I m about to get married, but my boyfriend is proposing to break up, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-14
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    1. You should be glad that you are not married.

    At the juncture of marriage, your boyfriend proposed to break up, I think you should be glad that you have not entered into marriage yet, otherwise, if you divorce you after getting married, you will be hurt even more. So in this case, you don't have to be too sad, you should be happy.

    2. You have to be more ruthless than him.

    Since your boyfriend can be so ruthless, I think you should be more ruthless than him, just divide it, who is afraid of whom! Whoever is away cannot live. You may have a better choice without him, so don't feel sorry for such a person, it's not worth it.

    From now on, you should cut off contact with him and have nothing to do with him.

    3. Clean up your broken mood and get back on the road.

    After cutting off contact with your boyfriend, then you need to clean up your feelings. It is good to choose to go out for a trip or sign up for some study classes. There are ways to improve yourself, make yourself better, and regain your self-confidence in life.

    Be an independent, confident and happy woman.

    4. Make yourself better and meet a better him.

    When you have your own stable job, a regular income, and then your life is leisurely, you yourself become better in all aspects. This will naturally attract better men, and you will be able to give yourself the opportunity to meet a better one.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Propose to break up before getting married to prove that he doesn't love you that muchYou should still accept the breakup and try to adjust yourself

    Don't stalk each other

    Some people think that although he broke up with me on his own initiative, as long as I appear in front of him and keep sending him messages, he still has feelings for me, and one day he will be moved, and one day he will come back to me. This is a particularly wrong practice in redemption, and it should not exist.

    If everyone is like you, you can reunite after breaking the mirror, then many people don't have to worry about emotional things, then there is no irreparation, as long as you entangle each other, you can get the other party's back.

    Therefore, if he breaks up with you on his own initiative, don't think about constantly looking for each other, don't pester each other. Try to give each other some time and space for everyone to calm down for a while.

    Don't be pessimistic

    Many girls will become depressed after breaking up, one is that they feel that it is impossible for him to turn back, so they give up on themselves, give up on themselves, and overeat like crazy, causing their figure to become worse in an instant, and the other is that they are out of love, have no appetite, and are already very thin, because of the breakup, they don't drink or eat, resulting in their own skinny, and then they lock themselves up, don't communicate with the outside world, listen to some sad songs all day long, and look depressed all day long.

    You must learn to accept the fact of breaking up and learn to face all kinds of difficulties in order to overcome all kinds of difficulties. Otherwise, you can't even accept the fact of breaking up, not to mention all kinds of difficulties in your future. Don't be too pessimistic, pick yourself up again, get up after falling down, rebuild your beautiful life, and construct your own beautiful life circle.

    Don't put pressure on the other person

    Some people don't know how to repent until the day of the breakup, but once the other party says that they have broken up, they regret it and know that they have made a lot of mistakes before, so when the other party proposes to break up, they keep telling the other party: I will not make mistakes again in the future, I will definitely change in the future, give me another chance, etc.

    In fact, the other party will not say not to break up because of your words, because the other party has already given you a lot of opportunities, and you are just putting endless pressure on him. So, remember, break up, re-examine your mistakes, and use practical actions to correct, rather than verbal words to persuade the other party.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    is about to get married, and her boyfriend suddenly proposes to break up, which is not a good sign. I don't know what exactly this man thinks, but I do know that he is immature and immature with the person he is in love with this time, which may cause problems for your future. I think this issue is very important to you, you can't just entrust yourself to him, you have to be careful and think about it carefully.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Nowadays, young people generally have some fears before marriage, which is what we call premarital phobia, so it is easy to break up before marriage, so why is it easiest to break up before marriage? In fact, the main reason is that it is easier to be anxious before marriage, which creates insecurity for the future.

    In general, this phenomenon occurs more often in boys before marriage.

    When this sense of insecurity is too high, they will have the idea of breaking up, and if they do not take measures in time, it is likely that there will be a situation of escaping marriage.

    It is generally common because the preparation before marriage is too troublesome, sometimes it will lead to the situation that the boy does not want to get married, because there are many couples who are engaged and the time distance between marriage is relatively short, so there are many trivial things, plus the reason for the boy's work, it will invisibly cause him a kind of pressure, so that there is a phenomenon of breaking up before marriage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It can only show that your boyfriend doesn't love you, since he proposes to break up and doesn't love you anymore, even if you get married, you won't be happy, you should face the reality, give up on him, and meet someone who really loves you in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Then ask him if he really wants to break up. You've all gotten to this point. We're all getting married.

    I still want to break up. You can talk to him. Maybe he will feel that he can't give you happiness.

    I want to break up with you. Too much pressure. Want to relax.

    It's best to ask first.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Then you just break up. Don't recommend it in the future. You know what you should be. If you don't love, break up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Get married right away, your boyfriend proposes to break up, it's a good thing, since you don't want to get married, you have to know why.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you really don't want to marry him, don't force yourself to marry him, or you will regret it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think that if you analyze whether two people are suitable to be together, whether two people really have feelings, whether they really love each other, I believe that there is an answer to what to do.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. Propose to break up before getting married to prove that he doesn't love you that much, you should still accept the breakup and try to adjust yourself.

    I'm about to get married, but my boyfriend is proposing to break up, what should I do?

    Hello, we have seen your question and are looking for the answer for you, please wait a moment Propose a breakup before getting married to prove that he doesn't love you that much, you should still accept the breakup and try to adjust yourself.

    At this point, I gave up.

    They had each other, but there were some things he couldn't solve.

    Do you know there is a saying that the boyfriend said that he broke up, which means that he really wants to break up.

    It means that even if he marries you in the future, you will not get his love.

    Are you willing to continue this kind of biochemistry?

    I think it can be resolved, so why not! Everything is ready, like this.

    He talked to me and she cried.

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