I was so anxious about to enter college life

Updated on educate 2024-07-10
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Actually, college life is not so stressful. I'm a junior now, I'm used to it, and I feel bored.

    When I first came to school, I was worried because it was the first time I had traveled so far by myself. However, I believe that there is nothing wrong with this, as long as you have the right mentality, you will soon get used to it.

    Major, I don't know what you are studying, however, studying in college is very different from high school, everyone's starting line is the same, as long as you are willing to work hard, the college entrance examination is safe, and the university study will definitely be no problem.

    If you haven't lived in school before, you may not be comfortable at first, you will be homesick, and if you love bed, you will be depressed. I've been living on campus since high school, and I'm very bed-conscious, so it's still hard for a while, I sometimes eat some snacks, make small things, pass the time, it's easy to fall asleep when I'm really tired, in fact, it's okay after a while, don't always worry about this.

    As for the relationship with roommates, this mainly depends on yourself, be sincere, most people in the university can still understand each other, I am a person with a very straight personality, so, just after the start of school, I first said my shortcomings, I hope that my roommates will take care of me, I am because I can't change it, there is no way. If you can, be honest with each other, otherwise it will be very troublesome. Also, try to have one or two friends who are particularly good to take classes together to get used to it more quickly.

    I think that if you want to be a good person, you can't be too stingy, be generous, and do things generously.

    As for the credits, don't worry about it, the general school has a certain standard, how many compulsory courses, how many electives can be selected, there are clear instructions, as long as you follow it. It is recommended that you complete the elective credits in the freshman and sophomore years, and you will have more independent time in the future. If you don't have a lot of coursework, you can consider research, computer, small language...

    When you first arrive at school, you will be a little scared, it doesn't matter, try to find some seniors in the upper grades to ask about the specific situation of the major, you can go to Renren to find it, I believe they will be happy to help you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    University is still very good to meet a lot of friends, study will not be very strict, it is recommended to travel to relax.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hehe. Very normal! Everyone will be like you when they are facing a new life. In fact, it's normal for you to worry, as long as you do everything seriously! Be honest with everyone, and that's fine! When things are at the worst they will mend! Come on!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    1. The major will not be difficult to learn, unless you have to figure it out, it will be difficult, after all, it is university knowledge, and people like you who have a sense of crisis generally will not take the exam.

    2. The university dormitory is very free, especially in the sophomore year, you can do whatever you want. Roommates are generally easy to get along with as long as they are not extreme and flawed in their personalities, after all, everyone has to stay together for four years.

    3. Don't be afraid if you don't have enough credits, as long as you have good rules and regulations, you can graduate from college, and this is the least important thing to think about.

    4. Finally, I want to say that there will be difficulties in college, after all, you have to arrange your own life, when the time comes, you can call ** ask your parents, or listen to your roommate's opinion, but don't rely on your roommate to help you with everything, after all, this is your business, not his, in fact, you won't encounter any big difficulties, and you can basically cope with it when the time comes, don't be afraid, everyone grew up like this.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's easy to do a lot of homework, and it's exhausting to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It should be a pleasure to go to college. Because you can finally get rid of the sea of questions in the three years of high school and live a freer, more autonomous, and more colorful life. Therefore, you should be hopeful about your university study and life, and face university life with a smile.

    Now that I am a sophomore, I feel that university life is rich and exciting, I will not be bored and empty, I can study and play well, and I can get a scholarship. First of all, college can be your paradise or a reason for your fall. Always remind yourself that the most important thing in college is to study.

    If you play very high, you only care about playing machines, you have to take a lot of subjects, and you have to retake it in your sophomore year, and you go to class and take exams with freshman students. If you have a lot of subjects, you will not be able to get a graduation certificate, and then you will go to the enterprise for an interview, which will be a big stain. Therefore, it is not correct to only ask for a pass, 60 points to live long, and to skip the elective courses in compulsory courses, and it will be a very painful thing to fail.

    Also, the library is a great resource not to waste. If you are not interested in your major, or are more interested in something else, you can double major or change majors, provided that you have good grades! Therefore, it is important to take care of your studies.

    Second, college life is no longer the days of high school where you spend all day in your head. You should participate in more club organizations, extracurricular activities, etc., don't study hard, about 3 organizations are more suitable. You won't be like me, who is involved in a lot of organizations, and sometimes you are so busy in college that you don't even have time to sleep (so I quit a lot of clubs in my sophomore year).

    It will not be too boring and lonely, and it will waste its studies by smoking, drinking, and playing machines. It's more important to do what you love and make friends with people who share the same hobbies to make life more colorful. Again, it's important to have good connections.

    When I first started college, I heard that college relationships were complicated. When I went to college, I realized that this was an exaggeration. There are many classmates in college who are very simple and kind, and you can make confidants, who will help you a lot in your future work and life.

    And the scope of making friends can't be limited to classes. Because I don't have many very good friends in my class, but there are a lot outside the class! Because things are gathered together, people are divided by groups.

    You don't have to have a good relationship with everyone in your class, and most of your college friends get together because of interests and things in common. It is important to note that it is important to take the initiative to socialize and not wait for someone to say hello. Discord is inevitable, but it's important to be considerate and communicate sincerely.

    Finally, let's talk about love. I've seen that my friends who are in a relationship are tired, and when they graduate from college, they are likely to go on their separate sides, and many of them end up failing. However, it is not easy to find a partner who resonates with you in college, so cherish the opportunity.

    When you encounter something you like, you should be bold to chase it, and don't give up the opportunity because of timidity and low self-esteem. A lot of college love is very simple, but it will be much more complicated in society. And it doesn't matter if you fall out of love in college, it is an opportunity to exercise and make you more mature, and there are not so many opportunities to exercise after work.

    Wishing you a colorful university life!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is good to have a certain amount of anxiety in college life, which will make people work harder, and college life itself is also preparing to go out into society, and it is normal to feel anxious. Anxiety can be alleviated through self-psychological regulation in the following ways:

    The Self-Psychology of Anxiety Disorders**:

    1. Take gamma oryzanol every day, 3 times a day, 2 capsules at a time, which will soothe your nerves and help you sleep.

    2. With Morita **, it is not to take the physical symptoms in mind, the physical discomfort is all wrong information, you ignore these discomforts, and your symptoms will slowly reduce.

    3. The easiest way to use a systematic desensitization method or disgust **** is to use a rubber band on your wrist, and play it hard whenever you have anxiety or thoughts, and you have to feel pain, which is also a kind of strengthening.

    4. Let go of your worries, your worries are the result of amplification, people live in worries, and they are born with a contingency, and we have to accept this contingency.

    5. When you are nervous and very uncomfortable, take a deep breath and mentally hint to yourself, my symptoms will be fine later, this is a symptom of anxiety disorder, it is the wrong information of the body, it will be fine after a while, it will be fine for a long time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is a good thing, born in peace and dying in sorrow.

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