Why don t men and women dress up and ignore their image when they reach middle age?

Lincoln once said, "A person's face before the age of 40 is determined by his parents, but after the age of 40, it should be decided by himself." A person is responsible for his appearance after the age of 40!

And middle-aged men who care about their image generally have a certain amount of financial ability, and they are willing to spend money to show their appearance better. We have an ancient Chinese saying called "each other is born from the heart". It is said that a person's mental outlook will affect his physiognomy.

From a psychological point of view, if a person's mental outlook is very good, his face will generally be very healthy, full of heaven, red and radiant. On the contrary, if a person is unhappy every day, then he must have a sad face and a closed brow, and in the long run, his face will also change greatly. In today's society, some urban women have a very high vision of choosing a mate, not only focusing on men's careers, but also paying attention to men's appearance.

Pay attention to men's appearance, not women's superficiality, this is human nature, is a sign of social progress. A man who does not pay attention to his appearance is not only unlikable to women on blind dates, but also unpopular in the workplace. I once had a friend who was a human resources manager, and every time he came to his company, if someone had an untidy image or was too fat, regardless of the talent of others, he would send them away with a few casual words during the interview.

I asked him why he only looked at these superficial things, and he said: "You don't expect people who can't even take care of their external image well, you don't expect him to do his job well. In addition, the company's staff are high-quality talents, and the customers are also high-quality elites, if you send a person with an untidy face and a sluggish spirit to meet customers, it will affect the company's image. Lincoln.

Most men and women don't dress up or show up their image when they reach middle age, mainly because of the pressure of life. Economic conditions are also one thing, and his life mainly revolves around his family. The child's parents are on the side, so they don't care about the image.

Men and women don't dress up and ignore their image when they reach middle age, because people generally have a family after middle age, and after getting married, they don't need to please others, so they generally don't pay attention to dressing up, and the work pressure is relatively high, and the time is tight, which also makes them neglect their image.

Many times, men or women dress up and take care of their own image, mostly in order to lose the gaze of the opposite sex. That is, they want to attract the gaze of the opposite sex to show their charm. Because they are not married and have no constraints from their other half, they definitely need to win the favor of the opposite sex in this way at this time.

When they first reach middle age, men and women are generally married, and at this time, they are mainly family-oriented, and they do not need to attract the attention of the opposite sex outside, so they are used to not dressing up. Besides, because the two have lived together for a long time, everyone is used to each other's true faces, and they don't have so much heart to dress up.

The situation you mentioned is a minority, and it may be due to family trivialities and other reasons that cause a raunchy image of yourself. But most men and women are middle-aged and still pay great attention to their image.

Men and women don't care about being particular and dressing up when they reach middle age, because people are old and young when they reach middle age, and they are busy making money to support their families every day, being filial to the elderly, taking care of children, and the pressure is particularly high, so they can't take care of it, and they can get by.

Both men and women have been overwhelmed by the years for a long time. Emotions that have been precipitated for a long time need a release point, and in middle age, life, work, etc. have been stabilized, and have stabilized, and normal development, when they are on the right track, people naturally want to let go, and do not want to restrain themselves anymore. So there is no excessive demand for clothing.

The main focus is on health.

Because there is no such thought and time, middle-aged men and women are under a lot of pressure, both old and young, and they have no time to dress up. Moreover, middle-aged people are more or less out of shape, and their faces are old, so they don't have the heart to dress up anymore.

That's because they don't have time to dress up, and the pressure of family and career makes them have no time to take care of it.

It varies from person to person that some people dress up very well in old age, which may be unkempt, there is no way when they are young, they need to face people in work and life, they have to clean themselves up, and they feel that they can when they are middle-aged, anyway, they don't have to care so much about their careers and families, and they start to be sloppy.

Because you have to support your family, there are old and young, where do you have so many expenses to dress up carefully, and there is that people change their minds when they reach middle age, they all think about how to make money, and others will look down on you if you do a bad job.

Because most of the men and women are married when they reach middle age, in addition to running around for money, rice, oil and salt, they also have to be responsible for the family every day, as well as taking care of the elderly and children, and their energy is limited, and the remaining time and money can no longer meet their own expenses, how can they still be in the mood to dress themselves.

Life is compelled by the manifestation of maturity. Therefore, when people reach middle age, they are old and young, and they naturally can't take care of their love for beauty, nor do they care about their image.

After men and women reach middle age, their lives are too stressful, both old and young, and even car loans and housing loans, which are really stressful, and they don't have the energy to dress up at all, and they don't even care about their own image.

The social experience is slowly sufficient, and I know that people's hearts are sinister, and they have become shameless. Unlike students, who think that society is benevolent and moral, they are afraid of doing wrong things and being sorry for others.

Because middle-aged men and women will feel that the inside is more important than the face! It's no longer time to eat the meal of youth! The value of appearance is not so important and concerned!

Thirty is not confused, forty and knows the destiny of heaven, and when he reaches a certain age, he thinks that he is naturally and comfortably on fire, and he is more pessimistic and casual about other things. It's the majority of people who don't dress up, and it should be a minority regardless of the image, the kind of person who has no pursuit of life and is lazy.

Not everyone is middle-aged and ignores the image, most of those who don't care about the image are in a state, can't raise enthusiasm for life, are busy every day, or don't do anything, and everyone who has a pursuit lives exquisitely no matter what age.

No matter how people dress up in middle age, it's like that, and middle-aged people are old and young, how can they have time to dress up, and the economy doesn't support it, they can't afford to spend a penny in half, and they have to start spending money every morning as soon as they wake up for a new day, and have money to dress up? Unless it's a rich person, it's like that for ordinary people.

It can't be generalized, everyone has a love for beauty, no matter what age people have a love for beauty, but people need to take care of more things when they reach middle age, and sometimes they ignore their appearance, which is also reasonable.

Because the marriage is also married, there is no need to chase the little girl, the young man. Isn't it to attract the opposite sex and leave a good impression on the public, and you have to dress up well for the sake of your career. Now my career is stable. You don't have to force yourself to dress up.

Middle-aged people don't like to dress up and ignore their image, they don't have too much time, and they don't have time, as long as they don't show their charm by dressing up.

Because no one appreciates it, and there is nothing to care about.

Most of the men and women have already started a family when they reach middle age, and the external view is no longer so important, but the quality of life and children's education are more important.

Most men and women care about their image. But it also takes time. If even survival is not guaranteed, how many people are there? Will be willing to take the time to pay attention to the image.

It's not like you say, everyone has a love for beauty. Middle-aged people are also more particular. Unless conditions do not allow.

This statement is rather one-sided. Many men and women love to dress up and take care of their image when they reach middle age.