What does a well bred person look like in general?

A cultivated person is neither optimistic nor pessimistic, but objective. They don't believe that there are absolutely three people in the world who have the same views and interests, just as they don't believe that there are two leaves that are exactly the same. They treat their friends and relatives with great kindness.

Because you are human, I will be kind to you, not because you are like me, so I will be kind to you. Cultivated people are the smartest. They understand that they are the mirror of others, and that what attitude you have towards others will be what kind of attitude others will use to fight back against you.

When you are soft, the world can treat you gently. After all, living is not for exams, you don't have to fight correctly, win or lose, but see who lives more comfortably and comfortably.

A truly cultivated person who can use "compassion and tolerance" to achieve others is actually achieving himself. A person who can know how to liberate himself from the "phenomenon" is a person who truly knows how to cultivate himself. Think about the suffering of our mental journey to know the suffering of others.

Think about how many unknown sadness and pain we have, and we know that other people's lives actually have the same content, and they also experience ups and downs on the road of life.

A well-educated person should pay attention to his manners, speech and appearance at all times, because a person's demeanor can reflect different ideological realms, spiritual outlooks, and moral concepts, which constitute both external and internal beauty. A cultured person is good at helping others: because he does not stand idly by while others suffer and suffer misfortunes, but does what he can to give compassion and help to others.

A cultured person always looks someone in the eye when talking to someone instead of flipping through a document, fiddling with a pen, etc. Because these actions reflect subconscious impatience, they can make the interlocutor feel embarrassed and unable to speak freely. A cultured person never interrupts someone else's words, and waits for the other person to finish before adding or refuting it.

Cultivation is a complex issue, and its basic part overlaps with upbringing. For example, do not throw garbage, do not speak loudly in public, be good at listening, have a spirit of contract, etc. However, the biggest difference between self-cultivation and upbringing is that upbringing is a habit and the result of education and indoctrination in the original family and school.

And cultivation is wisdom, it is to constantly overcome one's own possessiveness and competitiveness, slowly, steadily and slowly, and slowly tolerate, polishing oneself like a stone into a warm jade.

Cultured people never emphasize their position in their dealings with people and do not show their superiority. Because only in this way can we have a truly equal relationship with people. A cultured person keeps his promise and does not break his word even when it is difficult.

If you have to change it as a last resort, you must talk about the reason for cleaning up.

Upbringing is not something that can be cultivated in a day's work, but it can be cultivated. The formation of upbringing is closely related to the family, school, society, and especially the group into which you are integrated. As long as we can insist on good qualities and abandon vulgar things. Slowly it will form.

Silence is a kind of cultivation and a kind of beauty. In the crowded world, the hustle and bustle of the crowd, silence is a supreme state. Listen to your heartbeat, feel the pulse of your thoughts, and return to your true self; Gazing at the eternal silent mountains, interpreting the vast sea, and appreciating the insignificance and ordinariness and profundity and greatness of life, this is calm.

The best upbringing is actually respect. No matter whether you have money or no money, whether you are educated or uneducated, you must know how to respect others, you must not bully the small with the big, bully the poor with the rich, rely on the old and sell the old, and be a man, you must know how to respect other people's choices, respect other people's opinions, respect other people's lives, and so on. People who know how to respect others will have a culture that has nothing to do with anything.

People, must not be too arrogant, can not look down on others, can not laugh at others, all people are created equal, but everyone is born in a different environment, different education methods, the formation of habits are not necessarily, we get along with others, seek common ground while reserving differences. The relationship between people, just like driving a bumper car, near and far, collisions constantly, in order not to get hurt again, we always choose to escape, choose to detour, but the result is to hurt more people, in fact, the way to achieve reconciliation is very simple, is to remove the disguise, face your own heart. At the beginning of people, their nature is good, their sex is similar, and their habits are far away.

It's not easy for everyone to live in this world, so why bother each other. When everyone is facing differences, if they can understand each other, give in to each other, forgive others and spare others, and miss the trip, then the world is full of temperature. Everyone is an ordinary person, there is no high bottom between people and stools, and we must be considerate of people and things.

There is no point in work, worthy of respect and kindness Knowing how to respect the people at the bottom is the real noble person. A well-educated person knows how to respect others, be principled and measured, will not look down on others, trample on the dignity of others at will, will not be bullying, know how to tolerate others, respect others' defects, appreciate the advantages of others, and radiate kindness from the bottom of his heart. People don't think that their status is high, they are richer than others, they can go to Zaosola to ridicule others, no matter how high or low the position is, no matter who you are, you must respect the labor of others.

And respect for the bottom is love, education, soul, and life. A well-educated person does not distinguish between high and low people, treats people equally, and will not be condescending and arrogant. There are people who sit in sedan chairs, there are people who carry sedan chairs, and there are people who ride horses and there are people who lead horses and stools.

Everyone has their own hobbies and talents, and everyone has their own way of making a living. If you understand that there are differences between people and different abilities, you will not look at people with colored glasses and make it difficult to bully the weak. There is a kind of soft-hearted person in the world, who will live better than being stupid and mentally retarded, and he will not be able to use a little temper even if others owe him.

I think that understanding and respecting everyone and being kind to everyone is the best kind of upbringing. There is an old Chinese saying that if people respect me, I will respect you. All people are born equal.

In the development of life, there will be a difference between high and low, and there will be a huge disparity between the rich and the poor, while a well-educated person is kind to others and strict with himself. This is the upbringing that goes deep into the bones.

1. Be decent and be harmless to Yinsen.

2. Integrity, kindness and compassion.

3. Be diligent and conscientious, and have a sense of responsibility.

4. Work steadfastly, and you can rest assured that you can do things with pure acres.

5. Optimistic and cheerful, with a good attitude.

6. Clear thinking and strong organization.

7. Work hard and conscientiously.

8. Strong memory and good understanding.

9. Like to read and have a wide range of knowledge.

10. Life is simple, and there is no city in the heart.

11. Clean and tidy, fighting in an orderly manner.

12. Filial piety to elders.

1.Politeness and respect: Good parenting is first and foremost reflected in being polite and respectful to others, including expressing gratitude, using appropriate titles, paying attention to civility in words and behavior, and avoiding any insulting, discriminatory and offensive behavior as much as possible.

2.Integrity and honesty: A good upbringing is also reflected in maintaining integrity and honesty, not cheating, not plagiarizing, not concealing facts, and at the same time being able to admit mistakes and be prepared to take responsibility.

3.Social skills: Good parenting is also reflected in good social skills, including being confident and calm in dealing with others, knowing how to listen and express, and ensuring that one's attitudes, words and actions do not bring bad influence or negative emotions to others.

4.Respect for the privacy and opinions of others: Good parenting also includes respecting the privacy and opinions of others, not blaspheming, not interfering, and not criticizing the choices and decisions of others.

5.Showing care and gratitude: Good parenting also entails showing care and gratitude, offering help and support to others, being grateful for others' help and interests, and making everyone feel important and present as much as possible.

6.Knowledge and accomplishment: have a certain knowledge and cultural accomplishment, understand the quality of traditional Chinese culture and modern civilization, and have noble moral character.

7.Perseverance: At every stage of life, you can persist in your efforts and not give up on your goals and beliefs.

In today's society, if beauty is a letter of recommendation, then kindness is a credit card. A person who has nothing to show and is dirty in his heart is not worthy to walk in the world and be prudent.

A truly cultured person must be a strong, tolerant, and kind person. They do not blame others for their mistakes, nor do they chatter because of others' carelessness, nor do they show contempt for the weak, but they do their best to help and understand them.

Be educated, make it convenient for others, and improve yourself. Be a strong, tolerant and kind person, give back to the society, and give back to yourself.