The Bernard of the Bernard Effect, what is the Bernard Effect?

The British scholar Bernard is a very interesting scientific genius, with a brilliant imagination and profound insight. It is said that the spark of thought that burst out from his words at the dinner table is enough for others to do a lifetime of research topics.

In addition to his significant contributions to crystallography and molecular biology, he also radiated the light of creativity in other fields of "science". He has studied amino acids, vitamins, the structure of fluids, life on meteorites, continental drift, etc., and has raised promising questions in every field.

He has done foundational work in science, and he has done cutting-edge research in crystallography and biochemistry. He was so brilliant that when he studied the first X-ray diffraction patterns of protein crystals, he sensitively foresaw that the structural problems of proteins could be solved.

It's a remarkable scientific idea. However, he only stayed at the insight he obtained, and did not make the effort to delve into it, and he left the solution of the problem to others. Some believe that if he delves into any of the questions he raises, he could win a Nobel Prize.

But he left all these opportunities to others, and he put a shot in one place and moved on to another place. Many of his friends felt sorry for him.

He always likes to come up with a topic, throw out an idea, first dabble in it himself, and then, leave it to others to create the final result.

The British scholar Bell was so talented that some people say that if he studied crystallography and biochemistry after graduation, he would have won many Nobel Prizes. But he willingly took a different path, putting forward pioneering topics one after another, guiding others to the peak of science, a move known as the "Bell effect".

The Bell effect requires us to be good at pushing others to the foreground when we are carrying children in interpersonal communication, and give others a chance to express themselves and play to their strengths. Because in the mind of any person, there is a psychological need to "express themselves", but many people do not show it on many occasions, and if you want to change your interpersonal relationships, you must pay attention to the inner needs of others and try to meet others. The reason why many people are not popular in social situations is because they like to "steal the limelight", "express themselves too much", and "disrespect others".

When interacting with others, only by understanding the needs of others and meeting the needs of others can you be appreciated by others, others will be willing to associate with you, and your interpersonal relationships will be improved. Therefore, being good at loving others and pushing them to the foreground is the best inspiration that the "Bell effect" gives us.