The two families collapsed because of the bride price, is it still necessary to get married?

There is a very important thing when getting married, and that is the bride price.

The bride price in many places is very high, and some places even have a sky-high bride price, and now the pressure to take a daughter-in-law is very great, and some places require a house and a car, and they also want hundreds of thousands of bride price, which is unaffordable for many families.

If the two families collapse because of the bride price, then I don't think there is any need to get married, because if the bride price is not willing to pay, there is no need to get married. But if the bride price of the woman is too high, the man can't afford it, and there is no need to get married.

First, the sky-high price of the bride price.

Around me, I see that many people think that the bride price is too expensive, marrying a daughter-in-law will cost a lot of money, many families simply cannot afford such an expensive bride price, in some small places, the bride price will be more expensive, those places may be because it is more remote, marrying a daughter-in-law costs hundreds of thousands, many families may not have so much savings for a lifetime, I think the bride price is just a heart, should not be so expensive.

2. Bride price. I think the bride price is just the man's mind, if the man gives a high, just accept it, if the low two families can discuss, the bride price does not have to be too high, some places require a house and a car, but also hundreds of thousands, and even some places need a loan when they get married, some families have no savings, because it costs a lot of money to get married, for the family, the pressure is very great, and many places take out loans to get married, and after marriage, the woman needs to repay the loan with the man, I think it's very unfair to the woman.

III. Finally. Regardless of whether the bride price is high or not? As long as the two families talk together, if the two families collapse because of the bride price, it proves that it is not suitable, the bride price is just a test before marriage, if even this test can not pass, then there is no need to get married, marriage is a matter of two families, as the saying goes, the door is right, sometimes the door is right, it does not mean that the two families are in the money status of the door, it may be more compatible in some values, if even the bride price can not be negotiated, it should not be married.

I don't think it's necessary. Because this is a hard injury, if the parents of both rooms are more interested in the bride price and are unwilling to back down, then it is impossible to get married, and even if one party compromises, there will always be a stalk in the heart in the process of getting along after marriage.

The two families collapsed because of the bride price, I don't think there is any need to be together, after all, this matter is not good to talk about, and the life after marriage is even worse, and the second half of life is so long, you can't spend it in a quarrel all the time.

There is no need to get married at all, the reason is that after the bride price negotiation collapses, there are basically insurmountable contradictions in the families of both parties, even if they are reluctant to get married, the life after marriage is full of contradictions, and the happiness index is very low, so they can't get married.

Let's take it slow when we get married! There is no need to force yourself, if the other party does not match your own concept, you can quickly cut through the mess.

There's no need anymore. There is already an estrangement between the two parties, and even if they get married, they will not be happy, so there is no need to let yourself suffer such grievances.

There's no need, because the bride price talks have collapsed, and you can't compromise it, even if you get together later, it will become a pimple, and you will think about it when you quarrel and get angry.

There's no need for it. If there is such a big contradiction before marriage, there will be more and more contradictions between the two people after marriage, and they both want to protect their families, so the two people will go further and further.

There is no need to get married, because the bride price is the most basic sincerity, and if it can't be done, there is no need to continue.

Some families ask for a little more bride price for the sake of face, but the other party does not agree. So the two parties can't get along, and in this case, there is really no need to get married, which means that the two families have different economic strength or different concepts.

I don't think it's necessary. If you really love each other, you won't care about the bride price, since both parties have already valued money more than feelings, and it won't be interesting after marriage.

If the bride price talks collapse, I don't think it's necessary to get married, because the two families already have mustard in their hearts, and if they get married, the relationship between the two families will not be good, and the young couple will also have a lot of conflicts.

If the bride price talks collapse, there is no need to get married, after all, the two families have mustard in their hearts, and they are reluctant to be together in time, and this pimple will still be there in the future, and it will break out sooner or later.

There is no need to get married, if you are already very unhappy when you talk about the bride price, even after you get married, you will have a gap in your heart.

There is no need, if you can talk about it because of money, it means that there is no need to get married again.

Personally, I don't think there is any need to get married in such a situation, the two-part family is already very ugly, and if you get married again, it will only escalate the conflict in the future.

There's no need, because I'm struggling with this at work, and then I can't. In the end, it was not necessary.

I think it's necessary to get married, but you shouldn't pay too much attention to the bride price.

Either way, it's no longer necessary.

There are too many couples in real life who are about to get married at the end of the day.

Choosing to break up, if you want to say that it's a pity, it's fake, after all, it has reached the point of talking about marriage, it can be said that the relationship between the two people is very stable, and the parents of both sides are also satisfied with each other's other half, and they are going to happily enter the palace of marriage, but it is because of the bride price.

The problem is that the two families have collapsed, and there is really too much way for the relationship to continue after that. <>

Originally, a very good relationship finally came to this point, which must be something that no one wants to see, but many times there are some things that cannot be compromised or regressed. There may be many people who will say that the bride price is just a formality, and everyone doesn't need to care so much, just a little bit of meaning, because it's really a pity to let the two children break up; However, some people will feel that the bride price must not be compromised, which is not only a matter of the amount of the bride price, but more importantly, the loyalty of the other family's children to their children. <>

Therefore, it is uncertain whether everyone will choose to give in in the end, so I can't say whether there is a need to get married when the bride price talks between the two parties collapse. After all, it also depends on the attitude of the other party's family. Anyway, as far as I'm concerned, I don't care so much about the bride price, I think it's good as long as it's the same as the customs and habits on our side, and my family will also pay the same dowry, and in the end, the parents will give the money directly to their children, so I think it won't collapse.

Let me now share my opinion.

1. Enlighten both parents as much as possible. In a situation like this, the final outcome is nothing more than two kinds, one is that both parents choose to give in, whether both parties take a step back or one parent chooses to retreat, so that the two parties can at least sit together to discuss, so that the marriage is still settled. Therefore, try to enlighten both parents as much as possible to see if they can change their attitudes.

Second, they are unwilling to make concessions and can only separate. Of course, if both parents are unwilling to give in, the parents will not be able to pass this hurdle, and there will be no need for this marriage. If you insist on being together in such a situation, it will definitely make your parents sad, especially the woman's parents, I think this is not good, and it is really difficult to be happy in a marriage without the blessing of your parents.

I think it's better to postpone marriage, although the issue of the wedding bride price itself cannot be regarded as a necessary condition for marriage, but if you fall out because of money before you get married, then there will inevitably be more money-related things to quarrel after marriage, or calmly think about why the two people are together.

I think it is necessary to get married, because it is understood that the process of two people getting acquainted is not easy, China's population of 1.4 billion is very huge, and it is very difficult to find a wishful person from the population of 1.4 billion.

It is not necessary, because if you get married in this case, you will be particularly wronged in the future, and there will be constant conflicts in the future, so you should not get married.

I don't think there's any need to get married, because both parties don't have the same views on this marriage, and the relationship between two people can't stand the material test at all, and there is no point in persevering.

There is no need, because this bride price issue actually hurts the feelings of both parties, even if the two get married in the end, it is the kind of reluctance, and the relationship between the two is also cracked.

There is no need to get married, because in the case of a collapse of the negotiation, both parties have already formed a knot, and such a marriage has no meaning.

There is no need, quarrel over money before getting married, and there will definitely be big conflicts after marriage, so you should end the relationship as soon as possible.

There is no need, because the bride price is a very important thing in marriage, and if he breaks down the negotiation, he will not be happy after marriage.

It is necessary. I think that if the relationship between two people is very deep, the issue of bride price will not affect the relationship, and it should be talked about properly.

I think it's been to the point where it can't be mitigated. Then the two of them should break up. After all, if you have a pimple in your heart, it's weird for both parties to live together.

There is still no need to get married. At this point, it is useless to get married. There is already a gap between the two sides.

In this case, I don't think there is any need to get married, because there is no communication between the two families.

There is no need, the two parties can't get along, even if they get married, they will get divorced, and they will have grievances.

The bride price is an obstacle to marriage, an existence that is both unreasonable and illegal.

When facing marriage, many people are afraid to get married because of fear of marriage and distrust of the future, but there are also some people who have no way to get married because of the bride price. When I was a child, I didn't understand why two people who obviously loved each other couldn't be together? When they grew up, they realized that maybe it was not the mountains and rivers that stood in their way, but the prejudice between family members.

In fact, because of the bride price, there are many things that the two broke up in the end. In many cases, the man's family has no way to pay such a high bride price. And the woman's family has always wanted it, thinking that if you don't give such a bride price, it means that the man doesn't attach great importance to his daughter.

In addition, the people around me marry their daughters are all this standard, if you are not like them, if you don't marry your daughter, you will be bullied.

It is precisely because there are many relationships that have collapsed because of the bride price, and many people feel that since the relationship has collapsed because of the bride price, there is no need to continue talking. But in my opinion, wouldn't it be a shame if we weren't together just because of the bride price? So I think that even if the bride price talks collapse, the relationship can still continue, and even get married in the end.

My lover and I had some unhappiness with our parents because of the bride price at the beginning. The two of us worked hard to get through to our parents, and during this time, the two of us never said to give up. In fact, it is difficult at this time, because you are afraid that you will not get results in the end.

I'm even more afraid that when you are working hard, the other party chooses to give up.

Thankfully, my wife and I persevered. Our parents did not continue to stalemate over the bride price. Because both parents are thinking about their children, one side thinks that this bride price is just from the east and the west, but if you don't take a high bride price, it means that you don't pay attention to the child, so the woman is likely to be bullied if she marries.

The man's parents, on the other hand, feel how capable they are of how much they are able to do a lot of things, and if they need a high bride price, then they are likely to be in debt. If you save this money, you can also buy some things for the little couple or something. The most important thing is that if the wedding is held, it is already a large expense, plus the bride price, then it is very likely that the young couple will face the pressure of repayment as soon as they get married.

It can be said that both parents have their own ideas, so if the lover chooses to give up at this time, he is overwhelmed by the bride price. Maybe this right person will miss it forever and leave a lifetime of regrets. Therefore, I think that even if the bride price talks collapse, it is possible to get married, which is the premise that both parties love each other.

If the other party just wants to have a daughter for nothing, and the character is not good, it is only a matter of time before they are divided. If two people love each other deeply, then stick to it, because then the external force can make their love go further.

There's no need, marriage seems to be a matter of two people on both sides on the surface, but if you think about it carefully, it's also a matter of three families, and the talks have collapsed at this time, even if you get married, your husband and wife's personal relationship is good, but you have to go to both sides of the house, what do they think of you at that time? You can imagine.