What is it like to have a mother with zero IQ and negative emotional intelligence?

When it comes to this question, I immediately resonate, because I have a mother with zero IQ and negative emotional intelligence, of course, not only will I not dislike my mother because of this, but I am proud that I have such a mother who has no scheming! Although sometimes I am very helpless because of what my mother has done, she is my mother, and no matter what she does, I think she is very cute.

When it comes to how my mom has zero IQ and negative EQ, there are countless examples of this. I listened to my dad tell me that when my mom and my dad were in love, they needed to be contacted by letter in those days, my dad was in the army thousands of miles away, and my mom was in my hometown. So my dad is very worried about whether this long-distance relationship will be able to come together smoothly?

So he tentatively wrote a letter to my mom saying that there were a lot of difficulties between the two of us. Dad wanted to hear my mother's attitude and get a reply from my mother who was not afraid of difficulties. As a result, my mom replied to my dad yes

That's true, so what do we do? My dad said he felt like vomiting blood when he received the letter. I also used a sentence to mock my mother's reply:

I say that difficulties are like a mountain, and you say that they are unclimbable. "My mom laughs heartlessly when she talks about it to this day.

At that time, my dad was in the army and was about to quit smoking, and he had been holding back for a whole month and was determined not to buy cigarettes, when my dad was proud of his determination. As a result, my "understanding" mother suddenly felt that my father did not smoke and was very pitiful, she actually sent a cigarette to my father, and my father said that when he received it, the whole person was broken.

At that time, I really didn't know whether to thank my mom or thank my mom. My dad said that when it comes to quitting smoking, your mom not only doesn't cheer me on, but also deflats.

A lot of times it makes me cry and laugh, and there are some things I won't discuss with my mother, and I can't talk about the results of the discussion, and many times she will subvert my three views, although my mother's IQ is not **, but she is kind enough.

I've also adapted to my mother's character, so many times my dad and I just ignore her to solve some things, in fact, I don't think my mom really doesn't have any IQ at all, just because she is too kind, and many times she does some things with good intentions, but often with good intentions, she does bad things.

The last time my mother's IQ was not **, it was a matter of relatives in the family getting married and following them. My father also has an older brother, who is my uncle, and they usually discuss things like relatives in the family who are married. Last month, my sister's sister got married, and because my uncle was not at home, it was my aunt who negotiated the money.

My family was the first to marry my uncle's brother, then me, and finally my aunt's sister, because my brother got married early, at that time there was not as much money as now, and then when I got married, there was more money, plus my aunt loved me very much, so I was given more money than my uncle at that time, and my aunt didn't know about this matter, because my aunt repeatedly emphasized that I was afraid that my aunt and uncle would be angry, so don't say how much money she gave.

So when my sister got married, my aunt wanted to give her the money that my aunt gave me to my brother at that time, and asked my mother what her opinion was, and my mother said that she wanted to give more, because my aunt gave me more, and finally my mother was stupid and unreservedly told my aunt that my aunt gave us more money, and my aunt was really dissatisfied when she heard it, and then my mother asked me, I told you so truthfully about my aunt, why she was not happy. Later, my dad and I analyzed the matter to my mom, and she realized that she had said the wrong thing.

In short, this kind of thing always happens frequently, and my dad and I are used to it, after all, this is nature and can't be changed, so many times it is just a joke and a smile.

Helpless. How many tears, broken faces. Don't talk about things and tears, Feng Shengxiu blows when he tears; There is no doubt that the intestines are broken!

Teach you a good way, if you and your mother's problem is not solved through communication, but usually it can't be solved, because it is the source of the problem [the brain's ability to control emotions], you don't want to fight with her, because the most ineffective way is through disputes, you may also find in life, at this time there is only one way, is to divert attention, when she argues with you, you force to think about other things, which may be difficult to do at first, But after a long time you can control it, and you will find that your mother will argue with you less and less, because the source of the dispute is insecurity. Hope this helps. Know that at this age, life is still very long, don't let the most useless emotions ruin yourself.

You can read more books about it, [controlling emotions and so on are very effective], I wish you better and better.

I think it's a feeling of helplessness to have a mother with low IQ and EQ.

I will feel like I am coaxing a child, and it is not necessarily when the mother will give me a little scare.

Maybe I will be deeply affected, but I should still respect my mother.

It's a very helpless experience, and there will be a sense of helplessness.

Helplessness, boredom, and a deep sense of powerlessness.

It doesn't matter how high or low IQ is, it's really embarrassing to have a mom with low emotional intelligence.

What is Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence is a concept in psychology. In contrast to IQ, it mainly refers to qualities related to personal qualities in terms of emotion, emotion, character, will, communication, etc. It reflects a person's ability to control their emotions and withstand external influences and master mental balance.

It mainly includes the following aspects: understanding one's emotions; manage your emotions appropriately; self-motivation; recognize the emotions of others; and manage interpersonal relationships. Emotional intelligence plays a very important role in a person's life.

It is an important survival ability of a person to discover the potential of emotions, and the use of emotional abilities can affect all aspects of life.

The importance of emotional intelligence

Among the many accomplished people, there are many who, although they do not have a more comprehensive knowledge structure and do not have higher learning, have made full use of their emotional intelligence and have finally achieved success. Emotional intelligence plays an extremely important role in a person's life. What does it do in a child's life?

1.Emotional intelligence can provide children with good physiological prerequisites. 2.

Emotional intelligence is the "stimulant" of children's thinking activities. 3.Emotional intelligence is the "pillar" of children's talents.

4.Emotional intelligence is the driving mechanism of children's talents.

In addition, extensive and in-depth studies conducted by psychologists have also shown that whether a person can succeed and feel happy in life depends largely on his level of emotional intelligence.

Too much interference, unreasonable.

I can't get through a lot of questions.

But ,,, as long as you are ego enough and can live independently.

If it's okay, just go home often, and secondly, ,,, do what you can, and if you can meet your parents' expectations, it is reasonable to do it.

The son of the night is indoctrinated.

It is suggested that you worship the Buddha and ask for what you need, if you have a Buddha, you will have happiness, and if the Buddha ignores you, you will ask for more blessings!

Find someone to look at the stars and count the moon at night.

See. Forrest Gump. Go and learn from that person.

What is the difference between EQ and IQ? After listening to it, I suddenly realized!

IQ refers to the level of intelligence a person has and whether he is smart or not. The difference between IQ and EQ is that one is more rational and the other is more emotional. A person may have a high IQ score of 100 points, but when he comes to society, he is useless, so to speak, sometimes EQ is higher than IQ.

The two are fundamentally different, but they are indispensable.

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Both IQ and EQ are the result of a person's talent and hard work.

1: IQ represents a person's ability to learn. A high IQ is likely to do well in studies and a high starting point in your career.

2: Emotional intelligence is a more important part of life, because emotional intelligence is related to a person's ultimate happiness.

3: People with high IQ, if their emotional intelligence is not high, although they may have a good starting point, but because of the lack of ability to deal with various interpersonal relationships and social affairs, it will affect the final achievement.

4: In particular, some people have a good IQ and academic success, but they can't recognize themselves well, can't understand the society correctly, and can't integrate into the society well, which is the consequence of low emotional intelligence. There are also some people with low emotional intelligence, who do not know how to deal with family relationships and marital problems, which leads to unhappy lives.

5: Therefore, comprehensive development is the best choice. In terms of education, it requires all-round development and more social practices, which is to improve the development of one's emotional intelligence.

IQ is a skill, EQ is whether you understand the rules, low skills, you can still live in the world, if you don't understand the rules, you run into walls everywhere, you may not be able to live.

I think a.

If people do not have IQ, they will be looked down upon by others, unable to gain a foothold in society, and will not contribute to society; However, if a person does not have emotional intelligence, he will have no friends, be lonely, have no one to help, and it is useless to have intelligence.

So I think IQ and EQ are closely related, and both are very important and indispensable.

It's all important, and now the common view is that emotional intelligence is more important!

Be sure to choose one, I'm willing to choose IQ, what do you think.

Balanced is best.

Otherwise. If not for nerds.

Or it's a lack of knowledge but too emotional.

Cleverness and wisdom are two contradictory things, EQ and IQ are the same, the landlord asks a bit of a question that is a bit extreme, must ask for a right and wrong, that is unreasonable, it all depends on your own ideas and world affairs.

It's all important, but it's even more important to be happy and emotionally intelligent.

It should be that emotional intelligence is important, and some surveys have shown that people who achieve great things have high emotional intelligence, and good emotional intelligence can promote IQ and improve IQ, which is as inseparable as the relationship between mother and child.

Studies have shown that the level of IQ is largely due to genetic factors, and with the evolution of human beings, the IQ of future people is getting higher and higher. Some of the children born have high IQs and some have low IQs. When people are happy, their IQ increases, and when they are sad, fearful, depressed, and nervous, their IQ decreases.

Emotional intelligence (emotion

Quoteent, abbreviated as EQ, mainly refers to the qualities of a person in terms of mood, emotion, will, tolerance of setbacks, etc. Generally speaking, there is no obvious innate difference in emotional intelligence between people, and it is more closely related to the cultivation of nurture. Emotional intelligence expands into 5 main areas:

Understand your own emotions, manage your emotions, self-motivate, identify the emotions of others, and handle interpersonal relationships.

1 Evolutionarily speaking, to a large extent, it is due to emotions such as desire, seeking advantage and avoiding disadvantage, etc., and there is no high IQ without emotional intelligence.

2. When a person's IQ is relatively fixed, improving EQ is the way to survive a better life.

Emotional intelligence, of course.

IQ as long as it's not too bad.

Emotional intelligence is the embodiment of a person's ability to survive.

and the performance of dealing with others.

You're a student now, right?

So you will pay a lot of attention to the score.

This is common to the average student student.

But after entering society.

You'll really find out.

It's better to do a good job than to be a good person.

Tell you all the people around you, except for the mentally handicapped, of course.

The difference in IQ is not higher than twenty points.

In other words: no one around you is less intelligent than you, and no one is inferior to you. What you see in others doesn't understand and it's not just appearances, because there are so many things in others that you don't know and others understand. Therefore, there is a saying that "there must be my teacher in a threesome".

Work hard, there are still many reasons to be a man.

Let's take it slowly. In short: diligence is the first stepping stone.

In fact, you can't absolutely say which is more important, just like you say that the right hand is important or the left and right are important, I personally think that if there is a high IQ plus a good emotional intelligence, it is a very powerful character, such as you and I are, one asks this kind of question, and the other answers this kind of question, haha.

Many times emotional intelligence is more important for a person's success. Of course, the IQ should not be too low.

It's all important, and emotional intelligence is even more important later in life!

Intelligence quotient! I don't think a person with an IQ is definitely not high in EQ.