a good talk about it, first, to express your sincerity in loving your wife and honoring the elderly, and second, to find out what is causing the two families to misunderstand and have contradictions. Otherwise, there will be more misunderstandings and troubles.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    8 years is really not easy, don't think about your emotional foundation is already very solid, buddy for the happiness of your hands, if you don't come to hardship, where will you be happy.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    She is innocent, but she is helpless to meet such a family.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There's definitely something wrong with her family, what kind of family is this, oh my God.

    If you knew it was such a family before you talked about it, you wouldn't talk about it to death.

    This kind of parent is the kind of person who will ruin the happiness of their children.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It wouldn't be like this if I asked earlier.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hey, I didn't expect her family to be old-fashioned, feudal roots, do you still love her? Does she still love you? Maybe there are some things she can't help herself, maybe her parents nagging her have made her lose herself, since she has received a marriage certificate, and she loves you too, then get rid of everything, get rid of all the shackles, feudal, travel and get married, go outside to be self-reliant, two people live together, very happy.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Such a family will inevitably have a "crisis" in the future, I think you still have to be cautious! Marriage itself is not child's play, and having children is not child's play, which is also too much. When it is broken, there are many in the society, and the result of bitter love for many years has not been able to come together, and it is best to feel that they are suitable for each other!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    8 years is not easy, if the relationship between the two parents is okay, if you have your own things to endure together, life is not easy, compared to the things that will be faced together in the future, what are these in front of you, I really hope that the landlord can cherish it, happiness is really not easy!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Feudalism is at work, customs are at work, it's not easy for eight years, it stands to reason that the relationship between the two of you is okay, after walking for so long in love, I think she cares too much about her family's feelings, and her family loves face. You think about things from your girlfriend's point of view and her family's point of view. Do it and communicate with your wife.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Sometimes it's not like you can get what you want. In fact, sometimes love also depends on fate, or waiting. Maybe your feeling is coming to you now, and slowly you will feel it.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Since the person you like is like the wind, why can't you be a little more chic?

    People who can be human should learn to be happy in suffering.

    Believe in fate, believe in fate, and believe in yourself.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Prepare for the worst: even if you are alone, you can live alone; With such a mentality and the spirit of self-reliance, I believe that you will meet your true love!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you want to open a little, in fact, it is better to find someone who loves you than the person you love, you can try it! That's a good feeling.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    This depends on fate, whether you are in a hurry.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you're convex, then you look for a concave ......

    It's as simple as that.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Find one you like, ask this too.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

    We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    30-24=6 [6 people who help you] I don't know if the strokes are right, you can calculate it yourself] The calculation method is very simple, compare the total number of strokes of your name, and reduce it by a large number, for example: Nobita wants to know what the relationship between himself and Dingdong is, and he wants to subtract the strokes of his name (a total of 15 strokes) and the strokes of Dingdong's name (a total of 21 strokes) (that is, 21-15), and the number obtained is 6, which is very accurate! Give it a try!

    If you read it, you must post it back, otherwise the actual result will be the opposite of the test!!

    Difference Comparison Table:

    0 Intimacy.

    1 Always with you.

    2 Fire and water are incompatible.

    3 Bosom friends.

    4 Sweetheart.

    5 People who help you do things.

    6 The people who help you.

    7 The face is not at odds with the heart.

    8 The relationship between a man and a woman is abnormal.

    9 Agree.

    10 Sloppy relationships.

    11 Honoring thy man.

    12 He who loves you.

    13 for you.

    14 He who speaks ill of you.

    15 nemesis.

    16 Savior.

    17 The faithful one.

    18 A man with a wolf's heart and a dog's lungs.

    19 Unrequited love.

    20 The oath of the mountains and the sea.

    21 Rivals.

    22 He who obeys you.

    23 Together forever.

    24 with life.

    25 Hate thee, and love thee.

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