How to overcome the phenomenon of unnatural speech, how to achieve the wind of laughter?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-18
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There are two situations of unnatural speech, one is born with a language disorder, one is a psychological problem, if you are a language disorder, it is best to see a doctor, psychological problems are divided into too little knowledge, talking to people is a kind of feeling that you can't find something to say, and there is an autism caused by inferiority, not talking to people and being embarrassed to talk to people, in fact, if you want to talk and laugh, knowledge is the key, you don't have relevant knowledge, it's useless to have good eloquence, when talking to people, try to find what you know, understand what you say, There is also to find a person with good eloquence often to do against him, I used to have a girl in the class who was eloquent, I often told him, so it is very helpful to exercise his eloquence, but this should also be grasped well, what should be said and what should not be said must also be mastered, so as not to cause others to resent it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    1.Talk to people who are eloquent.

    2 Pay attention to yourself, and don't always think about other people's opinions, because others pay much less attention to you than you think Don't care about others, I also came to this at the beginning

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Why are you talking about laughter? Hehe.

    Find your true self, find the circle you fit into, or don't pay attention to the people around you, or they don't know as much as you do, but they don't feel as clever as your theory, and everyone uses other ways to shirk you, but the truth is still in your hands Why bother with them, imagine that you will feel shy talking to ants? Many things in the world have two sides, some people are tall, some people are short, some people have yellow hair, some people have black hair, but you can't say which kind of people are useless, it is a person's social value, rice and white flour are staple foods, maybe talking and laughing is talent, but it's not a big deal Famous tongue debaters are all But most scientists are not good at talking Find your own direction This world is no big deal To be happy and valuable This is the pursuit of life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you really want to learn, you recommend that you join Amway or insurance companies, these companies will make people's faces thicker, hey, don't talk and laugh, it's a piece of cake.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What's so hard about that? I usually try to communicate! (For people I don't know, I think it's unnatural for anyone to speak).

    Find a confidant to help you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Find someone you don't like the most.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Talk to your friends about what you know.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Why are you talking about laughter? Hehe. Is it good to have kind words?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Enrich your knowledge base, once your head is full, you can blow fresh and refined when you blow water. In fact, you can know a little bit about all aspects of knowledge, and you don't have to talk very deeply about it when you use it for ordinary chats. Of course, if the other party has a special study of something, they will go deeper**, but at that time it is already a discussion between friends, not an exchange between strangers.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Well, I think it's a problem that everyone encounters, more or less. Not everyone is the leader, otherwise who is the audience? It's not that talking too much will make people think that you can say it, otherwise how could there be Tang Seng to say it?

    Therefore, find your own position, listen at the same time you are also accumulating, in the field you are good at timely express your opinions, people will think that you are deeply hidden, and humble (usually don't talk much), not to say that you worship you, at least people appreciate

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Frequently finding topics indicates that the materials you have accumulated on a certain topic are not enough, so when you talk about a certain topic, you have to change the topic after not talking for a long time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I feel this way all the time. Actually, it's not that you're boring to talk. My opinion is that there is something wrong with your friend.

    I have a lot of friends, some of whom are very generous, and if you tell a joke, even if he doesn't think it's funny, he will give you a smile on your face. However, people in some places like that, they don't laugh at what you say, they just don't like to give you this face, I don't know what the reason is.

    What you have to do is to keep this mood of amusement. It's just your individual friends, it's not all. Don't be silent because he doesn't give you face.

    Maintaining a good mood also helps your life. You know. Make a few more friends, especially the one who talks very funny, and he will help you too.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can form your own style, such as deliberately pretending to be serious, or occasionally selling stupid, so that your friends can think that you are a very interesting person, be sure to let go in front of your friends, or read more funny language.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Listen more and talk less, and continue to accumulate your friends' way of speaking in social interactions, and slowly you will be able to speak boldly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, you need to enrich yourself and make yourself erudite! In this way, you can express your own opinions on what others say.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The spirit of Taihe, as long as there is the gas of Taihe, you can talk to anyone.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, you should be in a good mood.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Open your heart and treat everyone like a brother.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Seeing people and talking about people, and talking about ghosts ...... ghosts

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It doesn't matter what you do, there is no pursuit, there is no goal, always remember that there is nothing, there is no is nothing, and the four are empty. And so it did.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Talking and laughing is a matter of two people. Rely on fate and your talent.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Is it an interview or a campaign? Both should be prepared before proceeding, that is, find the relevant information, fully understand the basic information of the position you are going to perform, and adjust your mentality.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Exercise more! There is no good way but to overcome it on your own.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    From talent, to answer questions can be strengthened, but also by others!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Learn more, read more!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Go out and make more friends. Talk more. I used to be like you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Find a good environment, a job that you love, exercise yourself, and this environment will give you encouragement and praise, the environment of the direct selling company is good, everyone will not crowd anyone, positive and enterprising.

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