If you accidentally make someone cry, do you think it s because he s too squeamish or if you re too

I would feel like I had gone too far and would apologize to him.

In the process of getting along with people, we always express our relationship with people through some jokes or pranks. But sometimes what we think is small can touch the hearts of others and cause great harm to others.

Empathy never exists in life, and we never know what others have been through. Some time ago, when I was at work, a colleague who usually likes to joke very much told me that a girl outside the company came to me and said that it was my first love. My heart was beating so hard that I felt that my blood pressure was unstable, and then I ran outside the company in a panic, only to find that there was no one.

It's hard to describe the feeling at the time, there was a hint of amazement, but also a hint of relief. Maybe I'm looking forward to seeing each other, but I don't want to face the embarrassment of meeting.

When I got back to work, I had a face-to-face with that colleague and almost got into a fight. I don't know why, maybe it's because of the embarrassment of being played, maybe it's because he made fun of my first love. Since then, he has never dared to joke with me again.

In fact, everyone in real life has their own unique experience and mental journey. We don't know what other people have been through, we don't know what will touch the sensitive nerves of others, and the jokes in life can sometimes really touch people.

I would feel like I had gone too far and would immediately apologize and hope he would forgive me. Just as I was touched by a colleague's joke, perhaps at some point, my joke or a sentence will inadvertently touch someone else. I was able to hold back not crying, not everyone was able to hold back tears.

When I make someone cry because of my factors, I don't feel that they are too squeamish, because I haven't experienced him, I just feel that I have done something too much, and I will immediately apologize to the other person, hoping not to be blamed.

In the future, I will pay special attention to this and hope that I will not hurt others again. I don't think it's a kindness, it's just a basic rule that should be followed in the process of getting along with people. We should not hurt others, nor should we mock the vulnerability of others.

Because when you are touched in a vulnerable place, you will be sadder than he cries.

People always expect the world to work the way they imagine it to be, but there are so many things in life that don't work out that way. When we hurt others, we should admit our mistakes, correct them, and don't let ourselves become evil people in other people's lives.

People need to be measured in getting along with each other, and people who can't master it will never be true friends.

I will feel that I have gone too far, because everyone will have their own weaknesses, whether I have intentional or not, I have touched his point, so it is still my fault, although I don't know, but I will definitely pay more attention to this in the process of getting along in the future.

If you encounter such a situation and provoke the other party to cry, of course, you will think that you have gone too far and done too much, and you should also apologize to the other party.

Maybe I think I'm too much, and the reason why I'm too much will make the other party cry, and then cause some psychological damage to the other party, I will review myself.