Why is it that the busier I am at work, the more I feel that something is missing around me?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-19
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Love is gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, failure is with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad together. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him happy forever, to be her eternal safe haven, to protect her, even if it is the slightest harm.

    Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love. The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time at his or her disposal, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together! Eternal love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, eternal love is your love.

    Love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other party, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. As long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There are many reasons why you are busy at work

    1. The division of labor is unreasonable.

    2. Limited self-level.

    3. Improper arrangement of work.

    4. The work is illegal, resulting in invalid labor.

    5. Inattentive at work, such as looking at the mobile phone for a long time, occupying or wasting working time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The work is very busy, it may be the workload, and the adults have too much work to complete, so they are very busy, and it may be that they have not found the right way to work. So I was very busy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Nowadays, most people in society are very busy and tired at work, this is because the pace of society is too fast, we are ordinary and ordinary people, we also want to have a good life, so we are very desperate and very hard to run in life, which is all caused by greed. Be sure to take good care of yourself and slow down. We can't afford to neglect one or the other, and let our health be detrimental.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Busy work means good business and good benefits, and busy work means that you have earned money.

    Work is really busy, no why, it's all about trying to live a better life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm looking for a job right now, I'm very busy.

    The boss is going to squeeze your oil clean and drive you away, and then another person will squeeze his oil clean and drive him away, and so on and so forth.

    Because the boss is afraid, the boss is afraid that he will have no funds, expand reproduction, and be driven away by other bosses!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Everyone's work will be very busy, there will be such and such things to do non-stop, but the boss will definitely not let you sit here when you pay your salary, so you are a part-time worker or a lot of work.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on how you do your work, and if you are perfunctory and not so careful, you will not be very tired. If you work carefully and meticulously, and you don't let go of every detail, you will be busy all day long.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello friend, work is very busy, this time is normal, because everyone needs to work, as long as work is busy, you may ignore the people around you, so understand each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Some jobs are really busy, the nature of the work is different, and some work overtime, no matter how busy they are, they are all to support their families, which is not easy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Work is really busy, why work is busy is a good thing, because the benefits are good, so busy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Work is really busy, why because of each? Work is really busy, why? Because everybody has a job, and sometimes it's really busy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course, if you're busy, you'll have extra space. It is said that you can earn a lot of money if you are busy at work, so it is right to say that you are busy for a few days! If you're not busy, you really can't make money!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, you have to think about why he works so hard for the future. You have to have faith in him, and he can't deliberately ignore you. You have to think that he has you in his heart, is there anything wrong with a boyfriend with a career?

    Think about it from another perspective, if your boyfriend is an unemployed vagrant who chats with you all day long, how will you live in the future? For a boyfriend who has nothing, your parents won't let you marry him in the future! So be sure to be confident!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Work is really busy.

    There is no reason, work needs to work overtime, and it will be overtime and busy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's an irrelevant excuse, otherwise any work has a priority, and there will be no busy problem in order.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The fact that your current job is so busy that it takes up your personal time means that you did not conduct in-depth research and understanding of the industry or position before joining the company, so you made an unsatisfactory choice, resulting in the end not being as good as you expected.

    For example, I'm a person who desperately needs personal time and space, so if I were to get off work like my husband and just change places, I guess I'd be broken by negative energy sooner or later. So I chose to enter a state-owned enterprise, although I was also busy, but at least the culture determined that although there was overtime, I would not work overtime every day.

    Secondly, if it is a habit of doing things, it has put you in a situation of being busy:

    If everyone can commute to and from work on time, and only you need to work overtime all the time, then to put it bluntly, your productivity is problematic.

    A few days ago, I also felt that I was in a situation of being busy, and I was busy like a firefighter every day, and there was always something to do, but when I was about to write a summary after a week, I found that I didn't seem to have made any achievements, and then I was very irritable.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. It is a job that you can handle within your ability, but the workload exceeds your daily capacity load, or there is no helper, so you are very busy.

    2. Beyond your current work ability, you have not found an efficient way to deal with it, and you are still using low-level simple methods to deal with it, which is inefficient and takes up a lot of time, so you are very busy at work.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Many people in the workplace are always accustomed to saying that the company is not good, which is not satisfactory, but should we also think about what changes we have made for this, why the leader is proud of overtime, what is the reason behind him, if my work is completed well and does not need to be completed through overtime, and the leader can also see and recognize the results, does that mean that you can not work overtime?

    Has he ever given feedback to the leader about this problem, whether he understands or does not understand, and whether he still insists on the idea of working overtime after seeing that he can have good work results without overtime.

    In the face of unhappiness, the first thing we should think of is to correct, rather than abandon the willful unhappiness.

    Article **2 Second, is this company still worth nostalgia?

    Except for the overtime, does this company meet its expectations? Is there anything else to be nostalgic for? If the company has a high salary, good benefits, proximity to home, and good future development prospects, then why not choose to stick to it.

    Of course, if there is nothing to be nostalgic about, and nothing can meet your expectations, then you should think carefully about whether to leave or stay.

    That is to say, we can't leave because of a little dissatisfaction, choosing a job is influenced by multiple factors, and leaving should also be affected by multiple factors.

    3. Hate overtime or hate the formalism of leadership.

    We should also think about whether we really don't like overtime, or whether we don't like the formalistic attitude of leaders towards overtime.

    If you are very resistant to overtime, as long as it is overtime, you will not do it, this is a matter of principle, and you can go without regrets.

    Fourth, time will not be wasted, if you are just not satisfied with overtime, why not use overtime time to enrich yourself.

    Time is never wasted, if the company requires overtime, then after doing the existing work, find online courses to learn, now there are so many online courses, just use overtime to learn some courses, such as workplace skills ppt, excel, word skills, you can find a good course on the Internet, such as the course of this major can also find micro courses on the Internet, various ways of learning, the key is to have such a large period of time that is not disturbed, why not study.

    From another point of view, overtime has become an act of improving skills, which is equivalent to forcing oneself to grow, and if it is not for the company to force oneself to go home, wouldn't this time be wasted.

    Everything is two-sided, depending on how you see, think, and use.

    Therefore, whether to go or to stay, based on your own situation, strive for change, think about your true thoughts, look at the problem from a different angle, maybe you will have a real answer.

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