Good to you, no need for reason, fate grasps tightly, and loses emotions

Moths to the fire hana

Deep Palace: 2 ending songs.

Love flood is a derogatory term, flood originally means too much water, and by extension, there are too many things, more than people's imagination and ability to accept, almost become a disaster, causing great spiritual and material damage, it will be called a derogatory term. And the flood of love is the overflow, which means that from the amount of water to the excessive love, regardless of the occasion, the object, the ability to give others care and sympathy words or actions, leading to the opposite effect.

Yes, if the edge is deep, it will gather, and if the edge is shallow, it will be scattered. Whatever happens.

1.Generally speaking, there is a trigger for a depressed mood, and if you can't get rid of this trigger again and again, and keep repeating your thoughts, it will make your mood even more depressed. At this time, you should change your mind and stop worrying about things that will make you feel miserable and unhappy.

Do what interests you.

Everyone has their own things or things that they are interested in, which can be shopping, watching movies, listening**, climbing, exercising, reading and so on. When you are doing something you like to do, your mood will unconsciously relax, especially when you are obsessed with something, it is easier for people to forget their troubles.

3.Confide. If something very heavy is causing you to be in a bad mood, then talking is a great way to release stress.

The person you talk to can be friends and family, or even someone who is a stranger on the Internet but can give you warmth. Of course, when communicating with netizens, you should pay attention to privacy and security. You can also pour out the things that make you miserable in words.

In short, put down the stone in your heart.

4.Cry.

It is said that tears are poisonous, so release them when you reach the critical point. Crying is not only the right of a child, crying loudly and vigorously, and all the pain and unwillingness flow out with tears. I once tried to cry until I was dizzy, but I always felt that my mood was much lighter.

So, don't pretend to be strong, cry, it will all pass.

Try something new.

People are always in the same environment, and when they are doing the same thing, they are easy to become tired, numb and indifferent. When the pressure of day after day makes it too much for you to bear, try some fresh East Oak Gaoxi. Including the transformation of the environment, find a free time, go to a place that has never been before, far or near; If you like to eat, try making new dishes for yourself.

Places you haven't been to, things you haven't done before, you can try to do them and give yourself a sense of freshness.

Haha The more innocent the girl, the more time she needs to be contacted. For a girl who has just fallen in love, the longer you chase her, the more she thinks you love her. When my friend chased her wife, it took a full year.

There are no less than 20 pieces of information in a day. (Actually, she knows you're chasing her, and wants you to chase her.) Still at the instigation of your friends.

Her affection for you will be strengthened. She's scared, though! Afraid to give true feelings, because she doesn't know if you are a very caring person, if you are very attentive, what if she falls in love?

So there is the previous sentence, the more innocent the girl, the more time she needs to be contacted. This is the first point. - It takes time to chase girls.

Second, if he himself is not good at speaking, it is actually a big obstacle. Whether it's at work or chasing girls, it's going to be troublesome. So to speak:

It's better to say it well than to do it well. If you have time, take a look at the jokes. Doesn't she like to be funny, so tell her more.

That way, you don't have to chase it blindly. There is an anime called "Q version of the Three Kingdoms". The content is also very funny, and I have time to accompany her to see it.

Chasing girls requires humor.

Third, after reading your full text, I have a big taboo. You don't catch up, and you say she's your girlfriend. This is the biggest mistake of chasing girls.

I've made the same mistake as you. So I failed that time. When it's not your thing, you have to actively find a way to become your thing--- you need to be cautious when chasing girls.

From the person's description and recollection, you can see the important moments when you were together in your impression. And looking at your question again, it can be seen that you even remember the details very clearly, which shows that you attach great importance to this, and it also shows that you also attach great importance to her. And the reason why you are confused now, I think it has something to do with your personality, you are very emotional and care about people's impression of you, and this is the crux of your problem.

In fact, as long as you treat her sincerely, I think she will accept you. There is no need to suffer from gains and losses, just seek sincerity and honesty.

Also, you are in a hurry, for now, you should make things clear first, don't say a lot of reasons, just apologize, you say: I'm sorry, I'm not such an anxious person, it's just the first time I'm ready to confess to a girl, I'm a little anxious, I'm too nervous and accidentally subconsciously held your hand, I'm really sorry; But I really like you, would you like to have a relationship with me? Be bold, girls don't all like weak boys, show your man's spirit.

Don't think it's a mess of things, it's your chance to get twice the result with half the effort. Tell her your story and how nervous you are. Women like honest men, and although you are reckless in this matter, you are also brave.

Let's apologize. I watch a play.

You describe every detail in detail, and at first glance, you have never been in love, and the girl feels good about you. You haven't known each other for a long time, and you need to keep in touch with each other and communicate more, grasp the fate well, and there will be hope for a good marriage.

Be confident! You maybe, but I'll tell you the truth, you'll break up when you talk about it, and you're not married to, but you're someone she can't forget for the rest of her life!

It may be that she is a little anxious, but when your friend asks her if she is holding hands and she says no, it means that she still has a good impression of you, it is just a matter of time, you can't pass that threshold, I believe that with your efforts, you can also be a happy couple. Here's a good idea to bless you both in advance Come on, support you.

You don't have to read it to know that you don't have the guts, what age are you still shy and dizzy, find her and say that you like you Do you like me.

I'm also tired, he was very good to me five years ago, I left the most familiar city because of work, and then I kept sending him messages, he never replied to me, call ** over, he picked up, said that he was busy and would come back to me later, so I will really end this relationship when I return later, but I have never been able to let go of him, because of what, because he has a family, although he still can't help but send him a message, but he may really not love me, love his family, or wish him happiness, this time I really won't bother you again, Liu Tao, Remember that you are the person I love the most in my life, and you are also the person who can't be together, you obviously love each other but can't stay together, why does God arrange to meet, you don't know what kind of heart is when I miss you! You really disappointed me, I just wanted to chat with you, and I didn't mean anything else, you ignored me, what do I feel in my heart, can you bear it?

It depends on the reason, you have to communicate with yourself to find out what's going on.

Letting go is not love, it's just an excuse. A person's life is like a journey, everyone sits on the train of time, and with a starting point, they don't know which station is the end...

I'm speechless, to be honest, my first feeling after reading it is that you are too selfish, feelings are a matter of two people, you have to tolerate each other, and you don't want to understand. Why can't you just take a step back? You say that you will help him correct and become a good person, but why didn't you think about correcting your own shortcomings?

I think you are stronger, even if you are a strong woman, you will still be the gentle and lovely wife of your husband when you come home, so you will be happy. Such a good boy, you love him very much and are reluctant to give up, why don't you take a step back and change a little for him? Also, don't go over it when you quarrel, it's easy to hurt him, you can do it another way, you can ignore him in a coquettish way, showing that you are angry and in a bad mood, he will only feel soft in his heart, and his eyes will be more tender to coax you, and he will understand you.

In short, be tolerant, take a step back, become a woman, and you should be happier.

Calm down and think about it, make the final decision after doing it, and learn to make your own decisions about your own affairs.

In fact, no matter what the problem is, it is inseparable from communication.

The first reason for your quarrel is that you don't know how to accommodate each other, and the second reason is that you ignore the usual small problems, and if it takes a long time, the small problems will become big problems, because these small problems will make people feel what kind of person you are.

Reason 3: You don't know how to express yourself properly This is also a problem

Reason 4: You have damaged your boyfriend's dignity.

Reason 5: You don't really get to know each other

The conclusion to summarize the above questions is: you can admit your mistake to your boyfriend In fact, the woman is not embarrassed to take the initiative to admit her mistake, you must know that love is not a one-sided problem but a two-sided problem, and you have to say to your boyfriend, you know that, I am so willful, I am so unreasonable because I care about you, I don't need to pretend in front of you, because you are my most important person, I am the most trusted person

Usually I'm willful and unreasonable with you, because that person is you

Forgive me once, okay, I'll change it You know what, I feel lonely without you by my side, and the days without you by my side are like hell Honey, don't be mad at me, okay!

Ah, I almost forgot to say that sometimes a man's dignity is inviolable, but you have to remember that the reason why you met is because of fate, please cherish this fate, don't give up easily

Maybe in two days, your boyfriend will call ** and say the same thing, hehe.

I'm not strong, but one thing is very similar to you, I'm very good-natured to friends. My friends said they hadn't seen me lose my temper. But I'm prone to a temper tantrum with my boyfriend.

I'm also scared of a little bit because of this we're going to be separated. He's strong. I'm not strong.

Try to calm your mind. Don't be afraid to lose face if you do something wrong. You don't have to admit your mistake directly.

But you can be gentle with him. Buy him something delicious or something. Two people love each other.

One look is enough. Cherish it. I will cherish it too.

I think it's a bit arbitrary to doubt your suitability just because you've had a few fights, after all, there will always be some friction between people. It's normal to quarrel, people, they all have tempers, the key is how to end up after a quarrel. In the past, he came to coax you after the quarrel, so you can coax him occasionally.

If you like each other so much, you should learn to accommodate each other. Sometimes you say something hurtful, even if it is not your intention, even if he knows, it can still hurt your feelings. So, patience is necessary, and even if you can't endure it ten times, then try to endure it at least five times, right?

Slowly, try to improve.

You can also be with the people you like now. And I can't be with the person I love, I don't even have the opportunity to cherish her, it's very painful, I want you to cherish the people around you.

I think you should mainly have incompatible personalities, you are all temperamental, completely ignoring each other's feelings when arguing, and being self-centered.

I feel that he has made a lot of concessions to you, and I think you haven't made too many changes for him, but I feel that the other party's concessions are a matter of course, so it is even more impossible to back down.

Use your mind to tolerate and accept things that can't be changed, love requires both parties to work together, not just to change one party, you should work hard to change your temper, be sensible, learn to endure, otherwise, the final outcome can only be that you lose this relationship. Just change yourself for love, for yourself, and for your future happiness.

You should have a chat! Since you love each other, you should learn to be considerate of others, he has learned to tolerate you, but you have not learned, if you are like this for a long time, he will feel tired of loving you, and he will also think that you are very vexatious, so you must first learn to be calm, understand and tolerate all his shortcomings. Sometimes you have to give him some motherly love (personal point!). ）

Everyone makes mistakes, and we need to understand it. When you're angry, you can't control it, it's the same for everyone, and what you need is calm. Don't try to convince him or her, but how to sit together with two people, how to eliminate the conflict, it's useless to complain about each other.

If you love him, try his habits. I think if he is a filial person, he is worthy of your love...Because people with tutors are very sensible and can be people.