My Psychological Cruxes 25, My Psychological Crucifixes

Your worries and fears are all illusory, because these are your guesses.

For the two questions above, I'm going to untie the knot:

1) Regarding the fact that you told someone about the beating of your high school classmates, first of all, you realize that this is not a secret, even if it is a secret that he wants to imply, but this is a fact, you are telling someone a fact, whether it reaches his ears or not, he can't take it, let alone kill you, why? Everyone should take their own responsibility. It's a bad behavior to talk about other people's shortcomings, but I can understand your behavior.

After all, you have a fear of him, because he has used a knife, and you are afraid. But why do you want to tell other students, it's because you crave their friendship and think that by telling them about it, you're friends. But you have to understand that friends are not a title, but friendships and feelings accumulated over a period of time.

2) Regarding the second thing you said, first of all, it's because you want to learn more, but you don't want to teach yourself, but want to find someone to teach you so that you can improve quickly, which is understandable, this is a good idea.

It's normal that the network manager doesn't understand 26 letters, because many of them haven't finished in middle school, and then follow the master to learn wiring, installation, and networking, which don't need 24 letters, because they all belong to the work of using tools to engage in hardware.

Why does the network administrator want to text with you, this is caused by you asking him to dinner, generally speaking, the meaning of asking someone to eat alone is basically to want to have a relationship with him, that is to say, he wants to chase you, because of your own conditions, and your attitude at the beginning.

If you think that he is of low quality and do not want to associate with him, then you should tell him as soon as possible that you are not suitable, instead of falling and being afraid, which will make others more painful and fall deeper, how can you bear it.

Cut through the mess quickly, you have to decide for yourself, you don't have to worry that if you don't agree to someone else, he will kill himself or kill you, this is impossible, if according to you, all the lovelorn people in the world are murderers.

In short, you are a timid girl, you have to be brave and able to make decisions independently, especially in relationships and studies. In addition, you are always afraid that people will kill you, and I don't know if you have a psychological barrier in this regard.

I'm afraid that if you continue like this, it's not that people will kill you, but that you will kill them! Don't think about it so much. It is inevitable that there will be some contradictions and frictions between people, and people will not kill you for such a small matter.

Is there any benefit in killing you? Is this some kind of hatred? It's not worth mentioning, let alone killing you for it.

Anyway, you've asked a lot of people, and the result of asking people here must be the same, because everyone is more normal.

It's a process of mental growth, so don't worry about it.

Is it that by now you have also discovered that you love you more than your father, and you are going through the process of growing up separated from your family in your heart?

You don't have to think too much about it, academic knowledge is the most important thing, interpersonal relationships, and you will learn it naturally after participating in the work.

It's not that time period.

1 Acceptance of the facts, and implying to oneself that it is the facts, but that it has passed;

2 The past is the past, implying that the present and tomorrow are new, just as the night today is beautiful, and the sun tomorrow is new;

3 Imply to yourself that we are living in the moment.

Give it a try and you'll be strong!

Analysis: Hello, happy to answer for you! It is recommended to see a psychiatrist, and the specific ** is decided by the doctor according to the specific situation of the patient.

The more you care, the more you feel that something is wrong.