If I have a depressed husband who is down to headed, should I get a divorce?

I don't think you and your husband have a deep relationship in this way, because I think his depression is likely to be caused by both heads, which is more serious.

If your relationship is not very deep, then get a divorce as soon as possible. Your husband is very hard at both ends, he has to take care of your thoughts, but also take care of his parents' thoughts, just like a meat bun, he is not comfortable, he is like this because he doesn't want to divorce you, otherwise it would be good to divorce you directly, and you don't have to suffer this sin anymore. If you have just been married for a long time, then divorce quickly, he can't make up his mind, you come, do you want him to be so depressed?

Depression is a very serious disease, maybe you won't be able to think about it? So let him go, maybe you divorce and he'll be cured? Because he doesn't have to be angry on both sides and has no one to talk to, maybe he will figure it out when he gets divorced. <>

But if you are an old husband and wife, then don't divorce, after all, you have endured it for so many years, and what a pity to give up. Since you can endure it for so many years, it means that you really love each other, so why can't you compromise for him, go with him to coax his parents, and strive to make his parents accept you, forgive you, the family is harmonious, and Meimei, his depression will definitely be better.

You have to accompany him, if you get divorced and you don't know what will happen, do you want your husband to be so angry? He doesn't want to give up on you, but he can't abandon his parents. If you love him, think about him.

This might alleviate his depression, and maybe he'll be fine.

Therefore, it still depends on your own thoughts, it is not easy to get married once, and it is even more difficult to divorce, so you must think it through.

The life of two people is not something that can be solved by blindly speaking. It's not terrible for a man to have depression, it's terrible to lose his own assertiveness and lose his assertiveness as a man. Therefore, if you don't have much affection anymore, you can consider divorce in the face of an unhappy marriage.

Legal analysis: If your husband is sick and has depression, he may not be able to divorce, he needs to be active, he also needs the understanding and support of his family, and he needs to restore his social functioning, and your husband may be particularly dependent on you.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 1085:After divorce, where children are directly raised by one party, the other party shall bear part or all of the child support. The amount of the cost to be borne and the length of the period shall be agreed upon by both parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment.

The agreement or judgment provided for in the preceding paragraph does not prevent the child from making a reasonable demand to either parent in excess of the amount originally set forth in the agreement or judgment when necessary.

Article 1087:In the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party.

The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

saw your description; In the face of your husband who has been diagnosed with severe depression, you show a positive attitude and want to communicate with your husband to try to solve the marital crisis between the two. Your husband was in a state of losing contact with you some time ago, and you know that he was suffering from depression, and his loss of contact made you feel very worried; Unexpectedly, as soon as you established contact, you received a divorce agreement proposed by your husband, you have a premonition of this situation, you want to keep it, but he does not contact you, refuses to communicate with you, and there is nothing to be done about it!

What are the manifestations of depression: depressed mood, helplessness and hopelessness in severe cases, self-blame, and the most serious concept of hurting oneself; Clusters of symptoms, such as sleep disturbances, diet, and weight disorders, may occur. I can imagine what kind of inner torture he is enduring now, who was supposed to be the pillar of the family!

Because of the diagnosis of major depression, the patient may actively seek ** in the early stage, but in the later stage, the patient may completely lose the desire to seek treatment, and lack the correct understanding and positive attitude of the current state. To this! He needs you to give him the right guidance.

The idea of divorce is also one of the manifestations of depression, and the thoughts of inferiority and self-blame, helplessness, and hopelessness dominate their overall thoughts and behaviors, even if they have struggled internally, it is difficult to get rid of themselves. In his position: divorce is a good explanation and protection for you!

If you are still reluctant to give up this fate, why not put aside the issue of divorce for the time being, start with his depression**, understand the inner depression behind his depression, and see if you can make it better.

Depression needs to be coordinated with medication and psychology, and seeking a professional depression counselor for cognitive counseling and psychological analysis may have a certain effect. Divorce is not necessarily the end, it can be the starting point, no matter what the process is, as long as it can be successfully concluded in the end, both parties can accept it. I wish you all the best to embrace your own happiness in life.

I think you must not promise the other party to divorce the other party, you must accompany the other party out of depression, and don't leave him alone.

If you love him, of course, you should always be with him, so that he can get out of depression faster.

Secondly, the elder needs to consider the other party's **and**situation, whether it is possible to alleviate or **condition, and need to understand the possibility and plan of **. Finally, you need to consider whether your emotional and family life has been seriously affected, and if you can't continue the marriage, you need to consider how to end the marriage justly. If you feel that you can't handle the stress and repercussions of this situation, then divorce is a viable option.

However, before making a decision, I recommend that you seek professional counselling and medical support to help you better deal with your emotions and thinking issues and make more informed decisions. If someone hides their serious mental illness before getting married, and the illness can seriously affect the marital relationship and quality of life, then this can be considered cheating. However, if this mental illness was discovered after the marital relationship was established, then it is difficult to say that it is a form of deception.

For this case, I cannot give specific advice on your decision, because everyone's situation is different and there are many factors to consider, such as the severity of the disease, the basis of your relationship with your spouse, the ** situation of your spouse, and other factors that influence your decision. If your spouse's severe mental illness is effective**, their condition can be controlled, and you are able to accept and deal with the condition, then you may choose to continue the marriage.

I wish you good health.

My dear, seeing your confiding, your problem is quite serious, give you a big hug, let's **Huai argue together!

1. Your husband has been diagnosed with severe depression, and his condition is already very serious in this state, and the top priority is to treat depression, because severe depression is possible to commit suicide or self-harm, as a wife, what you can do is to give him as much respect as possible, and provide some companionship and support if possible, such as going to a psychiatrist with him.

2. Your husband doesn't want to see you, you are in a state of disconnection, and he filed for divorce with you, then you have to think about your relationship, and then think about your interaction pattern to see if you are one of the sources of his depression, because there are two possibilities for such rejection: aYou are also the straw that crushes him, he is very uncomfortable with you and has no way to be himself, he can only attack himself, b

He is afraid that his state will affect you, and even he will not be able to ** in the future, which is a burden for you. It is difficult to deal with the above two situations, you have to think carefully about how you will deal with it, and whether you can have the strength to bear all this.

3. Depression is very much in need of social support, it is best for his relatives and friends to accompany him, but it is not the kind of company that makes him feel coerced or uncomfortable, you see the level of support you can provide. It is recommended that you first summarize and review the matters in the relationship, think about the problems mentioned in 2, and then consult some professional advice, and think about communicating with your husband. To be honest, in the case of severe depression, people don't want to see him, it's very difficult, you have to understand him a little bit, don't put too much pressure on him.

Above, for your reference, thank you.