10 The boy took a shortcut and crossed the river and died, why didn t the boy say it

A 10-year-old boy took a shortcut and crossed the river to his death, and the boy who was traveling with him did not dare to say, but I think the main reason was that he was frightened. For a child, in the face of such a thing, he must have suffered a certain psychological impact, and at the same time, he is afraid of being beaten and scolded by his family and the other party's family, so he subconsciously chooses to escape. <>

When we were young, my brother was surfing the Internet in an Internet café, I wanted to go to him, but I didn't dare to go, my brother's friend had 3 people at the time, so he led me there, and it took about 20 minutes to walk to that place, on the way, we met a family with 5 very fierce dogs, mainly responsible for guarding the door. Usually the door of the family is closed, and the door is locked inside, but the door was opened a little that day, and when we passed by, suddenly a group of dogs ran out, and rushed towards us while barking, and we screamed loudly at that time, and one of my brother's friends told us not to move, otherwise they would bite us. <>

The dogs circled around us, and when one dog approached another friend, he subconsciously avoided it, and finally I was bitten by the dog and started crying. There was an adult who lived next door, who heard the sound and drove the dog away, came to ask me if I was okay, and when he saw that I was bitten and bleeding, he let me go. When the owner of the dog came back, he took me to the hospital for injections.

As soon as I heard this, I was even more scared, worried that I would be scolded by my parents when I went home, so I kept crying. My brother's friend directly said that it was okay, so he led me away and went to find my brother.

When I arrived at the Internet café and told my brother about the situation, my brother's first reaction was to turn on the computer and play games for me to divert my attention. Then he began to coax me into telling me not to tell my parents, or he would be finished. None of us said anything about it, and we didn't ask the dog owner to take me to get an injection, as if it hadn't happened.

After a few years, I learned the seriousness of being bitten by a dog without injections, and chose to confess to my mother, who scolded us, but there was no way, fortunately it was okay in the end. <>

In fact, many children are like us at that time, when they encounter problems, their first thought is that they are afraid of being scolded by their parents, and when they are too scared, they will choose to avoid it, and their sense of danger is relatively poor, and sometimes they may not realize the seriousness of the problem. So both parents have a lot of responsibility for this matter.

He may be very scared, worried that he will be regarded as a ** when he says it, so he doesn't dare to say it.

Children generally do not experience this kind of thing, and there is no subjective remedy, and at the same time, they are frightened by the scene in front of them, and they do not have the subjective judgment ability, and they do not know whether to say or not, so they do not say it.

The boy was too frightened to speak. Faced with such a situation, adults will have no bottom in their hearts, let alone a child.

The boy should be about ten years old, and he should have been scared. Especially the harsh questioning of family members and strangers, I am even more afraid of being beaten and scolded, so I choose to avoid it and not say it.

The incident must have been due to a lack of family safety education.

First of all, the lack of safety warning signs at the site of the accident is one of the reasons why the boy was washed away and killed. Due to flooding, the usual roads were flooded. The boy walked with his friends, and the boy wanted to step on the wooden bridge on the water to cross the river and go home, but his friends did not dare to step on it.

So the boy was swept away by the flood when he got on the bridge himself. The companion was too scared to tell his family, and when he finally found the boy, he was dead. At present, the safety facilities and safety warnings in many villages and towns are not very comprehensive.

Therefore, it is still hoped that all departments can take active measures to reduce the occurrence of accidents. <>

In addition, the lack of family education is also a very important reason. The flood was very large, and the child had no sense of danger. It is precisely because of the lack of emphasis and education on such issues at home and in schools.

At present, many parents in rural areas have gone out to work, and only the elderly are still taking care of their food, clothing, housing and transportation. The elderly have limited energy and can only pay more attention to the children's warmth, and lack education such as safety or learning. Parents usually go home a limited number of times a year due to their busy work, and there is very little education for their children.

For another child, watching his little friend be washed away by the flood. Because of his timidity, he has been hiding things, delaying the time to save people. This incident may have caused a certain shadow on the child, but I still hope to take on more responsibilities in life.

Don't be timid and afraid of things to delay your life.

This kind of thing happens a lot every year in all parts of the country, and there is a certain reason for the safety education of the family. Therefore, no matter how busy the work is, it is necessary to strengthen the safety education of children in all aspects, and the education of schools should also be strengthened. The relevant departments of each region should also place safety warning signs in the corresponding places.

Reduce the occurrence of accidents from all aspects. When there is a regional flood, typhoon, collapse, etc., it is necessary to pay more attention. I hope that the children can grow up safely and healthily.

Be. It was a very common thing for a boy to take a shortcut, but he didn't know much about the depth of the river that led to the tragedy, and the family's safety education was definitely not in place.

Yes. The lack of safety education for children is not only due to the responsibility of the family, but also to the school.

It must be the lack of safety education in the family, and the awareness of self-protection must be popularized. A gentleman does not stand under a dangerous wall.