How can a man without money maintain a relationship in the family?

This logic is not right!

Isn't the first priority of a man who has no money to go out and make money? When does maintaining family relationships have a causal relationship with money?

Unless the direct cause of family relationship problems is because of lack of money.

If it is really a contradiction caused by lack of money, as long as you make money, the contradiction will naturally be solved.

But the maintenance of family relationships does not depend only on money, and it is certainly not about making money.

For example, I have a friend who was considerate to her before she got married, and although the man's income was lower, he was willing to work hard for their future family. So the friend is still happily married to the man.

After getting married, a man may feel that he has completed the task of getting married, and he doesn't care much about his friends, not only does he not do housework, but he is also picky about the housework done by his friends, what dishes are salty, there is ash on the ground, and ...... clothes are not cleaned

Later, it was even more bloody, the company where the man worked closed down, he was unemployed and had nothing to do at home, he was not satisfied with finding a job twice, so he refused to look for a job again, played krypton gold games at home every day, and asked his friends to recharge his money to reward the little anchor.

My friend works during the day, and when he comes home, he has to cook, do housework, and take care of the family.

Nagging the man and asking him to go out and look for a job, the man lost his temper and scolded his friend, saying, "Do you look down on me? Not because I don't have any money! ”

The friend later couldn't take it anymore and divorced her husband.

Her ex-husband also ruined his friend's reputation in the circle of relatives and friends. What kind of woman is too materialistic, water-based poplar, not filial piety to the elderly, and so on.

In fact, everyone who knows knows that my friend is a reliable woman.

To this day, my friend's ex-husband still thinks he is a good man, and the divorce was divorced because his friend was too materialistic and disliked him for having no money and no job.

After listening to her ex-husband's remarks, her friend just smiled bitterly: "Not only does he have no money, no job, and no self-motivation, but the important thing is that he treats me badly!" If he had been nicer to me, we wouldn't have gotten divorced.

I got married because I wanted to find a husband who knew and loved each other, and I didn't lack a master and wanted to be a slave. ”

Women are mostly animals who value feelings, and maintaining a good family relationship does not necessarily need rich and expensive money, but more importantly, men's care, and using practical actions to understand women, not just words.

Of course, as a man, if you don't want to eat soft rice, you must be financially independent, which is the same reason as a woman going out to work and earning some income to maintain financial independence.

Ma Zhengjing taught us that the economic base determines the superstructure.

The economic base determines the status of the upper class, and in a family, the traditional concept is generally that the man is the breadwinner and the woman is the family. If a boy has no money, he will generally feel faceless. Although this is no longer the case, if there is no money according to the subject's explanation, it is still recommended to clarify why there is no money first?

Unwilling to work to make money, without the awareness and motivation to make money, and lazy to do.

That's where I have to say a little about you. People still need to have basic survival skills, which of course includes a stable economy**. People are group, but also independent, adulthood, even parents have no obligation to continue to "provide for the elderly" for you, not to mention the husband and wife of the same forest bird, after a long time, the wife will also have complaints, which will affect the harmonious and sustainable development of family relations.

Your wife's income is much greater than yours, and you are better suited to take care of the elderly and children at home.

That can be considered that there is no economy in the short term**. Mainly in the Lord, but in the long run, it is still recommended to find a job, even if the income is not particularly high, but with your own independent income, you will have more say in yourself and can decide your own willingness to buy. <>

And a stable family definitely requires the efforts of both parties, especially in terms of economic stability. After all, only if you are full of water, the quality of life will decline, and it will eventually affect the quality of marriage.

Therefore, it is recommended that you can have no money for a short time, and you still need to have a stable economy in the long term, and work hard to make yourself more valuable, so as to better maintain family relationships. Even if you don't consider family reasons, it's good for you to have a skill. Imagine, now that housewives are encouraged to make their lives more existential, do boys need to be more motivated and work hard according to the traditional concept?

Even as fathers, we can also develop our own second side business, and when our children grow up, we can quickly integrate into society without being out of touch with society.

Men are the pillars of the family, most of the economy is ** men's body, whether the family is rich, whether they live happily depends on whether the man has money, if you are a man without money, there are many ways to make up for your position in the family, you have to work harder to earn money, to support them, let them try to live a good life, you have to love your family more, whether you have money or not, but you must love your family. Warm them with love.

Now there are very ordinary families like this, the family does not have so much money and the income is not high, but they are still very happy, and my family is also a very ordinary and ordinary family. My dad is also a very ordinary person, and he also works for others, but he is still the pillar of our family, because I love us very much, although he can't give us a rich life like other families, and sometimes he will worry about money, but my dad will never treat us badly, I will buy me what other people's children have, my dad loves me very much since I was a child, I have three children in my family, and I have an older sister and younger brother.

There is no money at home, they spend less money, but also to give us good food and clothing, we have what others have, so a man can have no money, but can not be without responsibility, can not even take care of his family, such a person is really useless, sometimes look at a person is not to see whether his family has money, but to see the person's character, my mother said to me, you don't have to find a boyfriend in the future to find a very rich, but you must be really good to you, to have a sense of responsibility, that is, it doesn't matter if a man has no money, But the character must be hard, the family will be happy in the future, will be happy, sometimes a man in the family, does not have to make a lot of money, only have a status at home, as long as you do your best to give them a happy life is enough, if you have no money and have nothing to do for a day, it is normal for such a person to have no status at home.

Money is not everything, a person's character is still the essence. Only with good character can he eat everywhere, and his family will be full of confidence in him. There is no money to earn, and it is difficult to convince others if the character is gone.

Money is earned by their own down-to-earth efforts, and now if there is no money, we must work hard to create a better future for the family.

It is feelings, not money, that maintain family relationships at any time. If you have to use money to make ends meet? Don't do it!!

First of all, what is the scope of the career you are talking about, is there a large company with a large ticket, or is it a general salaried job?

As a man, if you don't have either and don't have the ability to reach even the lowest, then what is the difference between you and a disabled person? Right.

The above is just to illustrate a problem, a man must have an income**, unless you are incapacitated, no woman will follow you, unless she is a fool! (Or she's rich enough to support you for the rest of her life).

It depends on what you want?

You want to get him to be down-to-earth in your fact-speaking and persuade you not to let him know so much what a man should know.

Then he will not be satisfied with the status quo, and sooner or later something will happen.

If you want him to flourish, you have to support him silently behind the scenes, including when he gets rich later, outside.

You have to help him, because that's what you want, and it's not like a man doesn't want to have money after him.

I go home every day as before, and external factors can't do it at all, and sometimes people are very painful things.

I can't help myself I know how Jackie Chan's wife dealt with the woman Jackie Chan is outside There are more than him.

Care and pampering Can you trust her to do it She did it and will excuse him before ** why.

It's because he's Jackie Chan, he's a recognized public figure, he's his husband, it's as simple as that.

I'm sure you're asking, "Is it possible for a man without a career to maintain a family and give happiness to his lover?" "This sentence.

When you speak, you ask yourself, don't you believe in him, don't you deserve to sacrifice for him, don't you love him.

The answer is no, love is love, don't mix other things in, love mixed with other things.

That's not love, know what to do.

It's hard unless you can find someone to give you money, but I think your children will look down on you more or less...Your wife? Would you like to see her work so hard? Ay! How can there be such a perfect thing?

It's very difficult, poor couples mourn everything.

You tell me??

So don't get married if you don't have a career!!

How to maintain family harmony? The emotional teacher tells you that it is very simple, just do these few things.

First of all, you have to have money, so that your family can have food, and then you have to be sincere to them.

You must have your own stance of scrutiny, be impartial and impartial, and whoever is wrong is who is wrong.

That proves that you are not capable enough to be able to do both.

Communicate more with both sides, talk about the benefits of each other, and tolerate each other.

Take the initiative to reach out to both sides and find differences.

Stand without standing people, and enlighten and appease more afterwards.

Take more time to spend with your mother, and your wife will have a long time to come, and the relationship should be managed well.

Mother comes first, but it is the wife who accompanies you to the end after all, and you have to take care of both ends.

I'm with you, I'm in love with you, I'm married to you so that you belong only to me, not for you to treat me as a relative.23333

Be good at communication, and take your wife and children out for a walk.

There is no fixed number of things to look at one's ability and expectations for the quality of life. If the family is just you, you make money to support a family of three, and the minimum should be 3,000 yuan. Living in a small town, spending money is very frugal, and you can barely make ends meet without other burdens such as rent.

If there is a rent burden, it is at least 3500 a month. If you live in a first-tier city, the minimum standard of living is 6,000 yuan to barely maintain.

With a monthly salary of 10,000, there is a way to live with 10,000.

The monthly salary is 5000 and there is a way to live with 5000.

The specific amount of money that can support the family depends on the material requirements of your family and the usual standard of living.

And the city you live in, because the consumption level of the city is different, there is no way to determine this.

There is no upper limit on making money.

This depends on the requirements of different regions.

It's also different.

But to be sure, as long as you are serious and willing to work.

It's all okay to maintain a good family.

But it has to be a family effort.

Men don't have the ability to make money to support their families, and the advice on what to do with their wives is as follows:

b, he really can't mention Adou, and you are still affectionate and even reluctant to give up on him, so let him be inside and outside your lord;

c, he is a dou, he is not responsible, irresponsible and incapable, you feel that he is a burden to you and a burden to your family, then learn to give up.

Of course, if you can maintain a family together, try not to break up, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and the family and everything is prosperous.

Family responsibilities are borne together, and a man does not care whether he is capable of supporting the family or not, as long as he has the courage to take on family responsibilities, can't you bear them with him?

The words are divided into two ends, bai is now in this society.

Du, women make money faster than men, zhi men don't have the ability, so can women raise experts?

Since the family is a family, shouldn't both parties share the responsibility for the management and maintenance of the home?

Let's talk about men, whether he has the ability or not, I think you should have known when you first met him, so why did you choose him in the end, and what is so special about him? The most important thing is how he treats you.

Maybe you need to sit down and have a serious talk, talk about the future, talk about how to get there, what to do now, and the boundaries of your abilities.

When you start thinking about it, you are subconsciously ready for divorce, but you are still struggling.

I'm in the same situation....My husband doesn't want to make progress, he has no sense of responsibility, and he doesn't go out to make money....I'm paying the mortgage too, and I'm raising the home...I feel like I can't see the future....

You can be brave enough to take up this list.

Women heroes don't let the eyebrows be shaved...

Why do you have to be supported by a man, a home is built by two people. Then we have to fight for it together. If he doesn't have the ability, then you work hard. People will only say good about you.

What mentality is life is a matter of two people, you can choose a better one, people treat you as a person, not a person, you can experience it yourself.