Why is there always too much helplessness in life, and how should it be resolved? Tired.

Maybe these words shouldn't be said, but now that you see them, there's nothing you shouldn't do.

Things are polyhedron and let's not just look at one side.

You are introductory lovers, and the emotional foundation may not be solid enough.

However, his change is not necessarily caused by your mother's words, at least it is just your thoughts.

In addition, no matter what reason he changes, it shows his character, and you have to be mentally prepared.

Because people with this kind of heart are either fickle, or arrogant, or upright. And so on varies from person to person.

From your words, I feel that you should be a good girl. In this society now, there are not no good girls, but there are fewer and fewer because they are too vulnerable.

And his character is precisely one of those that can easily hurt you. Of course, this is just an inference on my part, and I don't know whether it's correct or not, and you need to discern it yourself.

It is impossible for people to live in the world without being influenced by other people, other things.

Therefore, I once realized that nothing in the world is constant, everything is changing, and the only constant and permanent thing is this "everything is always changing".

So there is a saying: 'Feelings also need to be managed.' ’

Indeed, if you don't turn it in a good direction, then it may turn in a bad direction.

The righteous path is not prosperous, so the heavens are evil.

Heavenly evil is offered!

Feelings are a matter of two people, although your mother and your boyfriend are colleagues, but they don't know as much about contact and heart-to-heart as you do. Just let your boyfriend feel that your feelings for him haven't changed. As for your mother, if you think about the future, you have to put some effort into getting your boyfriend to please you.

Give him a little time, give him time to rebuild his self-esteem, you can mention some of his strengths when you don't expect it, but be sure not to make him feel that you are sympathizing with him.

As long as the two of you are sincere.

Since you are sincere, you have to work hard to be together.

Leave it to mind what boring people say.

LZ, I wish you happiness.

1. Face it positively, try to minimize and forget the bad things;

2. Do something meaningful that interests you and divert your attention;

3. Make some optimistic and assertive friends, and when you face them, you will feel that it is nothing.

Hopefully, you'll soon walk through the reef and you'll find that life is really good.