What should I do if I have someone I love more after marriage? Is divorce a good option?

If you really love this person, then you can choose to divorce your other half and let him find a new person; Personally, I don't think divorce is a good choice, but if you love another person more, it will hurt three people very much, so you can only choose divorce.

In such cases, you should keep your mind clear and keep a safe distance from this person; Divorce is not a good option, because divorce is the most likely to hurt children, will affect the development of children in the future, and is also a sign of extreme irresponsibility.

On the one hand, it shows that they recover their self-healing ability quickly, and they quickly get rid of the pain of the previous relationship and devote themselves to a new relationship. On the other hand, it also shows that they may not take their feelings so seriously.

In the eyes of these people, marriage is a game, as simple as pretending to be a family. They have no idea how sacred marriage is, and they treat it very lightly.

I think that such a person changes his mind very quickly, which will make me feel that I have no feelings for my ex, I can't accept such a person, and I feel unreliable.

The person who can find a new love immediately after the divorce is not his personal personality charm, but that he has already had a candidate before marriage, and the divorce is just to be with another person.

People who find a new love immediately after the divorce show that they have no nostalgia for their previous marriage, and they can't even wait to escape, so they will find a new love immediately after the divorce.

The kind of person who finds a new love immediately after a divorce may really give up that relationship, this kind of thing is understandable, and it is especially good to be able to get out of that relationship.

This kind of person should have just been hurt by a relationship and hope that the next person they meet can have a better marriage.

Marriage does not mean that I am bound to my lover for the rest of my life, and I will choose to divorce and will not regret it if I encounter the following situations: In marriage,The status of the two is uneven, and they are stuffy; The three views do not agree and there are serious differences; Domestic violence

Unequal status

Marriage means two separate individuals forming a new family. Before getting married, two independent individuals had their own careers and their own goals. If you are forced to give up your life goals because of marriage, it means that such a marriage is not a help, but a drag on the oil bottle.

Marriage is to make life happier and sweeter, if after marriage, one of them must give up himself to serve the other, such a marriage is not what I pursue.

The three views do not agree

Husband and wife living together for a long time must have the same temper and the same three views. Because if two people have different views, or even go in opposite directions, there will be a lot of contradictions when dealing with problems. These contradictions accumulate little by little, and the gap between husband and wife will become bigger and bigger, and they will look at each other unpleasantly everywhere when they get along, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

If the husband and wife disagree and there are contradictions everywhere in their lives, it is very likely to develop into a small quarrel in three days and a big quarrel in five days. If this continues, the marriage will inevitably perish. If the scale leads to divorce for such reasons, I will not regret it.

Because only by leaving can you return to normal life, divorce is a relief for both of them.

Domestic violence

If there is domestic violence in the marriage, I will definitely get a divorce. If the other party is also violent, no one can guarantee how far it will eventually develop. If you live in fear every day and fight for your life, then such a marriage is a weapon for many people.

Therefore, when it comes to domestic violence, whether it is a boy or a girl, do not remain silent. Only by making brave choices can you take control of your life and your life.

Marriage is supposed to be a happy union, and if you are not having a good time in your marriage and cannot reconcile, choosing divorce can be a good way out.

As long as there is no problem of third-party involvement, I feel that there is no reason to influence, if it is because of the problem of third-party involvement, then I will not regret it, because it is impossible to keep people's hearts, and it is not necessary to continue to be together if there is no third-party intervention between husband and wife, then I believe that nothing can not be solved, and two people should support each other, work hard for each other, get through difficulties together, and solve problems in time.

Being unfaithful to my marriage, being irresponsible to my family, only caring about my own food, drinking and having fun, not participating in the growth of my children, caring enough about my lack of wisdom, and not being the same as the elderly on both sides, these reasons will make me choose to divorce my lover, and once I choose to divorce, I will never regret it.

The other party betrayed me, the other party was unmotivated, there was domestic violence, there was no job to be sent, there was no money, etc., I will not regret it, after all, I once had it.

There should be no divorce, marriage is not only love, but also a sense of responsibility, if you want a divorce, then you don't love him at all.

After getting married, you should not divorce someone you like. Because you have promised to stay with this person for the rest of your life, you should not behave irresponsibly again.

No, since you have chosen marriage, you should be responsible to the end, otherwise it will be an injustice to the other half.

No, since you are married, you have to be responsible for yourself, for your husband, and for your family.