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Here are some suggestions that I hope will inspire you:
1. Don't live in other people's world, don't be afraid of them, in fact, everyone has a cowardly side in their hearts. Some people seem to be very powerful, but they are actually very cowardly, but they pretend to be very indifferent on the surface, and they look like they can't be beaten, but they are actually vulnerable.
2. Don't blindly believe in other people's evaluations and conclusions, don't easily limit the scope and height of your life, there is no limit to life, life is not valuable, be confident, don't affect your own life with other people's comments and evaluations, and make your own decisions about your own life.
3. Don't think too much, the more you think about it, the more you worry, the more confused you will be. You have to be confident from the inside out, you have to pretend to be out, you just treat it as a play, you are an actor, you are playing a role, you must play it well. With this mentality, you will leave your baggage behind.
4. If you are entangled, it is because you want everything; If you're hesitant, it's because you don't know what you want. But you're not, you know what you don't want and you know what you want. You just lack courage, courage comes from your strong heart, everyone has potential, you must be confident to play.
5. Don't dwell on the pain of the past, don't torture yourself with other people's words and deeds, live your own wonderful, and change your own and others' lives, which is a strong life.
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Face is sometimes not more important than one's own body.
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Well, in Chinese society, it's hard to be recognized in a few decades.
You are married, although you have hidden a lot from yourself, but it has done great harm to the woman, from this point of view, you should divorce and return her freedom.
Also, you should be brave, people live for themselves, not as a puppet the way your parents want them to live. What they think is happiness isn't what you really are! If you can let go of everything and seek satisfaction, you won't feel so physically and mentally exhausted.
I don't know what your specific situation is, the following methods for your reference, if you have good economic conditions, consider going abroad, there, you get a lot of recognition than in China.
In general, you can consider leaving a letter to your parents after the divorce, telling them your thoughts and choices, although your parents can't figure it out, but at least you can let them know that you are happy to live.
If you already have children, please be kind to your wife and children, you are an emotional betrayer, at the very least, you should do your part.
Finally, I wish you happiness.
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It is estimated that what the landlord said means that you are gay But you are married to a person of the opposite sex, and then you can't get by, you can also be brave and explain to them what you mean, although our country is not open to this, but there are such examples, and those you choose will be happy.
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It's best to be honest with your mother about your feelings! Slowly do mental counseling! After all, the older generation is very traditional! It's hard to get them to accept it all at once!
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You should divorce it, so it will be a relief for you and your significant other.
Talk to your parents, and maybe they'll understand.
If you really can't get by, you can file for divorce by your other half.
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You're delaying not only yourself, but also your marriage partner.
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Can't you talk to your significant other?
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So are you married to a man or a woman? If it's a woman, it's divided, don't delay other girls.
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The one who didn't think about marrying you was also quite painful.
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First of all, find your own reasons, why can't you get by?
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Are you married to a man or a woman?
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The end of it all is the end.
Is it necessary to dodge like that? Can't you be friends if you can't be a lover? Just suck on nature.
In fact, what he gave you at that time was just a promise, maybe you don't know what happened in the past three years. You know? What I see and hear may not be true.
Anyway, everything just sucks nature. Don't force anything, know that you have waited for her for 3 years with a clear heart. Your promise is fulfilled.
It is impossible for a person to like only one person in this life, depending on who the child is, and there is also when it is time for him to make a choice, or it is not good for any of the three of you, give him a quiet environment and make a decision.
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It's really hard to guess what is going on in a girl's mind sometimes.
Maybe she didn't know you loved her so much. Maybe she's always thought you were just good friends.
5 years, how many 5 years are there in a person's life? At the best of times, your heart locks on her. No one else was seen again.
There is an obsessive-compulsive disorder in psychology, that is, you keep hinting to yourself in your heart that you love her, and you will always love her, but think about it carefully, what is your love? Perhaps when you look back again, you will find that all this is your own imagination, and you have pushed yourself into an abyss that habitually reminds you to love her.
Maybe you really love her, but by now, you know that it's impossible, so it's okay to be open-minded and imagine that you have an infinite heart, so you treat her as an ordinary friend.
Let go early, and you can also find the happiness that is destined to belong to you as soon as possible.
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In response to your question, I would like to briefly express my personal opinion!
1.If you don't want to be confused anymore.
When you go down, go find a job that you think is promising and you can do, and do it well! There will definitely be a future, anyway, it's better than you are changing jobs everywhere now!
2.You are not young anymore, life always has to pass, children always have to be born, now having children is good for your wife and children, and it is not good if it is late! Not to mention that he can't live if he is born, he can't give him a good living environment! Didn't we all grow up in hard times!
3.If you're working outside to make life better for yourself and your family, I think your family will understand you! Be kind to your parents and wife, go home and see them every once in a while, and your relationship will always be strong!
Your family shouldn't be a shackle to your career, but you should always keep them in mind!
4.Your life plan is clear only to you! Think about what you have learned over the years, what you can do, and where it is more suitable for your own development! Think about it, you should make up your own mind!
5.How will you work hard in the future? You should have been working for many years yourself! Do you need to be taught how to work?! Look for a path and go to the dark! I won't regret it in the future!
6.Don't feel pressured by this statement! Age is not a problem, and if you have the ability, you are afraid that the boss will not appreciate you?
Finally, I said: Big brother, people always have lows, but you must face these things calmly! Work hard, I'm afraid that there will be no day! We're men! You have to show some courage and courage, and you shouldn't be afraid of it!
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In fact, whether you can let go or not depends on your own heart.
Love, when sweet, makes people feel like the happiest person in the world. Once there is a conflict, you will feel so painful. Unfortunately, maybe you don't really have the feelings.
Time will make you forget all this, and even if you remember it again, it will not have any effect on you.
Learn to cherish and know how to give up.
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Dude, I have to say that you are very single-minded when it comes to relationships....But is such a woman still worthy of your single-mindedness and love? There's no reason for you to love her anymore. All you love now is a fond memory of your old days!
Wake up, buddy, no one can ignore the difference between the past and the present. Forget about the beauty of you and her. If you can't forget it, put it in the deepest part of your heart.
A man can't waste his love on a woman who doesn't deserve love! Give up on her and find one. There are many good women.
Buddy, I wish you all the best to find your true happiness soon.
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My girlfriend agreed. Together in 5 years. I haven't said yes yet, a year has passedOur relationship is still just as good.
Since you said you loved her very much. Then you'll wait for him. Really.
For a lifetime of happinessIt doesn't hurt to wait.
As for. You say his boyfriend wants to kill you or something.
Then there's no need to bother. As long as the woman is willing to be with you.
We're all men, who's afraid of whom, isn't it?
Confess to him. If she promises to follow you, just wait. Don't miss someone in love.
She doesn't promise your words. There is only the end of the world, where there is no grass.
She doesn't promise your words. Words that don't love you. Then your single-mindedness is worthless.
To be with someone you love is to pay a price. You know?
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When you're tired, rest ......And true love doesn't need a reason.
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What a long question! I didn't watch it, but I already got it! This kind of woman can't do it!
I advise you to give up on her quickly! Now give up and suffer a little pain! Otherwise, who knows what else she will do in the future?
The pain you suffer is even greater! In the days you've lost contact, who knows what she's done? It's better to give up!
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Why can't I meet a boy like this? I feel that the woman is so happy, but she is hurting 2 men who love her now, I think she shouldn't be, I hope you can meet better, don't hurt you like this, others will be distressed.
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I really sympathize with you, try to watch TV, play on the computer, play sports, and use the time to forget about her.
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Children, the road is rough, study hard will avoid detours.
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Love cannot be forced.
It's yours, it's yours after all.
If it's not yours, you can't grab it.
It is recommended to take a look at "Wulin Gaiden".
There are a lot of people like you.
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It's not worth being hostile to all women and ruining your own happiness for such a woman! `
Give it up
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Don't let such a woman give up the whole xx for the sake of a tree. ok?
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Be careful not to believe your will. Thou shalt not be trusted. Be careful not to meet with sex. Lust will be a disaster. The arhat has been. It is credible to you.
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I don't want to say anything else, so I'll give you a word: Bodhi can be a tree, and the mirror also has a platform.
When my heart hurts, I think about it silently! This is the reality, learn to accept it and not run away from it.
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It's good to go with the flow! Reluctant love will not be happy!
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You divide the day into two parts, in the morning, go to a crowded place and walk back and forth, eat at a stall at noon, and then come home in the afternoon and do nothing, just sit there, and then you think about what are you sensitive again? And do these really matter?
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If you feel tired, don't live like this! Don't take everything lightly, don't pay too much attention to what is on the surface!
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Now that I know where my shortcomings are, I made up my mind to change it.
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You are the protagonist of life, don't care too much about the height of others, you should care about your own height. The first step is to recognize your goals, (e.g., what kind of person I want to be).
And remind yourself all the time. I don't think it's necessary to care too much about what others think of you, because caring too much about what others think of you will stop you from moving forward. It is not easy for a person to live a life, so why should he wronged himself for those irrelevant people.
You are who you are, even though you have many shortcomings, but you are the only one in this world, so you are unique, so have faith in yourself. And I think it's easier for you to overthink it, so why bother? The past has passed, and the future has not yet come, only the present is real, so we should grasp the present and do things seriously.
I recommend you read a book! ("Don't complain, don't get angry, don't get out of control").
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No matter what difficulties you encounter, you must face them bravely. Tiredness and grievances are nothing, as long as you can learn something, as long as you have the technology in hand, you don't have to worry about finding a job.
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Don't endure hardships and hardships, then come to the people, learn something, have more experience, you can't buy it with money in the future, you will understand it later, work hard, young people, grit your teeth, and the hardships and grievances will pass.
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It's okay, friends believe in ourselves, did you choose this path at the beginning, then you have to let us go step by step, in addition to the reason for your own insistence can be understood, the others are all excuses to retreat, believe that everything is bitter and then sweet, everything needs to be insisted on, come on,
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After all, it is at the low end, there is a lot to learn, such as persistence, tenacity, self-confidence, the journey is still far away, although it is still at the bottom, as long as you work hard, you will always be more and more successful, believe in yourself, you can.
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Do more happy things Oh life is like a relay race, there is no smooth sailing, the road is not flat, the road in front of you is very rugged and bumpy, you have to have confidence in yourself, everything will pass. Come on, let's work together, in fact, I just want to tell you that life is our most basic thing, and the ** of life is our own self, if you don't pay attention to this problem, maybe your life will be very bad. So life, love, career, friendship, if you want to get it, you have to keep a good attitude, to live a sound and colorful, very exciting, to live your perfect life, do you understand?
The ** of life is yourself, take advantage of the current life, I think you will be very happy. May good people have a safe life! You can do something you love to enrich your life.
Every day, we must maintain a good attitude, be happy, and be happy. For example, listen** watch TV series, eat your favorite food, read comics, watch movies, play games, play mahjong, read**, go shopping, chat with friends, sleep, travel, do housework, I think it's all good, in short, do whatever you want, just be happy, ah, hehe, I wish you a happy life, a happy life, forever carefree, happy and safe! Seek adoption.
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