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There was a mother who gave her daughter less than a month old to another family for adoption because of poor family conditions. Twenty-eight years have passed, and the mother has been thinking about her daughter, and after being seriously ill, she wants to see her daughter again. When I saw this news, I thought to myself that there are such true stories in real life, and most of these stories have only been seen in TV dramas.
Regardless of whether the mother finally gets her wish, some people ask if the daughter who was sent away 28 years ago will forgive her biological mother? Personally, I don't think so. First of all, it is too cruel to give yourself to another family before you have a full moon.
Second, children are willing to endure hardships with their parents, and no child is willing to leave their parents. In the end, it was too late to recognize each other at the critical moment. Below, let's take a closer look.
1. It is too cruel to give oneself to another family before the full moon, and no child will forgive his or her own parents when he learns that he has been sent to another family when he is not full moon, because it is an act of abandonment, which is very cruel. <>
2. Children are willing to endure hardships with their parents, and no child is willing to leave their parentsThe son does not dislike the mother as poor, this sentence is very reasonable. No child will dislike their parents for not having money, they are willing to suffer with their parents. Therefore, if she leaves herself behind for such a reason, this mother's daughter should not forgive her mother.
3. It is too late to come to recognize each other at an emergency moment, if the mother does not learn that she is seriously ill, it is estimated that she will not see her own daughter. Therefore, if it is too late, the mother's daughter should not forgive her mother, even if her mother is seriously ill.
Therefore, through the above analysis, it is not difficult to understand why I feel that this mother's daughter will not forgive her mother, but this does not mean that the daughter does not feel sorry for her mother. What do you think?
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Blood is thicker than water, after all, it is the daughter who is left over from the pregnancy in October, I believe that if there is any misunderstanding, we will communicate slowly together, just say it, and the daughter will forgive her biological mother.
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I don't think it's forgiving, because being abandoned is a very disappointing thing, very incomprehensible, and definitely sad.
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If the woman's biological mother did have difficulties back then, the woman may forgive her biological mother, after all, people's hearts are flesh and blood.
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The daughter who was sent away will definitely not forgive her biological mother, cruelly sent her daughter away when the family was bad, looked for her daughter when she was sick, and broke her daughter's happy life, and the daughter will not forgive her mother.
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will forgive, or she won't look for her mother, it's because of blood, broken bones and tendons, no one will hate their parents for a lifetime, once they become parents, they will be more understandable.
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I think she will forgive her mother, because she was forced to send her away at that time, or there is something else to hide.
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I don't think so, I haven't paid attention to it for 28 years, and I think of this daughter because I'm sick, and my daughter will feel very cold. Maybe the mother also wanted to disturb her child's life, but I still felt unforgivable.
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I don't think this daughter will forgive her biological mother. Because I have been sent away by my mother for 28 years, it is a difficult thing to forgive my mother to come back to find me after 28 years.
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I don't think so, for her who was abandoned, the psychological damage will never heal.
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I don't think the daughter who was sent away 28 years ago will not forgive her biological mother, because this daughter will think that her mother's abandonment of her at that time was an act of hurting him.
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I think it will be forgiven, there must be some reason for the past, after all, family affection is the bridge that maintains two people.
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If this daughter forgives her biological mother, it can only mean that she is a good person, and we can understand if we don't forgive her, this biological mother has done very badly, and if the daughter forgives her, she can only be considered lucky.
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If you don't want to see it, you can say that you recognize the wrong person, and if you want to see it, you can figure out how to reply to the daughter's life experience, how many details can be remembered, don't be particularly intimate, the key is to treat each other with sincerity and courtesy, first keep a distance to try, if you recognize each other, don't go to the purpose of raising children and preventing old age, but more people know each other, it's better to raise kindness than to raise relatives, so don't fight for the wind, compare what in the relationship, everything is as usual, and if you have the opportunity, you can move around at a certain frequency, such as the stove touching the New Year's Festival, Don't be particularly enthusiastic all at once, appropriately express guilt, mainly prepare some objective reasons, and don't reveal the content that the original intention of abandoning your daughter is very noisy and selfish. Help each other within the scope of your ability, if your daughter comes to the door to ask for a similar mental damage, and you feel that you have deceived her and you can't get along with you in the future, then you have to think about it, and don't be too stammered, your relationship is also very distant and indifferent, blood doesn't mean anything, if one day a stranger suddenly comes out on the street and says that it is my second uncle, third uncle and fifth uncle, I will hide ...... directlyRelatives are not as good as dogs, daughters, a little closer than three aunts and six mothers-in-law is certain, but she also has adoptive parents' mother's family, and there will be in-laws when she gets married in the future, and your relationship cannot heat up to a degree that is closer than that of adoptive parents, so you should also save some worry so as not to be thankless.
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Now that you're back, you have to be brave enough to accept it, no matter what happens later, she is your child.
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First of all, he congratulated Jane warmly and hugged her warmly, like welcoming guests from afar.
Like a long-time friend, tell each other about each other's past and present.
Like a kind teacher, ask her about her thoughts and plans for the future.
Finally, as a parent, explain the current situation of your family, and ask what kind of help you need.
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You should recognize her, no matter what the reason was for abandoning her at the time.
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The child you abandoned, not the child abandoned you, the child is innocent, but the child also has the right to know his biological parents! When the child comes back, don't care about the reason for arguing, the purpose of the spine, and communicate with wild friends!
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That's a good thing, just face the reality calmly.
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At this time, I must want to see your daughter earlier, after all, I am getting older now.
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Face it head-on, make mistakes yourself, and admit it yourself.
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Forgivable, of course. After all, it is his own mother, and the family affection that blood is thicker than water cannot be stopped by anything, and the mother's abandonment at that time should be bitter, I believe she can understand and forgive.
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In my point of view, I don't think it should be forgiven, 28 years ago, it must have been a patriarchal era, so the reason for being abandoned, we all know it, 28 years, we haven't looked for it, and now I come to find it, I feel that there is no emotion, and there is no need.
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If it was her mother who abandoned her involuntarily, she should forgive her mother, after all, she was born to a person, and she would not be left alone unless she had to.
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Should. The blood is inseparable, and there must be a reason why her mother abandoned her back then, although she is very sorry for her, but after all, she is her own flesh and blood, so she should be forgiven.
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If I were this girl, I would forgive my mother for abandoning her, but I wouldn't be very close to her, at most I would keep in touch. Because after all, it was his own mother who gave him life, so he should also be forgiven for the grace of childbirth.
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The woman was born and adopted, and her mother wants to find her after 28 years, I think she can choose not to forgive, because this mother has not fulfilled her obligation to support herself, and now after she is sick, she wants to recognize her daughter, this behavior is a bit selfish, so the daughter can choose not to forgive.
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It is the woman's freedom to forgive or not to forgive. Personally, I don't think it should be forgiven, it's a mistake to be born and not raised in the first place, if you can't afford it, don't give birth, you send it away, and wait for the child to come to her again when he is an adult, which makes people feel chilling, and can fulfill the support of blood relations, but it shouldn't be forgiven.
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The woman was born and adopted, and her mother wanted to find her after 28 years, I think that if you don't forgive the abandonment of the year, it depends on the abandonment of the situation, if it is because the child itself has some diseases to abandon him, it is unforgivable, and vice versa.
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I think it's understandable that you have to make a decision based on the specific situation, and if you are forced to give yourself away at that time, it is also for the sake of having a good life.
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I think it's okay not to forgive, but I can meet her, after all, she doesn't have other excessive requirements, and I think as she herself definitely wants to see what her biological mother is like.
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It's up to you. Morally speaking, it should be forgiven, after all, it is his own mother, and he must have had a hard time at the beginning, but it still depends on what the child thinks.
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It depends, if this mother was abandoned out of prejudice against many girls, I don't think it should be forgiven.
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The phenomenon of preference for sons has always been the dregs of tradition, some people regret it is too late, the woman sent her daughter away 28 years ago, 28 years later because of a serious illness, and want to find her daughter, from her point of view, may really miss her daughter too much, but she knew that it would be like this, and she didn't give it away.
First, in order to escape the punishment of overbirth, the daughter who was only 23 days old was given away to be raised.
The woman gave birth to two daughters successively, after the third pregnancy, she left her two daughters in her hometown to be taken care of by her in-laws, and then went to her husband who was working outside, but after the child was born, she found that it was a daughter again, in order to escape the punishment of overbirth, and the economic situation was not good, the woman and her husband wanted to give the child away, and then asked someone to inquire and found a good family, so the daughter was adopted by the adoptive parents, and the couple also went to see their daughter during the period, but with the death of the introducer, the two families completely lost contact, The couple never saw their youngest daughter again.
Second, don't disturb your daughter's peaceful life.
I think it's been so many years, my daughter has also begun to have a new life, and her adoptive parents must have been very good to her, she probably didn't know that she was abandoned, so don't play the emotional card, it's true that you get sick, but don't kidnap others morally, because from the day you send her away, you have no relationship, so don't take that poor blood relationship as a threat, let your daughter live a peaceful life.
Third, it is also a sin to not raise children.
In fact, the idea of preference for sons is still widespread, many people fight for three or four children in order to have a son, in fact, this is not advisable, it is better to give birth to one or two to cultivate well, and give birth to a child and not raise, this is really a sin. This woman spreads news everywhere in order to find her daughter, I think it's not good, it will definitely have a bad impact on her daughter, it's better to spend the rest of the days with her family, and silently keep the nostalgia for her daughter in your heart.
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She really wants to get back her daughter who was sent away 28 years ago, because she wants to see her daughter again because she is seriously ill.
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I think there is another hidden story, I didn't regret sending it away more than 20 years ago, I had a terminal illness and missed my child, anyway, I don't believe it.
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I think this mother's approach is very selfish, he sent her daughter away from the beginning, and now wants to find her daughter, it is all his own will, completely according to his own ideas, without respect for her daughter, at first to avoid the fine of family planning, for herself, and now because she is sick, she wants to find her daughter, but also for herself, she is really a selfish mother.
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I don't want to think of people so badly, so I prefer to believe that I want to find my biological daughter because I am seriously ill, just to see if she is doing well, and I can't disturb her quiet life.
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A woman who wants to find her relatives because of illness, I think she really wants to find her daughter who was sent away, after all, she is now suffering from illness and does not want to leave any regrets for herself.
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I want to find my relatives because of my illness, and I don't think I really want to find them. If you really want to find it, why not find it sooner, but wait until now. It may also be because of illness and the help of the daughter who was sent away.
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I should want to find my daughter, I am about to die, I just want to see the daughter I sent away back then, this is what every mother will do.
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There should also be repentance, maybe I want to see my daughter with my own eyes when I leave this world, after all, it was this mother who gave her daughter to others. And now because of his illness, he knows that he will leave this world one day, so in order not to leave regrets in his life, he wants to see his adopted daughter.
1. 28 years ago, when the "superborn" daughter was raised in 1992 grandma, and his wife Gao Jirong was pregnant for the third time, the couple already had two daughters. Under financial pressure and the punishment of overbirth, the couple decided to give their daughter up for adoption.
After being introduced, the couple finally gave their daughter to a couple who had no children but had good economic conditions, and the child was only 26 days old. At that time, the couple did not charge a penny, but just wanted to give their children a better life.
Six years later, the couple had seen the child from afar, and they were afraid that it would affect the child's life, so they didn't bother. Later, because of the death of the middleman, he lost contact with his daughter. In 2018, his wife Gao Jirong was found to have kidney disease, and after her condition became more and more serious, Gao Jirong's last wish was to see his daughter, even if her daughter hated her.
Second, maybe this is the last thought of the person when he is dying, but for the daughter, it may be difficult to accept For this mother, maybe she was forced to give her daughter up for adoption, but since she has been adopted, in fact, if you recognize each other, it may make her daughter have a shadow in her heart, and she may even be unacceptable. For a sick mother, it may be possible to fulfill her wishes, but for her adopted daughter, it is simply difficult to accept.
And after 28 years, each has its own life, and the best way is not to bother, if you really want to know the whereabouts of your daughter, maybe you can look at it from a distance, instead of recognizing each other.
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