I haven t gotten married and pregnant, and now my parents don t agree and don t know what to do

In fact, at this time, you don't have to be too anxious or too concerned in your heart, leave this matter to your boyfriend to solve, you have to understand that you are pregnant now, you must take care of yourself, eat and eat some good, no matter what the child is, you have to take care of your body is the most important, and I believe that as long as you and your boyfriend are really in love, he will definitely solve this problem by himself.

Because I don't quite understand why your parents don't get along, but I think it's also some relatively small trivial things, The most important thing for you now is to see if it's about the essence of your marriage, like for example, his parents don't agree, which is more difficult, because even if you marry in the past, his parents will not be too good to you, but this relationship can also be cultivated, after all, you are still pregnant with their child.

You can discuss it with your boyfriend, find an opportunity, and then everyone sits together and talks, so that everyone can talk about the problem and then solve it together, I believe that parents are more open now, they will not care too much about these, relax and don't be too nervous, as long as parents see the deep feelings between you, they will definitely be shaken, no parents don't want their children to be happy.

If in the end, the relationship between you really can't withstand the opinions of both parents, then you can only separate, as for the child, I think your parents will definitely want to beat him, but this is actually because they want you to live a better and easier life in the future, so don't blame them, as for the final choice, you are still based on your own heart, so at least you will not regret it, Don't hurt your heart because of this love, you have to believe that in the future, there will be a man who stands up to the sky and the earth and says to you, marry me, and don't disguise yourself as a hedgehog when the time comes, which will only hurt each other.

The woman's parents were ignorant and stupid, and let their daughter have sex with her fiancé without negotiating a good business price, but did not guide their daughter to do a good job of contraceptive protection, and the asking price was lowered when the daughter was pregnant. Although the man's parents were also ignorant, they came up with a trick and asked their son to make his fiancée's belly bigger first, forcing the woman's parents to take the initiative to reduce the price.

In fact, since the woman is pregnant, she will carefully enjoy her pregnancy interests and prepare to give birth to a cute and beautiful baby happily. Regardless of whether his parents disagree, he doesn't care about them and doesn't eat them. Heaven has given you this precious child, and you have to be doubly harsh.

Don't listen to other people's instructions and easily kill the little angel in your belly. You must know: if a woman has an abortion when she is pregnant with her first child, there is a possibility that she will never be able to conceive a child again.

There are many examples, so don't take the risk.

His parents will haggle over the bride price because you are pregnant.

So, it's you who suffers the most right now.

The parents of both sides have a falling out, and when you get married in the future, they will be embarrassed to meet, and you will be uncomfortable if you go through old accounts in case of trouble. So, do you know what to do?

Now pregnant, now pregnant, you and your boyfriend are pregnant now, are you and your boyfriend in love? If you really love each other and can't do without each other, it is good to persuade both parents to find a good and gentle path for their children. If the parents really have not been able to reconcile, then I advise you not to have this child, it is better to leave early.

First of all, ask both parents together, sit down and communicate well, parents understand each other for the happiness of their children, and your marriage will be happy.

If the relationship is good, seize the time to get married.

Otherwise, it won't look good when the belly is big.

Legal analysis: When the parents do not agree to get married when they are pregnant, they can communicate with the parents first to seek their understanding; If you can't communicate, you can bring your ID card and household registration book and other relevant documents to the relevant authorities to register for marriage formalities. Marriages in which the parents do not consent may be married as long as they comply with the law.

China's Civil Code stipulates that arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage are prohibited. Marriage shall be of complete free will between the man and the woman, and neither party shall be allowed to interfere with the other. According to the current Marriage Law of our country, when the parents of an unmarried pregnancy do not agree to marry, the man and woman can first communicate and negotiate with their parents to obtain the understanding of both parents; If you really can't communicate, you can go to the civil affairs bureau where your household registration is located to register for marriage formalities with your ID card and household registration booklet, ** and other relevant valid documents, because China implements freedom of marriage, and parents have no right to interfere.

Legal basis: Article 1046 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and it is forbidden for either party to force the other party or to interfere with it by any organization or individual.

When the parents do not agree to get married when they are pregnant, they can communicate with the parents first to seek their understanding; If you can't communicate, you can bring your ID card and household registration book and other relevant documents to the relevant authorities to register for marriage formalities. Article 1046 of the Civil Code [Voluntary Marriage] Marriage shall be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and it is forbidden for either party to force the other party, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere with it.

Article 1046 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and it is forbidden for either party to force the other party, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere with it. Article 1047 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women. Article 1048 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China prohibits marriage between lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered.

Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

If the parents who are pregnant do not agree to the marriage, the parties can get their household registration books and identity documents, and go to the relevant authorities to register and go through the marriage formalities, because our country implements freedom of marriage, and the parents cannot interfere with the marriage rights of the relevant persons, of course, the marriage procedures are more complicated and need to meet the conditions stipulated by the law.

1. The specific procedures for reissuing a marriage certificate are as follows:

If the parties lose or damage the Marriage Certificate, they may apply for the issuance of a Certificate of Relationship between Husband and Wife. It is necessary to present relevant documents and supporting materials to the marriage registration management authority of the district and county civil affairs bureau where the original marriage registration administration is located.

1. Proof of household registration (household registration card or household registration certificate), resident ID card (passport for those who go abroad). The names used must be consistent, and if they are inconsistent, they must be corrected by the police station and stamped; If the ID card or household registration card is lost, the original ID number certificate or household registration certificate issued by the police station and stamped with the seal of the police station must be returned.

2. Supporting letter. The contents include: name, gender, date of birth, when, where and with whom the marriage was registered, and the relationship between the two parties so far; Due to the loss of the marriage certificate, it is agreed to go to reapply for the certificate of relationship between husband and wife, and the unit will seal it.

It shall be issued by the personnel or labor department of the unit where the person's personnel file is located. Units without personnel and labor departments can be issued by the department in charge of personnel files; Military personnel shall be issued by political organs at or above the regimental level; For urban residents, it shall be issued by the competent department of the residents' committee or sub-district office; Rural villagers shall be issued by the villagers' committee; Personnel going abroad shall be issued by Chinese embassies and consulates abroad.

3. Proof of file checking. Contents: file number, names of both parties, gender, date of birth, marriage certificate number and registration date, and the full name of the undertaking authority, and the seal of the issuing department. The archiving department of the marriage registration file shall truthfully issue the certificate based on the records of the original marriage registration file.

4. Three recent three-inch half-length bareheaded flat paper photographs or three two-inch single portraits of both sides.

5. Personal Statement. Write down the reason, reason, and purpose of the application for reissuance on 16 sheets of paper, and indicate that all legal responsibilities caused by the lost marriage certificate shall be borne by yourself, and the signature shall be pressed and fingerprinted.

For a long time, everyone is more concerned about the opinions of parents, because after all, parents are our elders, and we should respect their opinions.