Now children are difficult to manage, and now some children are difficult to manage, how to educate

Be patient with your child!

Introduction: Today's children are the hearts and minds of their parents, so parents always love and spoil their children infinitely when disciplining their children, so that children will become more and more indulgent, more and more vexatious, so that children will become more and more difficult to manage, then at this time parents will be anxious, so how to educate these difficult children, now I will introduce you to some detailed methods.

In the face of some difficult children, parents can not take a harsh criticism to educate, because this will only make children have some fear, which will affect the children's mental health, and will also make the children more afraid of their parents, which is not conducive to better education of children. It can even make the child become negative, low self-esteem and depression, and afraid of getting along with others. Parents must pay attention to communicating with their children, communicating with their children in the depths of their hearts, and listening to their children's inner voices, so that they can make their children aware of their own problems and let them carry out deep self-reflection, so that children will no longer make mistakes and let children become easy to manage.

When parents face their children's mistakes, they must calm down, control their emotions, and must not get angry easily, and cannot severely reprimand their children, which will only produce bad results. Be sure to communicate with the child in a gentle tone and analyze the child's problem, so that the child can listen to what the adult says to a large extent and correct his mistakes.

Parents can exercise their children's sense of responsibility in normal times, so that children can become polite, so as to reduce the number of mistakes they make. In daily life, children can also cultivate some other interests and hobbies, so that children can better listen to their parents.

For children who are more difficult to manage, parents should correct them in time, cultivate their children's good behavior habits, make correct reward and punishment policies for their children, do wrong things, punish them in time, and let children correctly recognize their mistakes, if the children do it right, they can give their children appropriate rewards, meet their sense of achievement, encourage their children to do better next time, and make parents or teachers more handy in management.

Communicate with your child often, try to understand your child, don't show the majesty of a parent when talking to your child, treat your child as a friend, and let your child speak freely in front of you without any sense of inhibition. In this way, the child will not lie, and can also grasp the child's thoughts in time and correct the wrong ones in time. If there is something to talk to the child, do not impose your own opinions on the child, only make suggestions and let the child think for himself.

To create a warm environment for children to grow up, we must respect children, understand children, communicate with children more, and listen to children's ideas.

I believe that many parents will have this feeling, that is, children are becoming more and more difficult to manage, no matter what they do, they like to do it against their parents, and the parents' temper is a beating to the childrenIn fact, it is not that today's children are difficult to manage, but that the parents' education methods are wrong and have become the opposite。Children are more curious about many things, and the more they are not allowed to do things in their cognition, the more mysterious they will be, that is, they want to know why parents don't let them do it, for example, children can't take out the light bulb in their mouths, because parents don't let them put it, children feel curious, and they really put it in their mouths.

The children in our family are like this, they don't like to watch TV before, especially cartoons, children think cartoons are deceitful, saying that they are too naïve, but for some reason they have been obsessed with cartoons recently, and they don't do anything after school every day, and they turn on the TV to watch cartoons when they throw away their schoolbags, anyway, as long as they are at home, they are holding the TV to watch, and the homework assigned by the teacher is not written.

So we turned off the TV and didn't let him watch it, but the teacher asked a question during class, and the child couldn't answer, and the teacher asked him why he didn't listen well in class, and he said that his parents didn't let him watch cartoons. It turned out that this kid was thinking about cartoons in class, and then we discussed with him, as long as he agreed to do homework and then watch an episode after school every day, after his consent, now it's okay, study very seriously every day, and turn off the TV after watching an episode obediently.

For our children after a few things found that if you want your child to give up something, then force him to learn something, as long as he is forced to learn he will definitely give up, but want the child to learn something, at first you must refuse him, never meet his requirements, he always wants to learn to compete with you. AbsolutelyChildren with different personalities need different ways of education, forcing him to learn, you can use the way of beating and scolding, maybe he will become better, but the price that parents need to pay is that the child will be hostile to you.

Because today's children are smarter than the children of the past, and they are exposed to more things, it can be said that they are more and more knowledgeable, and it is becoming more and more difficult to manage.

Now that the Internet is developed, children are no longer the kind of wolf or police who can be deceived obediently in the past, they have their own ideas, of course, they don't want to be swayed by the ideas of adults.

Comparatively speaking, today's children are indeed a bit difficult to manage, the reason must be because children in modern society are exposed to too many things, in his thoughts, there is no formation of a set of correct theories, if you want to manage children, you should communicate more with children, on the basis of equality, let children carry out, empathy, he will grow.

It's not that children are difficult to manage, but the environmental impact of exposure is too great, and it also depends on the four dimensions of river beach and education with parents.

Because most of today's children are only children, even if the two-child policy is now opened, but grandparents and grandparents are revolving around the child, for fear that there is something bad about the child, and what the child says is what it is, and over time the child will develop the habit of arrogance, so it is difficult for parents to discipline their children.

Today's children have a wider perspective than before.

With tools like the web and mobile phones.

Let them be exposed to this society earlier.

At the same time, earlier had their own thoughts and concepts.

And the words of adults.

For them, it is becoming less and less binding.

Parents want to manage. It's definitely getting harder and harder to manage.

Nowadays, more and more children will treat them in a doting way, and the living environment is getting better and better from generation to generation, so it is naturally becoming more and more difficult to discipline.

Now the child is becoming more and more unable to beat and scold, and the rebellious heart is heavier, so it is difficult to manage.

It's hard to say, it may be that parents have too little communication with their children.

I think every child is different. There may indeed be children who are more solid, thick-skinned, and have bigger hearts. Often beaten and scolded and still alive, mentally healthy, positive.

However, this is only a part of the children, and it is possible that they have not been negatively affected by the scolding. This does not mean that scolding education will not have a negative impact on all children, and it does not mean that scolding education is correct. And even if this part of the healthy child only sees that he has been beaten and scolded, we do not see that in addition to the beating and scolding education, he may have also received other ways of education from the upbringing members (such as gentle, encouraging).

First, the previous network was not developed enough, and the speed of information transmission was relatively slow. In other words, there may be children who are not mentally healthy, but we don't know. At that time, news did not spread as fast as it does now, and it only took a few moments to spread to all corners of the country.

Just because we see less doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

Second, the living conditions in the past were generally not as good as they are now, the material conditions were poor, and the people at that time were still trying to solve the problem of food and clothing. In the past, people were in the stage of low-level needs, and their daily attention was focused on how to eat better and dress warmer, so naturally they had no other mind to pay attention to whether they were unhappy and whether their emotions were not good enough. There will be fewer psychological problems.

3. Although the material conditions were not good in the past, the "boundaries" between parents and children were very clear. In this way, it is actually much better than the current environment of children. In the past, my parents were in charge of making money, working the work, and working in the fields.

They will not stare at the child's homework, let alone worry about the child, help the child sign up for various interest classes, and fill the child's free time.

Actually, education at that time. A lot of problems also arise. Why change now?

It's just that you're seeing these problems now. In fact, the education at that time did not produce many useful talents. Now it's full-fledged so you see.

On the bad side, there are actually a lot of good sides.

It's all so special! Parents are used to it, schools are used to it, and ** are so used to it! What can a child do like this, can he be good?

Because parents and grandparents are too accustomed to their children, they are reluctant to beat and scold their children, and over time, the children become more and more difficult to discipline.

The child is getting more and more difficult to manage, in fact, it is a misunderstanding. Because the social environment in which the child lives has changed, and the child's thinking has changed, we are still using the old way to manage the child, of course, we can't manage it if we can't manage it. In order to adapt to the changing society and changing children, our education methods have to change.

These children are very mischievous and disobedient, and they are very rebellious and do not listen to their parents and teachers, which is why they are particularly difficult to manage.