How can I make myself more talkative

I think that when I can find a topic appropriately, such as a common hobby, or a current social phenomenon such as high housing prices, difficulty in finding employment for college students, etc., I usually pay more attention to the news and newspapers, so that I can talk to others.

Sweat. The landlord actually studied the same major as me.

And the personality is similar.

I also don't like to talk too much about boring nonsense

It's the same! Depressed, I always feel that others are telling lies! Nonsense!

People can't help themselves in the rivers and lakes, although it is a lie, nonsense, but still have to say it.

You can only rely on yourself to read more books and exercise more! If you really can't do it, start chatting online, anyway, the other party doesn't know you, and you don't know him.

It turns out that there are so many people of the same kind, if you are not happy, you don't say it, just feel comfortable.

How nice it would be if people like us were the mainstream in society! Why do we have to change! Say so much nonsense.

I'm pretty much like you.

Why say so many boring things?

Do the design. Everything you do is about interpersonal communication.

Spend more time with people around you who are cheerful.

Pay attention to their words and actions.

Not being able to talk is not a disadvantage.

I'm always CG and often don't talk much

When you're alone, talk to yourself, and then when you're with people you don't know well, you act as if there's no one around, just like when you're alone, don't worry too much.

Summary. Overcoming Fear Being unable to speak is also related to personality, and introverts will be nervous in front of the public, and even have a blank ,.. mind

How to talk a lot.

1.Learn to listen Listening is not only about listening to what the other person is saying, but also about learning how the other person is chatting and speaking skills,..

2.Pick a familiar topic If you don't talk much or can't talk about it, it's mostly related to the topic, and if you don't know anything about it,.. topic

3.Overcoming Fear Being unable to speak is also related to personality, and introverts will be nervous in front of the public, and even have a blank ,.. mind

I just saw a sentence today"The more you know, the less you talk"

Look at what your question says is that you should still be a student. There are many people who are silent, but don't deliberately close yourself. That's really not good.

When others are talking about it, you can sometimes be more attractive than if you were able to talk (remember with a smile).

You also said that you can speak with your friends and classmates. This shows that you just have a knot in your psyche, and you can't find the right words to say one. Second, if you want to say harmony, it is beautiful and too demanding.

So, you chose not to say it. Hehe, this one might be my guess. I used to be like you.

Later, I chose to keep reading. Enrich yourself.

When you have a considerable amount of knowledge in your head, and as you grow older and have more experience, you will naturally find that you can say what kind of people you can say.

Some are personality issues, don't rush to ask for changes. You are who you are! The ability to speak is the ability of others.

Get your mindset right. Do not be arrogant or humble to others, and slowly guide yourself into strangers through some ways and methods, so that it will be better to go with the flow. It's a matter of course!

A little more off-topic. After seeing your name, it occurred to me that you might be thinking too much about yourself. Let it go, you try, think a lot for others, and sometimes look at yourself or things from the perspective of others, what it would be like.

You'll find that it's an interesting perspective. You'll have more friends and you won't be thinking about the name when you go.

Talkative, don't be surprised.

People who don't talk much are generally in two situations: first, I rely on you to talk to you; Second, I don't know what to say to you. In either case, you need to change yourself, take the initiative to try, take the initiative to speak.

You can give yourself a hint that "I'm just exercising my eloquence, and it's good to say more." Don't care too much about what people like to hear about you unless they say it clearly. In addition, you should pay more attention to rest and recuperate your spirits, so that you will want to talk more.

AnswerThe first step to making people talk more is that you have to try to communicate with others, a large part of people don't talk much because they are shy, afraid to talk to others, not confident, and ask interesting things like.

There are many interesting things to answer, such as you made a joke, or you encountered some funny things, and you feel that you can tell it, which can play a role in enlivening the atmosphere, then you can tell it, if you feel that it is cold to say it, don't talk about it, hahaha, it is not too embarrassing.

Try not to use perfunctory words such as:

Oh, yes? Haha, I see, I think so, ......When you are chatting with a friend, you have to pay more attention and then ask questions, this is the way to start, example, you are chatting with a friend, A: I saw B dragging a girl's hand around the square around the ...... that day

Don't say "oh", you can ask

You: With whom?

A: I don't understand, a very beautiful girl ......

You: Are you sure that's not me? (Use a joke to reduce the distance between strangers, both men and women) Then, usually you don't have a topic because you and the person don't have a common goal topic, so you have to find the right person to talk to. There is no personal matter to talk about, just talk about business matters.

A: Do you play Warcraft? I single-handedly managed all the enemy ...... yesterdayYou: Not yet, you haven't ......finished the Chinese homework for half a yearOpinion: Chat more, have a more sense of humor, and naturally friends will take the initiative to chat with you.

How to be humorous, please refer to:

Good luck at the end!

Hey, it's OK to be thick-skinned

But still pay attention to the way good luck

Find more people to talk to, do more social activities, and listen to other people's ......

Find a topic that interests you, or a good friend of yours, and have a debate with him.

If you get along with people who talk a lot and have a lot of humor, you will slowly become infected! And then there is to be self-confidence! Don't worry about getting laughed at what you say!

This has to be strengthened by knowledge! I used to speak very little, and I could count everything I said in ten hands almost a week. But now my family doesn't see me, and when they see me, they say that I am "Gu Po", which means popcorn.

Read more, talk to others...

Let's find out what causes the lack of talk.

1.If this is the reason, read more extracurricular books and talk to knowledgeable people.

2.Psychological problems such as low self-esteem, shyness, etc. It is recommended to participate in some eloquence training classes to develop your self-confidence and speaking skills, and improve quickly.

Many people have both reasons, so let's use it in combination.

1. When you are in love with a girl, you must remember to say to her often: I love you. No matter how many times she has said it, no matter how many times she asks you, "Do you love me?"

When she says "I love you" to you, you have to say very sincerely: I love you too, not in other words or superfluous.

2. If you don't love her anymore, let her go. Don't enjoy her care and gentleness in vain, and then casually look for other girls, and only say let's break up after finding them, or simply step on two boats.

3. Don't always pose like a big man calling in front of your friends and her friends. A woman is willing to take care of you and satisfy your big man's preference for "three obedience and four virtues" because she loves you and spoils you, but it does not mean that she is willing to be regarded as a servant and vassal.

4. No matter how small the things you promised her, you have to do them. Women want to have a strong shoulder to rely on and want to tell you everything about her, but if you can't even do small things well, how can she rely on you? When she says something you don't approve of, don't blame or be indifferent, so how can she trust you to tell you what is in her heart?

5. Don't always play games or go to the computer while you're together. When you're happy, she may feel left out while you're just paying attention to your computer.

6. There are always a few days when a woman has her period, and it cannot be controlled by reason at that time. No matter how hysterical, unreasonable, and moody she is, you have to coax her to tolerate her. Never show unhappiness and impatience.

7. Don't always yearn for saying that you want to have three wives and four concubines, saying that ancient men were really happy, and saying that you want to have a threesome. She treats you as her only and wants you to treat her as her only one. You who often say this, can she rest assured that you can go out to meet your sisters, sisters, fox friends, and dog friends?

Don't always praise your confidante in front of her, and don't care more about other women than about her. Women are sensitive animals, it's not that she doesn't trust you, she just cares too much about you and hopes you can be the same.

8. Don't always stare at other women in front of her, and don't always admire the beauty of others. Or how you can't. A woman wants you to love what she is now, and hopes that she is the most beautiful, most important, and most loved person in your heart.

9. No matter how virtuous a woman is, she has motherhood, but she is a child in her bones. Don't always expect her to be considerate of you, how considerate she is, and how centered she is. She also hopes that she can be as willful as a child, and hopes that someone will spoil her and love her like a child, take care of her and care for her, instead of just asking her for love and tolerance like a child.

10. If you have done something wrong or hurt her, you must admit it, and take action to accompany her. Occasionally letting go of the so-called man's face, but it can warm her wounded heart. Don't say you want to change it next time, she can forgive you for your occasional mistakes, but you can't tolerate mistakes again and again.

11. Never betray. Don't think "the red flag doesn't fall at home, the colorful flags flutter outside", don't treat women as clothes.

12. Give her a real sense of security, not necessarily marriage. Rather, whether poor or rich, healthy or sick, love and depend on each other, and never forsake each other until death separates us.