Planning a wedding boyfriend to break up?

If you want to get him back, you need to do the basics. A very important point is that communication, through the attitude of this boy to break up with you at the end, it can be seen that he actually has a lot of resentment towards you, and these resentments are not generated for a while, they must have been accumulated over the years between you, and now they finally can't bear it, so they broke out. For his resentment, if you don't eliminate it, then there will definitely be no way for you to be together.

And for you personally, the best and worst way to resolve grievances is to communicate. There is a lack of effective communication between you, which leads to a lot of misunderstandings about this guy, so if you want to get rid of your grievances, you should definitely have a good chat with him.

But how to make the other party chat without misunderstanding you, this requires you to improve your own communication skills, how to use non-violent methods to communicate, to empathize, this is a very important point you need to do when you recover. Do this well first, and then do other things to redeem.

Probably belongs to premarital phobia, all kinds of preparations before marriage are tiring and tiring, he suddenly lost confidence, he doesn't want to lose his previous free days--- he needs to communicate well and figure out the situation.

Honestly, such a decision was made. It's a little weird. Without warning.

Not a little. The imprint can be followed. In this case, it's best to ask your boyfriend in person what is causing the good communication?

I have to give you a reasonable explanation. But from my personal point of view. The advice given to you is that such a man is a bit autistic.

As you say, there is almost no communication with the outside world. You won't be very happy after you keep up with such a man? While you are not married now, it is best to think about it.

There must be a reason why they are ready to get married and propose to break up, I feel that a man like me is still good, at least he is responsible for the future, and it is also good for you, otherwise it will be a great harm to you if you get married and divorce. You have to accept this reality and reflect on it at the same time!

As the saying goes: the source has a head, the tree has a root, and everything has a reason. Since the two of you have reached this point, and he suddenly proposed to break up, it is indeed a bit puzzling, and I personally think you should still have a good chat with him to see what is going on, you can't just leave it like this for no reason.

If it doesn't work, just say that you agree to break up, but you have to let me die to understand, in short, make a decision after figuring out the reason.

It feels like there's definitely going to be a ** behind the scenes!

If you are going to get married and break up with you, it means that he really doesn't want to marry you, the girl is no big deal, and it is very important to find someone who loves you in life.

There must be a reason for this, or something that touches his bottom line. You still need to communicate clearly with him, it is useless to rely on others' persuasion, it is best for you to understand it yourself.

It's time to talk about marriage, suddenly cancel the wedding, it's more abnormal, let's talk about it, find the reason, marriage is not easy, if it's not a big problem, please stick to it! Bless you all!

In this case, you should communicate with your boyfriend, explain it in person, ask what is the reason, can you still communicate, and deal with it.

He already likes someone else, and you have no fate.

Are you sure he doesn't have an online relationship and has a normal sexual orientation?

There are many reasons for this kind of thing, the first of which may be a character problemWhen the wedding preparations are almost completed, and the man proposes to break up at this time, it is obvious that there is a big problem with his character, irresponsibility, love to lie, etc. As a man who wants to get married, he should shoulder a family responsibility on his shoulders, but he proposes to break up at this time, showing that this man is not mature, and it is very likely to be a man like Ma Bao Man or Phoenix Man, so that if a man does not marry, even if he gets married later, he may not be able to mature.

Another possibility is that this man is not marrying you out of lovemay be because of the pressure of family marriage, I have to choose to marry you, because I got married for the sake of marriage when I reached the marriageable age, but since he chose to prepare for the wedding with you and suddenly proposed to break up, this kind of backsliding behavior is also very irresponsible. This is a very selfish man, he proposed to break up because he suddenly chose to get married on a whim, and because he regretted getting married on a whim, this is a man who is not responsible at all, only considers his own feelings and does not mention that others consider men. There is only one's own joys, sorrows, and sorrows in one's heart, and there is no one else, even if you get married, your married life will not be very happy.

The last possibility is that the girl he once loved so much came back to him and got back together, He chose to break up with you because of this girl, first of all, it proves that he does not have you in his heart, he has never forgotten that girl from beginning to end, and marrying you is likely to be a kind of unwillingness, since between the two girls he chose another one and abandoned you, this kind of man also has problems, his approach is not single-minded and responsible, but naïve and irresponsible, the wedding preparations are nearing the end of the breakup, and he has never thought about marrying a girl with himself. So I just took this opportunity to break up with him, and it was not sweet to twist the melon, and after leaving him, I might meet a boy who loved me more.

All in all, this situation arisesWhatever the reason, it is a manifestation of men's irresponsibility.

It's possible that he never wanted to marry you.

It's basically done, either it's procrastination that can't be delayed anymore and finally opens up to break up, or it's fear of marriage. Either way, it's disgusting, and marrying is like eating flies, so think about it.

First, he may not be rushing to get married when he is dating you, and secondly, he doesn't love you at all, and third, he may have an ex who has appeared, and he can't forget him, so he can only choose to hurt you.

This timing was brought up suddenly, maybe he already had this idea, but now he can't hold it back, maybe he found that you are not suitable, but he has been hesitating, and he really wants to get married and let it go.

There are many reasons for this, perhaps because of his character, or because he may have something unspeakable.

That means your boyfriend is remorseful or has symptoms of fear of marriage, and whatever the reason is, you should sit down and talk to him before making the next move.