It will be happy if you continue to love , but not perfectly! If you don t love , you will be relu

You write very well, we may be about the same age, and our experiences may be different, but most of our experiences are the same.

I think you and I understand both the truth. What life is realistic, the life of a man ploughing and a woman weaving cannot happen in contemporary times. Perhaps the communism imagined by our great motherland can solve this problem.

I met her, and it may be inevitable to fall in love with each other and talk about marriage in the end, maybe these are a way to make us more mature. Naturally, the final breakup is not an accident.

Maybe you won't be able to get to know a man in your life, especially a man like you are around now. Maybe the woman you mentioned was his first love in the true sense of the word. She is the woman he really gave everything and really looked forward to for a lifetime.

This feeling, even if there is a woman stronger than her in the future, or a woman more suitable than her, maybe it's you, he will not completely forget her, especially when she is not doing well.

You may ask, is there really no way to solve this?

Yes, but it depends on the blessings. Kindness is both an advantage and a disadvantage. Kind people in this society will only give people bullies. But he bullied you. Hehe.

You are also a kind person. Neither of them is small. It's time to think about your family, think about thinking about the people who care about you.

Don't let the people who care about you worry about you. Find a warm and comfortable environment, try not to quarrel, don't cry, and talk sensibly. It's best to lock the door and don't leave until you understand it.

What's the big deal between people? What a few women, a few men, no money, no career. What is all this for, isn't it just to live happily?

If you don't have money, you're afraid that your friends will look down on you, so are you friends? If you don't have a career, your relatives look down on you, and your relatives have always been so powerful.

Or is it the same sentence, doesn't he listen to you in everything? Then let him really listen to you once, and let him take out all his psychological words. Don't keep it in mind.

At the end you have to tell him. The woman next to you loves you as much as you love that woman, and pays for you. You expect her to marry you with the children.

I also hope that you will forget the past and cherish the people in front of you.

It's a mess of brains. That's all for it.

Sober up!!

You haven't seen the cruelty of this society!

Now I just feel that people are kind and good, and when I get married and have children, I think kindness can be worth a few dollars when I have no money to eat!

If you can't guarantee your future life, divide it up and he doesn't have you in his heart at all now.

Second, your basic livelihood security is not good, so take advantage of the fact that you should think about it yourself.

The reality of life to live, to follow the real life, like you, I feel that giving up may be a relief for you. If a man fails in his career, you will be very tired in the future. But then again, love is not determined by money.

Find someone who loves you so that you feel safe. It will make your life steady. But you also have to look at your own conditions, if you can find a better one, why not give it a try.

Love is not pitiful in two words. If you don't want to leave him, it's to see him pitiful, which means that you don't really love him. It's just a feeling of pity.

Love is not a picture, truth does not need to be long, there is no right or wrong in love, what you need is to face reality.

I'm in a similar situation to you.

Ask yourself if your heart really loves him so much?

If love is true, it will follow.

In fact, marriage is like this, there will be a lot of unsatisfactory in life, not used to it! I don't understand, since you don't like him, why don't you reject it completely? How could it be so muddy and muddy to the point that everyone knows about it?

Now, I don't think you should take a step lightly, because every step you take will affect him, his reputation, his face! So your move is crucial! I don't know if the baby in your womb belongs to your fiancé.

If so, I advise you to marry him! First, you are worried about the physical effects of removing the child. Second, his family knows the good news that you are getting married.

Third, and most importantly! He's good to you! That's enough!

The supreme thing in marriage is to find someone who is good to you! Actually, you are very happy, take advantage of it! As for the faults that you can't get used to, if he really likes you, he will change!

Marriage turns into affection in the end. When the child lands, the parents' focus shifts to the child, so I personally think you can still think about your relationship!

Hey, you're too... It's too much mud and water, where is this, from the perspective of the opposite sex, I guess you must be a woman who is soft on the outside and wants to protect, but the heart is unpredictable, with all due respect, I'm afraid you should have a lot of previous emotional experience.

Your so-called emotional exhaustion and numbness syndrome,It's because of too much intake of feelings to a unique numbness and disgust of feelings.,I don't know what you think.,But my opinion is basically the same as seikilili.,Many factors determine that your current choice can't be self-willed because of yourself.,Think about other people are ready to marry you.,Children are about to have.,In case you really go to the step you said.,I think any man can't stand it.,What can I do?,I'm really worried about you.。 Hehe.

But if you are so unprepared to accept it in a daze, your life will be troublesome in the future, and it may become a hidden danger to your marriage.

Of course, you don't have to worry, let alone worry, because things are not as bad as you think, you can calm down now, think about it, although the person in front of you is not the type you like, but whether he is a person you can entrust for life, you must know that the feeling of marriage and love is different, a good lover may not be suitable for marriage, take on the responsibility of being a husband, on the contrary, a good husband may not be able to be romantic, do a good job of being a lover, the road ahead is still very long, I strongly recommend that if the other party is good and very responsible for you, forget it, I don't know how unpleasant this man makes you, but it's not the kind of person with crooked eyes and slanted mouth, I know you're very contradictory, I want to find someone who likes yourself and what you like, in fact, I like to count a p, like I've been married for a few years, how romantic it was when we were in love, and now it's a bird, she doesn't like it, I don't like her, I don't get used to it, it's been like this for a long time.

Look at how many advantages you have now, you haven't been in love for a long time, and you can continue to find out and understand each other when you get married, better than us, hurry up and get married, don't lie to you.

You may not realize it now, but you will be very happy in the future by comparing yourself with the people around you.

Personally, I think that reality and ideals are two different things, yes, as you said, if you don't love him, you will worry about unhappiness together, and the ideal is, of course, to find someone to love, get married and have children. But what about reality? You're going to get rid of this child, and then you're going to tell everyone you're not married, and then you're going to find another one, and it's going to drag on for a few more years, or longer, and in the end, you'll find that it's better to get married, but if you're married now, you'll think, what if I'm not happy in the future?

In fact, there are concerns about everything.

In fact, the life of two people, especially marriage, whether you love each other and get married or marry like you, it is the same after marriage. There is no big difference, don't get old and think about some and not, since it's already like this, let's go on, I have a child, and it's unrealistic to break up now.

I got pregnant after knowing each other for less than a year.

Since I don't love. Then you will be guilty of marriage together.

He thought he had a happy home. In summary. found out that his wife didn't love him.

It's also very unfair to him.

And children. That's it again. Small children are the most innocent.

You separate. The child will definitely have a hard time in the future.

You don't want children. It's really not good for your health.

I can only blame you for being impulsive.

If you really feel uncomfortable. I really don't love his words at all. Then speak up. Don't wait until later to create any contradictions. It's not good for both sides.

Let's give birth to the child. I think it's so pathetic. -3-..

But if you feel that the birth of a child will be an obstacle for you to find your next partner.

That's it. The best thing is. You look for his merits. Let yourself fall in love with him.

Marriage is marriage, and feelings belong to feelings

Both are not necessarily exhaustive

You'll understand later

Better a finger off than always aching.

Hurry up and finish. so as not to suffer for a long time after marriage.

Cups! The arrow is on the string and has to be sent.

Hehe, an old and realistic question, déjà vu, like someone asking themselves, will you choose someone you love to be with or someone who loves you to be with.

I think that not everyone is so lucky to find the person who is perfect, who is both loved and loved by themselves. In most cases, those who are together are a few people, and they are not young, and when they meet someone with similar conditions, they can get married or they still think they are good.

I've also asked a lot of friends which one to choose, and I've asked myself this question. What I want to say is, in all aspects, if the person you love doesn't love you, don't insist on being with him; If that person loves you and cares about you a lot, then stay with him and you will be happy :)

When two people are together, they want to spend a lifetime of life, an ordinary life. If love is rationally speaking, in the days of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, it will always be attributed to family affection, which becomes ordinary and bland, generally 3 years. After that, the love between the two turned into a habit.

But if someone loves you very much, at least the person you are looking for will always be good to you and will always care about the person who will help you and support you. The road of life is very long, and it takes a lot of strength to walk alone, so it takes two people to make up a herringbone in order to hold up a piece of the sky that belongs to them, which is a family that belongs to two people. If this person has always been good to you, your home will be stable, and after being together for a long time, you will have dependence and habits, and you will have a good feeling, as long as this person is good to you for the rest of your life, you will be happy.

Only a very small number of love lasts a lifetime.

Happiness needs to be grasped and managed by oneself. Maybe there was no love at the beginning, but that doesn't mean there will still be no love between you in the future. Love also needs to be cultivated, when we face feelings, as long as you are sincere to face, work hard to manage and effective ways and methods.

I think there will be feelings, and there will be happiness.

If she loves you with all her heart, it is better to love someone than to be loved.

A person who treats himself well may also treat himself badly in the future, and he may not be able to tell what will happen in the future.

No, but it will be stable, and it will be happy.

It depends on your definition of happiness, if you have always wanted the two of you to love to death, it is impossible, and when love is transformed into family affection, its nature has also changed subtly, and it is no longer vigorous.

Life after marriage is ordinary most of the time, and what keeps the marriage unchanged is occasional romance, recognition and respect for each other.

Will be happy, as long as the man is good to the woman, the woman will slowly fall in love with the man! Because people are sentient animals!

Love doesn't have to be a good marriage.

It is possible that in the end, love will become less and less, and family affection will increase.

Maybe. At least not to exclude people are not hard-hearted... Especially girls are the most likely to fall in love for a long time.

Oh, love is a thing that hangs so some people say that love is something that I've only heard of and never seen Sometimes you feel that the idea of not loving this man is just a thought that you have imposed on yourself for a long time, a mindset. I'm an example, I just fell in love with my boyfriend and I really don't like him at all, he loves me very much, he is very tolerant of me, good to me, little by little six years have passed, I really can't do without him now, every time I quarrel and break up, I am very tormented, and I have to take the initiative to find him. This is a little bit of change, a woman, such a sensual animal!

I used to read on the Internet and say that men are not animals who fall in love for a long time! But women are the opposite! Because of the need for a sense of security

You don't want to be with him because you feel in your heart that he's not the kind you love, and I'm sure you must have someone you like in your heart. At least you feel like you're going to spend the rest of your life with a model of people you've defined. And your current husband can't reach it.

But your heart is thinking about living with the person you want to be.

When people have a higher goal in their hearts, they will turn a blind eye to the lower goals, in other words, no matter how good your husband is to you and how much he loves you, it is impossible to penetrate deep into your heart.

There are two things you can do right now. Think it through before deciding.

1。You can forget about the kind of life you want to live and the model of the lover that has been defined in your mind. (Maybe you don't understand, for example, you want to live a leisurely life like Yang and Xiaolongnu, but your current husband has given you the same life as Guo Jing and Huang Rong.)

This is not the married life you want) so put your mind on your current husband and live a good life. It's hard for you, though. Because I also feel that you are very young.

2.Stick to what you want in your heart, divorce. Because you can't accept your husband's love for you if you continue to be together.

You're going to be miserable. Watch him treat you well and you can't treat him well. You will blame yourself for feeling guilty because he loves you, and if you don't resolutely and ruthlessly leave him, it will only make him feel that he has done something wrong.

And to change for you. In the end, it didn't work. Because the root cause is that you don't love him, and you don't think about him.

It doesn't matter which one you choose. Don't regret it.

Hope it helps.