Divorced, do I still have to be nice to his parents? Will this kind of relationship continue?

Men are very afraid of trouble, he doesn't tell his parents because he is afraid of his parents' reprimand and complaining...

But if you are divorced, you should make it clear, paper can't hold the fire, the sooner you know, the sooner you don't have a heartwarming thing, you can discuss it with your ex-husband and tell the old man.

Even if they are divorced, their parents still have to call, it's nothing, there's no need to be awkward, after all, they are still the grandparents of the children! Be kind to the elderly, you can't break off with your children, and you can't break off with your grandparents, so you still have to treat them as relatives.

It's hard to go back once, so let's buy something, I can save the following, and I want the old man to be happy.

Finally, you must work hard, enrich yourself, change your fate, and don't let the days go on so tightly!

Good luck! Wishing you happiness!

After the divorce, you are not legally husband and wife, but it is impossible for the children to be separated, right? To his parents, I think you should find a time to explain to them, and you can't not tell them about such a big thing. As for how to treat them after the explanation, I think we should be friends, right?

In addition to the divorce that dissolves the legal relationship between your husband and wife, don't let anyone else be too "absolute", right? You tell me?

Want. She has to go and explain it to her parents, tell them the truth, and then find a job for herself, and she can't go back to her parents to get money. I also have children, and I find a job to honor my parents. Believe that you are not a useless person.

Let's say it clearly, don't have any scruples. Men are so hypocritical. It's useless to save face for them. And he wants living expenses, what he wants, what he wants. Then do a good job yourself. Have a good time. Wishing you happiness!

Before you go back, talk to your ex-husband to see what he thinks, as for whether to call your mother or you to decide after you hook up, you must want to buy something, how much is a little thought, at least be a friend to his parents, no matter what, they take care of your children and respect them.

How much is something worth? It's time to send the child. After all, it's not easy for two old people to look at a child at such an old age. Be a little more generous.

Paper can't contain the fire, so go back and tell his parents this time.

There are also friends on the 2nd floor, what is called a man is hypocritical, you may meet such a man yourself, there are still good men in this world.

If Mom and Dad can't get by, I will respect their choice. If Mom and Dad agree to a divorce, I will support their choice. If Mom and Dad want to ask for my opinion, I will talk to Mom and Dad about it, and if they don't want to get divorced, I will persuade them to get back together.

If Mom and Dad quarrel every day, and the family is not at peace, and Mom and Dad really can't get by, I will respect their choice. Although I don't want to let them be separated from my heart, I know that the twisted melon is not sweet, and it is better to have a short pain than a long pain, and I will respect the choice of my parents. Because I have the same feelings for my parents, I feel sorry for them, and I will respect their choice.

If Mom and Dad can't get on anymore and they insist on getting a divorce, I will also respect and support Mom and Dad's choice. If Mom and Dad ask for my opinion, I will tell Mom and Dad that I agree with their divorce. Although I don't want to see my parents divorce, I would rather see my parents find their own happiness.

I will support my mom and dad's choice, I will tell mom and dad that letting go is the best fulfillment, they are still my mom and dad after the divorce, and their love for me will not change, so I will support them in the divorce.

If Mom and Dad want to ask for my opinion, if Mom and Dad don't want to get divorced, I'll have a good talk with them, and I'll tell them that I want us to live together as a family. If Mom and Dad still want to continue living together and want to change each other, I will do my best to help them get back together. If Mom and Dad can't get by, and they meet every day like enemies, I won't help them get back together, I will persuade them to divorce as soon as possible.

Although I want my mom and dad to live together, I want to have a complete home, but I can't be a selfish child, and I will respect my mom's choice.

They should be supported to divorce, because this is their life, if two people really can't get by, they should divorce, if they don't divorce, it will only make the two of them particularly miserable.

The two of them should be supported to divorce, and the two of them can't live anymore, if they don't support it, it will only make the two of them more miserable.

It should be supported, since two people don't like each other anymore and they don't have any feelings, they should divorce, so that two people can live happier lives.

The relationship between husband and wife is not good, but they do not divorce for the sake of their children, in fact, it is not good for the children:

1.The child escapes reality.

The husband and wife have to live together if they are not in harmony, disputes must be common, and it is impossible for children to know about every dispute, so in the long run, the children will not have a good grasp of the family relationship, and even afraid to deal with some trivial matters in the family, and avoid getting along with both parents.

2.Stressful.

When the husband and wife are not in harmony but do not divorce for the sake of the child, this will increase the pressure of the child's answer, because the child knows that the parents are not divorced for themselves, the parents sacrifice their emotional life, want to let themselves have a complete home, they should have a good future to repay their parents, so the pressure on the child will be very great, the little child actually knows a lot of things, some children are more precocious, they will be better until their parents are separated, but they are children after all, will blame his parents' unhappiness on himself.

3.The personality becomes uncheerful.

If the parents' emotional discord will make the child more sensitive, everyone will have a lot of topics around the family when they go to school, so the children in the family who are not in harmony with the husband and wife are inferior to this topic. Children who enter the family are also more sensitive, and they slowly know how to observe words and feelings, and they are also cautious with their parents.

4.The impact on the child's later family and old age.

First of all, it will be more difficult for children to deal with their relationship with their spouse in the future, because they never know what is the right and good way. Secondly, there are also some children who will resist marriage when they grow up, thinking that they do not have the confidence to live the sweet family life like in the TV series.

In terms of family interaction, the relationship between husband and wife has a great impact on the children. The relationship is not good, but you still have to make do with your children, which is a hurt to all three of them!

For me personally, I can accept the problem of my parents' marital status. After all, the emotional aspect cannot be forced, and for parents, they also make deliberate decisions, so I will respect their approach.

1. Learn to respect your parents' decisions.

When parents choose to divorce, they must have thought it through and thought that it would be good for both parties to make up their minds to end the relationship. So, you have to accept this fact that you can't change, and try to ease your emotions as much as possible. You have to understand that if two people in a family no longer love each other and still live together under the same roof, that atmosphere may not be a good thing for you, not only will you not feel the warmth of the family, but you will also be depressed and miserable because of the endless quarrels between your parents, or the indifference of ignoring each other.

And this kind of physical and mental torment, for parents, is often better than a short pain. Since they have chosen to divorce, then you have to be considerate of them, maybe after separation, they will be fine, and their lives will be happy and beautiful. As for you to come here to rent a place, after all, the time to accompany them is limited, rather than seeing them make do with their miserable lives, it is better to let them seek a better home for themselves.

2. Care more about your parents.

When your parents divorce and suddenly there is one less person in your family of three, you will naturally lack a sense of security in your heart, and feel that your home is incomplete and different from other families with parents. In fact, for divorced parents, they will face various problems after breaking up, and the habits they have cultivated will also be broken, so both parties need to have a process of adaptation. And when they face you, they will definitely blame themselves and be ashamed.

If you don't adjust well, react violently, and get mixed with the contradictions and disturbances of your parents, it is no less than sprinkling a few handfuls of salt on their injured hearts. In this way, the process of calming their emotions will be more difficult. So, learn to be considerate of them, and tell yourself that the result is best for them, and you will try to adapt to it.

And life will get better and better.

As long as they really love each other, I can accept them remarrying.

For the vast majority of children, they are not able to accept their parents remarrying. But as children grow older, they will understand their parents' behavior, and it's just a matter of time. Therefore, I would like to share the following points with you:

1. Parents also have the right to pursue happiness. For our parents, since their parents have chosen to divorce, they also have the right to pursue happiness, so we don't stop our parents, but respect every choice of our parents. Maybe our parents can't form a complete family for us, but the love that our parents give us is something that no one can take away, so our parents think about us, and we should also think more about our parents, and remember not to impose our own ideas on our parents.

The second brigade is a kind of yearning for love. Second marriage does not mean that it will not be happy, but because many people always slander second marriage, but we still don't want others to speak.

Children should fully understand and support the remarriage of the father or mother. No matter how good the children are, they can't replace their wives. Although the parents are in their old age, they also need a deeper love between husband and wife.

This is also the right of the fathers. Middle-aged widowhood, which brings deep trauma to people; The loss of companions in old age is even more inevitable and lonely. In addition to providing care and spiritual comfort to the elderly, if the father or mother requests to remarry, the children should take the initiative to help them realize their wishes, so that the parents can have more emotional sustenance.