What should I do if I have low self esteem because I have a stutter and my low self esteem is very s

The more inferior you are, the more you dare not speak, the more you dare not speak, the more you feel inferior, and a vicious circle will be formed. There are two things you need to do at the moment: first, develop good language habits, master breathing, rhythm, etc.; On the other hand, overcome psychological barriers, develop the habit of looking at the benefits of everything, be positive, sunny and enthusiastic, of course, this also takes time and atmosphere, don't worry, you must be calm, only in this way, stuttering correction is just around the corner!

Read more books, read beautiful essays and prose smoothly. Then slowly correct the stuttering. Don't get too immersed in the virtual world and exercise your ability to communicate with people. Also, be careful not to exaggerate your own shortcomings and imagine that you are equal to others, and there is nothing to be inferior to.

First of all, relax yourself and don't take him seriously. For example, if a person falls down, there are many people around him, and he always feels that he can't get over his face and dare not get up, which may attract more people ......In fact, if we are passers-by, we look at it and forget about it. It's the same with you, others don't necessarily care, the point is that you put too much pressure on yourself.

Secondly, you have to slowly get rid of this problem. In fact, stuttering is not very difficult to change, it is generally better when you are relaxed, and the more nervous you are, the worse it is. So when you talk in your daily life, try to relax yourself and say word by word, I'm sure you'll change it soon!

Are you stuttering because of low self-esteem? Or is it more inferiority because of stuttering? Have you ever thought about it, there is no one in the world who is perfect. It's because we care too much about what others think, and because we're too embarrassed, how much beauty do we miss?

Why are those who succeed so crazy? It's because they stick to their principles! Other people's opinions can't restrain their progress!

What's wrong with stuttering? It's better than someone who doesn't have a mouth! Why can you see your shortcomings but not what you have?

Low self-esteem, I dare not do it! Why procrastinate, why don't you think of it? When you want to start doing something seriously, you will find that time is always in a hurry!

Moreover, stuttering is not incurable! The key is that you have made up your mind? Low self-esteem, what's so scary?

The scary thing is that you don't dare to face low self-esteem! What does it mean to have a personality? It's that you do what others only dare to think about but don't dare to do.

Don't let me pity you, for there will be something hateful about the wretched!

If you see this, you can shout "Who is afraid of whom?" "Congratulations, you've taken the first step towards self-confidence.

Stuttering is not a big problem. The key is to have the confidence to change it. Stuttering, afraid that others will look down on you, so low self-esteem.

Is it? In fact, others don't look down on you. It's you who look down on yourself.

So the root of this is still in you. There is no such thing as a perfect person. It doesn't matter if you are looked down upon by others.

What is there to be inferior.

Our teacher also has a stutter, but a whole bunch of friends. I have a rich life, and I like to chat with him.

Why magnify your own shortcomings? Why not look at your own merits? None of your strengths are as good as one disadvantage?!!You have to be strong yourself, and others will naturally ignore your shortcomings.

It is! Don't magnify your shortcomings, I have a friend who stutters a bit and has cleft lips and can't have surgery right now. But he is happier than me every day, and he is more diligent and capable than me.

My mom used to talk about me. Let me learn from him....Now I don't marry a good man and have a good job.

Low self-esteem will make you feel more psychologically stressed, and you will suffer from mental illness for a long time.

If you are a confident person, then you have to ignore the cynicism of others and go your own way!

What do you have low self-esteem? Does Wang Xiaoli know? played a stuttering Liu Neng in country love, and became famous....

The two problems of stuttering and low self-esteem affect each other. Because you look at this problem negatively, there will be a lot of negative thoughts and negative emotions, which will make you speak more unfavorably and aggravate the performance of stuttering. These manifestations, in turn, make you feel even more inferior.

Therefore, to change your low self-esteem and break this cycle, you still need to start with the negative thoughts you generate. Whenever you want to speak, a little unclear, you can feel nervousness, sadness, or self-blame, but before that, you must have thought of something. Maybe you think that I must not say well, others will laugh at me, you are nervous; Maybe you will think that you can't go as smoothly as others say, and you feel very sad; Maybe you wonder why I can't say it well, and you start to blame yourself.

Having said all that, I just wanted to tell you that emotions are caused by thoughts. And negative emotions are often because people have some unreasonable or even distorted thoughts. Many case studies in psychology have found that people with low self-esteem often have many cognitive distortions, and most of these cognitive distortions are negative perceptions of themselves.

You can think to yourself if you also have this kind of distorted thinking about yourself.

It's not as easy to change these ideas as you think, because ideas are often ingrained, and there are often deeper ideas behind them that influence these ideas. Therefore, it takes professional help to be able to make a radical change. I suggest that you can find a local professional psychological counselor for consultation, or do a mental training.

Professional help is very important for you to overcome your low self-esteem and gain self-growth.

The coherence may not be clear. If you have any questions, you can ask them again.

I recommend you to watch a movie "The King's Speech" in which the protagonist is a king, he also stutters, and also has low self-esteem, which tells in detail how his ** doctor encouraged him and helped him complete the process of a speech that lifted the whole country.

Well, I think the first thing about your problem is your psychological problem, because your ups and downs are not due to the influence of your tongue and vocal cords. You can first try to practice your own psychology and recommend a method to you, which is to find someone who you can't stutter when you speak, and then endorse it, a speech and something like that. Secondly, the next time you talk to someone, you feel that you can't say it, and you're about to stutter, just wait, don't say it, think about what you want to say, brew it, and then slowly say it clearly, word by word.

First of all, you should establish a correct understanding, don't fall into this vicious circle, in fact, a lot of stuttering is caused by psychological factors, this is not a physical disease, but psychological factors, the more you are not confident, the easier it is to stutter, and the more inferior you are in the monthly exam.

The so-called stuttering is stammering, this is not a disease that is not, I once met a classmate, he just had such a problem, and at that time we were very young, he seemed to be sensible earlier than others, because he was exposed to those undeserved ridicule too early, but now that I have grown up, I found that he speaks no different from us, and it has been proved that stuttering is okay, and there is no need to feel too inferior for him.

Here I can recommend a ** method to you, once my classmate was also like this**, he put a rubber band on his wrist, whenever he stuttered, he would use the rubber band to flick his hand and neck, causing pain to make him remember for a long time, forcing himself to form a conditioned reflex, usually in order to read aloud texts and self-expression in the mirror, this kind of practice, over time, the phenomenon of speech will become lighter and lighter, and he also participated in the eloquence class, the effect is still very significant.

If you want to completely overcome stuttering, you should first overcome the barrier in your heart, take this step bravely, and build strong self-confidence to be able to stutter better....

In fact, there is no need to feel inferior at all, because stuttering is not your own reason, but innate.

If you stutter, you should work hard to become very confident, don't care about other people's eyes, and slowly change yourself.

You can try to exercise yourself and get rid of the problem of stuttering, otherwise you will be ridiculed in the future.

Then talk less and think clearly in your heart when you say everything, so that what you say will be useful and others will not laugh at you.

Don't feel inferior, then slowly correct, you can speak slower and slower, and if you can't express your opinion at some times, just smile.

Work hard to train yourself and correct your bad habits, other people's eyes actually don't help you at all, don't care too much.

All you have to do is correct your stutter properly. Speak slowly and accurately, others will stop laughing at you, and at the same time, you should increase your self-confidence, so that you will not have low self-esteem.

Don't care about other people's opinions, as long as you're happy, stuttering can be broken, and don't be anxious when you talk slowly.

Say more, practice more, enhance self-confidence, don't care about other people's opinions, believe that you are the best, try to communicate with others as much as possible, and overcome inferiority complex.

First of all, accept yourself, you are the most beautiful and the best.

The most taboo is to look down on oneself through the evaluation of others and follow the evaluation of others.

You can reduce your stuttering by exercising, or you can focus on what you're good at.

Life is so short, I hope you live it to the fullest.

Do you want to live in the eyes of others, live in other people's mouths, no one is perfect, I'm like this, what's wrong, if someone laughs at you, you ask him, did I delay you to eat, did I delay him to live.

You have your own strengths, everyone is unique, try to discover your own strengths.

Remember, I am born to be useful, face it bravely, and you will lose if you are coaxed.

It is impossible for a social person not to see people and not speak for a lifetime, right? There's only one way: train.

Stuttering is all acquired, one is a habit of speaking, and the other is a psychological factor.

Stuttering can form, and it can be driven away.

There is a way to change your stuttering, and there are only two tricks:

First, slow down the speed of speech: When practicing at home, deliberately slow down the speed of speech, spit out word by word, and only spit out once per word. Learn this, and the stuttering problem will be cured by half.

Second, think about each sentence you want to say, find a few accents, and pronounce them with intentional accents.

For example: Hello! The accent is you, just bring out the good words. Here's how it works: You! For example: I like to eat meat. I like to eat (light) meat (heavy).

Once you learn and form a habit, you will no longer stutter.

Try. Be brave.

Don't care what others say.

Every morning I took a book and read it aloud on the street.

If you still feel that it is not good for you to save face, you can go to a place far away from your own life, because if you read it, people will not remember you.

Slowly you will be able to answer this question.