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Upstairs said a little wrong, for men, a woman who can say what is in her heart is called a confidant, and for a woman, she can say what is in her heart is called a confidant.

Whether it is a red face or a blue face, in fact, they all hover between lovers and friends, more intimate than friends, and less casual than lovers.

It is precisely because there is less casualness than lovers that they are more restrained by each other, more respectful of each other, and more harmonious.

But unfortunately, this kind of relationship is unattainable for everyone, and most of them eventually cross the dividing line between men and women, and they have less mystery and more requirements for each other, and lose the original sense of harmony.

This is actually a very old proposition: can men and women be friends?

From this, no.

The "friend" here refers to the kind of friend who is a very good confidant, and can even say something that is inconvenient for the lover.

Even if there is such a confidant now, it does not mean that the relationship will last forever, as long as one party has other ideas, the balance is broken.

You must know that people are emotional animals, and feelings will also accumulate, and with the deepening of knowledge and understanding of each other, it is bound to produce feelings along with the appreciation of each other.

Taking a step back, even if both parties are tacitly engaged in maintaining this relationship. How long can it last? In the end, both parties will have their own families, and their respective lovers don't like the existence of such a confidant, or they will not believe in the existence of such a confidant.

Anyway, cherish it, it's a very subtle feeling, and it's hard to find.

This is called Lan Yan, it's not a girlfriend, but it's better than a girlfriend! The kind that can talk to each other

The difference between love and friendship lies in exclusivity, that is, love is selfish.

Could it be that when you get married in the future, your wife will take the initiative to send it to the old man next door to play?

It should have a little bit of meaning Confession success rate is 30% Most girls don't take the initiative to talk to men unless they have something serious or the relationship is super super good My girlfriend doesn't take the initiative to talk to me I asked her why she said she kept waiting for my message and she would rather wait for other girls to do the same I asked a lot of girls I want to adopt this question.

It is estimated that the girl may regard you as a friend, and may think that you are interesting to her, and she may have a happy chat with you, and may also think that you are okay.

Interestingly, girls are generally not active, they want to be passive, I am also a girl, and I have experienced it.

Perhaps, girls are a little shy.

The opinions of the Ju and the upstairs are a little different, but Ju is not otherwise what she said also has that possibility, in the opinion of Ju she is not very interested in you, if a girl likes a man, then there will definitely be something to express, that is, the girl does not take the initiative but will also be a little hint, if you pay attention to her, then you must feel it! Give you a suggestion and take the initiative to confess!

It should have a little bit of meaning.

Dude, what about this, it depends on the character of this girl, if she is the kind of girl who is more gentlemanly, it may be a little good impression of you, if this girl is the kind of ladylike, it depends on how long you have known each other, if it is not long ago, it may just show a trust to you, or it may just be out of friends, then don't think too much.

Silly boy, you're in love, people in love are like this, very nervous, very bored and can't talk or meet, anyway, you will have nothing to do, you're in love, it's a good thing, if you can continue to develop, good luck, give it an adoption.

It's nothing more than a comparative deed.

You have a crush on her in your heart.

And so on and so forth.

Maybe you have a fate, she walked into your heart.

In love is nothing more than the most familiar stranger.

You're stupid enough, if you don't want to hurt you and you know that you like her, you won't talk to others, give up early, find a suitable one for you, there are many good girls, right?

She regards you as a confidant, this kind of relationship belongs to friends, and lovers are not full of feelings.

There are many such situations, some girls are in order not to make you sad, so they don't resolutely refuse you, and some girls are for their own vanity, enjoying many boys infatuated with her, serving her, and being a spare tire.

Therefore, no matter what the situation, you must decide for yourself, and if you don't have a spare tire, you will break the idea of dating her, don't associate with her or no longer love her, and just be an ordinary friend.

She's a metaphor for what her inner boyfriend looks like. Regardless of whether she and her colleagues are true or not, you still have a chance, don't give up and be bold to chase it.

Standard spare tire, just block it, there's no need to talk to her.

Your first sentence exposes the man's naïve mind that he doesn't want to take responsibility. This kind of guy is easy to be ambiguous, you have to think about it.

Bored to find someone to have fun, maybe that girl is the only one willing to pay attention to him.

said it deliberately, if the girl said that she liked him, he would definitely say that only you, I would fall in love.

Maybe it's to think of him as a friend, best friend! I have one like this.

Let people let down their guard, "I don't want to be in love, don't be afraid" so that you can chat happily.

Because he already likes this girl.

Because he only has this girl in his eyes, he can't fit anyone in his heart.

You're still a little self-conscious.

But at least it impresses you.

But such things should be done with caution.

After all, people have boyfriends.

It's a bit of a psychological and moral pressure for you to do this.

She is very smart, that is for people to see, so that she can give her husband a capital to show off, and her husband will love her more.

I guess you're thinking too much.

Not everyone who can talk to is boyfriend and girlfriend.

There is also a kind of relationship called confidant, and there is another kind of friend called Lan Yan confidant, or it can only mean that you are a very humorous boy and can make girls happy.

Just treating you like her pistachio.

The content of the chat is very funny, and you will laugh very happily, you mean, the people of the whole country will be interesting on the night of Chinese New Year's Eve? ?

Spread a little distance, and slowly you will get into trouble.

Probably not, she might have treated you as a friend, and she has a boyfriend, so the conversation is happy.

Maybe just love to laugh. After all, I have a boyfriend.

No, maybe I think you're funny and humorous.

I guess you're too narcissistic, hehe, it's normal to talk to you.

There is such a possibility. You have to work hard.

It depends on the situation in which you are chatting, it may be fine if you meet face-to-face during the day, but if you talk to you until midnight at night... You know.

You can socialize with people of the opposite sex, but there must be a degree!

There is a meaning of wool, you think too much.

No, maybe I just think you're humorous;

Not necessarily, you ask her.

Not necessarily, if you are happy, you must like it.

This is difficult to explain, the meaning is too rich, it needs to be contextualized, and in general it is to hope that you are well, either sincerely hope that you are well, or perfunctory.

It's possible that she likes you, but she's embarrassed to say, so once you talk to her, she's very happy, and she comes back in seconds, and sometimes she cools you down and comes back for a long time.

Girls are shy by nature and don't like to take the initiative. In fact, the heart is hot.

Girls are more introverted, and it is the quality of Chinese girls, and they are the same as others.

Girls are mostly passive.

It shows that he is not disgusted with you, and she is very enthusiastic in the first place.

I have a crush on you, but I don't take the initiative to chat with you out of shyness.

I don't take the initiative to chat with you because I'm embarrassed, and you look for her because she still wants to talk to you.

They don't like to take the initiative, or they are embarrassed.

But I'm a woman, so I have to say it first every time.

Secret crush or unfamiliar but enthusiastic.