How should I control myself if I talk too much? How do people who talk a lot control themselves to t

Updated on workplace 2024-07-20
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Self-control. Trying to restrain yourself from talking too much requires improving your control, and always reminding yourself to exercise restraint when you want to speak and get into someone else's chat industry. You can eat something, or drink some water, and you can control your talk too much in these ways.

    Divert attention. If you want to talk and it's all inconsequential, then do something else, don't continue to listen to other people's chats, you can leave the atmosphere of the chat as appropriate, and do other things to divert your attention and avoid joining the chat.

    Concise. A lot of the time it's nonsense, useless words. When talking and chatting with others, pay attention to expressing the key points of the matter, highlight the meaning you want to explain, have nothing to do with the topic, don't talk about superfluous gossip, and refrain from talking nonsense and gossip.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    How should I control myself if I talk too much? There are a lot of words, sometimes it is not good to say, it is easy to hurt others, think about it yourself, control your emotions, don't talk nonsense, say what you should say. Don't say what you shouldn't say.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I come to you talk a lot, how should you control yourself? I think if you talk a lot, try to say as little as possible, no matter what you do singing? We all hear people say that listening more and watching less is the best, and I think no matter what you do, you have to control yourself?

    is also qualified, but you can't say much, if you do it wrong, it's easy to hurt people, it's easy to hurt others, so you can only see what others say and what others say? Let's learn from the experience slowly! So try to be in public places, so talk less and listen more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There are two kinds of diseases, one is mania and the other is rushing thinking. Guidance: Both are mainly manifested by the patient's multi-language language.

    But the former is a neurosis, and the latter is a psychotic one. In fact, it is not so scary, what must be said must be said, and it is uncomfortable to hold it in my heart. Try not to say things that you don't need to say in a formal setting.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In the past, it was admonished that the words were half a sentence on the tip of the tongue. That is to say, you must be careful when you speak. Think about what you can say and what you can't say. Hold back when you want to speak without having to, listen to others and say what others want to hear.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When you want to talk, try to think about it, and then control your emotions and say less or nothing about what you want to say.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Think before you speak, what to say and what not to say.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1, an unintentional sentence is not the case in the eyes of others, since it will not be left and right, then be maverick, worthy of your heart, and admonish yourself to talk less and do more

    2. Tell yourself: talk less and be transparent.

    3. Once again, tell yourself to talk less and do more, and put away your excess feelings.

    4. I have no intention of studying at all, and I have a lot of things in my head. I often tell myself to talk less, and if I talk less, I just can't remember, and I often talk nonsense. It's really damning to look back on when I'm done!

    5. Never look down on anyone, but also feel that some people should be destroyed, there is no so-called high emotional intelligence, alone often admonish yourself to talk less, to treat people with courtesy, but also can't stand hypocritical people, people should only be kind to worthy people.

    6, maybe I was born with a magic ability to speak and be hated by others or something...Tell yourself that it's better to talk less and live happily in your own secondary world...

    7. Every step at the beginning of the word 2 is particularly important, live up to anyone who has helped me in my growth, precipitate myself, let an impetuous heart calm down, tell myself to talk less and do more, and maintain my own principles and bottom line.

    8. Tell yourself to talk less and do more, and don't trust anyone easily.

    9. As soon as I arrived at the office, no matter how good my mood was, it was time to change the environment and change the state. Always tell yourself to talk less and do more. Take your time, take your time.

    10. Today I began to tell myself to talk less in everything, and swallow the words back to my mouth. Have a good attitude and mentality. Be kind to everything.

    11. If you talk too much, you will lose, "if you can't speak, talk less", warn yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. Think about what you want to say three times before you want to speak.

    2. Don't mix topics that have nothing to do with you.

    3. Don't go to crowded places.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It has nothing to do with it, and if you say too much, you will lose.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Silence is golden, I take this phrase as a motto. As the old saying goes, "there is calm in every big event", which tells us that if things are slow, they will be round, and that it is easier to succeed when things are slow.

    The more mature a person is, the less likely he is to show himself in front of others, but to respect his inner feelings. If you do it, you will be a saint, if you say that you will be a sage, if you say that you will be a sage, if you say that you will not do it, you will be a liar. So, why should I babble?

    Self-cultivation and virtue, so as to form their own gentleman's personality. This sentence is a bit boastful. I say again, I dare not say that I am a gentleman, but I am definitely not a hypocrite.

    Living in groups can also prevent disasters from coming out of the mouth, and diseases from entering the mouth. The so-called "right and wrong is only to open more mouths, and the troubles are all due to the strong head", sit alone to guard against your heart, be cautious about your words and deeds, and prevent your own chaotic heart.

    The world is crazy, but according to my nature, I always try to maintain a little dignity and seek a little peace in the crazy world. There is extreme sensitivity and amplified uneasiness in my personality, and words become an outlet for my feelings. Holding a book at night, mending his broken life.

    I know that I am soft-spoken, so I don't like to talk nonsense, so I pretend to keep my own meter of sunshine. Let the years take their course. I read poetry books, recited poems and essays, walked the clouds and water, and the pen walked the dragon and snake. Of course, I have to tell myself that the noble man is late.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then you should always remind yourself not to talk too much and listen to others more.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. Divert attention: If you want to talk and it is all inconsequential, then do something else. Don't continue to listen to other people's chats, leave the chat as appropriate, and do other things to divert your attention and avoid joining the chat.

    2. Be concise and to the point: A lot of the time it is nonsense and useless words. When talking to others, pay attention to the main points of the matter and highlight the meaning of what you want to say.

    If it has nothing to do with the topic, don't talk about superfluous gossip. Restrain talking nonsense, gossip.

    3. Hint at yourself: always hint at yourself and try to restrain the problem of talking too much. Depending on the situation, depending on the occasion, whether you should talk a lot, and whether you should interject to express your opinions. If it has nothing to do with you, then suggest that you don't interject, don't talk too much, and mentally remind yourself at all times.

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