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Anonymous users2024-02-13Be sympathetic to what you are going through, and no matter what, don't hold a grudge with her, otherwise it won't do you any good. There aren't many men like you. You can only blame your bad fate, but fate can be changed.
"Most people don't know how to change their fate. Everyone has something to worry about. Since ancient times, people have to suffer when they come into the world.
How to get rid of suffering? More than 2,000 years ago, Shakyamuni in India helped us solve this problem. I myself am an introvert.
Moreover, thin, deep myopia, scoliosis. Poor eloquence (it is difficult to express one's meaning clearly), poor memory, slow thinking, hard to read but not read well (the first exam, the middle school entrance examination, the college entrance examination, and the college entrance examination all failed). The majors studied in college are also relatively unpopular.
I work hard to do things, but I can't do simple things well, and many people don't feel comfortable with me. My parents and sister are very worried about me. After graduating, I was frustrated in finding a job, and my current job was introduced by relatives.
Truth be told, it's hard to find someone as bad as me out of a hundred. So, I've always had low self-esteem, I feel very lost, and I don't know what I can do? What about the future?
If I don't have faith, think that "people die like a lamp goes out", and don't believe in cause and effect, I would rather die because I have been wronged too much. It was Buddhism that made me confident, optimistic, cheerful, mild-tempered, and less troubled. Don't grudge with people, so people are good.
Know how to be filial. No longer complain about people and things, and always self-reflect. I don't care about physical defects anymore.
We also treat the ugly phenomena of society with a normal heart. Also, I've been sick for a year and still haven't gotten better, and I don't care. A year or two ago, I was a different person than I am now.
Because I know that these are karmic retributions, I believe that following the Buddha's teachings can change one's destiny. Now, I know that to live is to help the suffering, the confused. Not to live for your own pleasure.
I used to be a low-self-esteem, stubborn, arrogant, calculating, and short-tempered person. Moreover, sometimes they contradict their parents. Start with these aspects:
Honor your parents, be kind to others, be considerate of others everywhere, be helpful, and do not hold grudges with others. It is recommended that you take a look at the Four Teachings of Lifan, which can change the fate of your life. There are on the web.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12I am a young man who is more than ten years younger than you, 23 this year, let me tell me what I think, your life experience is very worthy of sympathy, after all, people who grew up in this environment are more or less psychologically different from others, but you don't have to worry, just now from your words you can see that you are a lover of life, have a vision for a better future. Many people who have experienced emotional setbacks are generally difficult to break free from it, which is normal, which requires you to have a strong will, in fact, you just mentioned that there are many girls who like you, that means that you are a man with personality charm, so, I believe that through time and being loved should be able to eliminate the shadow left in your heart in the past. Your tomorrow will be bright, come on.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Do you still want to be taken captive or let your former wife beat you half to death before you give up I really convinced you.
Don't let go of the girl who likes you Do you still want your ex-wife to beat you I don't think you can't forget her It's that you haven't gotten used to it all day long No one scolds you all day long You will be scolded and yelled at for too long It's been since I was a child Suddenly I'm not used to it Now that people treat you well, you feel weird.
I think you should look at things from a different angle, a different way of living, a different way of life, can't you treat yourself well, be kind to yourself, let yourself have a new life, accept everything new, find a girl who respects you and loves you, try it, everything will change.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Completely forget about her, forget about the woman who has hurt you. Now there are very few people who are so obsessed with love to you.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09If you're a teacher by profession, I might be able to help you.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08It depends on your situation after 5 years to get married.
If you get married early, you will get divorced and wait for 5 years.
I'm a relationship psychiatrist and I've dealt with a lot of these problems.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Life is a short and long process, in which there are meritorious contributions, sorrows, and losses. No one's life can always be smooth, and no one will be unlucky all his life, as long as you have firm beliefs and consistency, all successes and failures can only be an inconspicuous wave in the long river of your life. Therefore, don't be fluttering because of a success, don't be unable to fall because of a failure, succeed, look at it calmly, fail, and deal with ......it calmly
There is still a long way to go, and since you have embarked on the voyage of life, do not refuse to give in; Now that you have chosen a distant place, do not stay; Now that the sails have been raised, don't refuse to set sail, even if you fail 10,000 times, if you still say, you have to go on ......
The beauty of life is not only in the perfect ending in the end, but also in every process of your struggle. "Don't ignore the process for the sake of the end, the process is the goal. ”
After the darkness, if necessary, dawn, the haze is gone, and it is still overflowing, you don't have to ask where the love is, you don't have to ask where the moon is bright, and you can get gold after the sand is exhausted, and believe in yourself.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06The road of life cannot be smooth sailing, but you must plan well in advance, set personal life goals for yourself, and have a direction, so that you can persevere in order to realize your dreams, if you don't have dreams, you will lose yourself, so give yourself a goal to motivate yourself.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Human life is very short, and if you want to live your own way, it's easy to say, it's really hard to do, so it's better to follow your heart.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Modern young people, how should we take the path of life?
As a person who has completed the exam for three years and has a little social experience, if you don't have such a strong love for English, there is no need to force yourself to invest in this "input-output ratio may not be high" English learning, if you don't go to a foreign company, the Big Four, the probability of you using English in the work situation is almost 0 (as long as you don't hinder yourself when looking for a job, become a weakness and a shortcoming, for example, some units limit the application threshold to English level four or six, You can't choose this type of unit, and if you think it's acceptable, it's wise to choose to give up your English studies.) If you want to go down this path, you must not throw English away, and you have to improve more than a little bit! And if you want to have a little bit of attainment in the latter CPA you mentioned, if you really work hard enough, maybe win the CPA, the aura of this advantage can completely cover up some shortcomings such as poor English, so that you can find another way.
To be honest, you don't have to think about it a lot at present, most of us only need to set a short-term goal at this stage, simply put, as long as you take entering an ideal university as your goal, because you are only in the third year of junior high school, everything is not too late, you will enjoy the study and study life during this period before you enter the university, you have nothing else to consider, and it is not worth considering, it is not the time to decide your life, and you will slowly find the direction when you get to the university. Now you really don't have to worry too much, just cherish each day. Of course, if you plan to do a small job in the future, you can't make much money, and studying in vocational school is also a choice, but for people in our current era, who doesn't want to have more money, good to spend, I advise you to work hard now, and you won't regret it in the future, I have now entered the university, and I have not considered what my life path must be, this is all the process of searching, when you get to my time, it is just the beginning, and now all you can do is to believe in yourself, I hope you can succeed.
You are studying the same major as me, the film and television post-production stage is relatively narrow, but the prospects are good, and graphic design, there are many employment opportunities, the demand for the unit is the largest, but the pay may be low, when you first debuted. Interior design is hot and competitive, but it's good if you have the technology. If the TV station or any film and television organization has acquaintances, then the film and television post-production is the first choice, and I have classmates who have entered the TV station by relationship, and the technical industry is not good, and the level is generally enough.
Try to let go of yourself, calm your heart, tell yourself that you are not too late, tell yourself that you are only twenty-seven years old, a boy is twenty-seven years old is the time to be masculine, find a job that you don't think will be too tired to do, and then think about how to live a good life, adjust your emotions, move forward steadily, the road ahead is very long, don't regret how many opportunities you have lost every day, think more about what you have, see how badly you write yourself, There will definitely be friends in your life, even if only one is true to you, then you are happy, you still have a family, you are very lonely, you have to try to communicate more with friends around you, show yourself to the people around you, let more people understand you, I believe you will become confident and cheer.
The more you feel that you don't want to go to a place where you can only see people's heads and feet in the busy traffic jams of the city, then your own social circle will not develop, and you will go around in your own small world, so do you feel that life is interesting? You feel that people out there are people eating people, it's not right, remember that you have to believe that the world is still good and there are many more people who help you.